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Would you have a drink with dinner?

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Yes 33 100.00%
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What would you do???

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mrsyoungmommy
can't wait to meet Sophia!

Member since 6/10

1441 total posts

Name:
Danielle

What would you do???

Me and my bff are going out for dinner tonight to my fave restaurant, which happens to have my fave wine, which happens to be 1/2 price tonight.

I am 8-9DPO and tested this morning and got a BFN. My boobs hurt yesterday all day, and last night too, but I'm not sure if they hurt right now. I had some dry CM, and my mouth is very dry (idk if that means anything, I'm just noticing)

I just feel like if I don't drink, and I'm not PG, this will be another month and another time that I missed out on having my fave wine when out with friends (I haven't drank since TTC)

On the other hand, if I am PG, I am not sure I could live with the guilt of knowingly having a drink. I mean I wouldn't overdo it, maybe just a glass.

What would you do?

ets: CM hasn't dried up, it was just dried up on my undies this am, like more then normal (TMI, sorry)

Message edited 12/15/2010 7:42:01 AM.

Posted 12/15/10 7:39 AM
 

addingonemore
My family is complete <3

Member since 11/10

2037 total posts

Name:

Re: What would you do???

I would have a glass and enjoy. If you are pg, I believe it is still too early to be passing anything on to the baby. And one you get your BFP there will be plenty to give up so treat yourself this one last time Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 8:15 AM
 

MommaBear
Very much in love!

Member since 6/10

2864 total posts

Name:
Angela

Re: What would you do???

I had quite a few drinks before I got my BFP and so far the baby is just fine! Have a drink! If this is the month you won't be able to have another one for a very looooooooooong time! Enjoy, you deserve it!Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 8:19 AM
 

MrsPJB2007
MBA at your service!

Member since 7/06

12020 total posts

Name:
MJ

Re: What would you do???

Nothing wrong with having a drink during that 2ww.

I drank like a FISH a few days before I got a BFP -- because I had no idea I was preggo and we weren't trying.

You don't share blood with the baby until 6 wks -- so even if you were pregnant, it wouldn't affect the baby at all.

Go for it!

Posted 12/15/10 9:02 AM
 

kelkel09
Love my twins!!!

Member since 6/10

5183 total posts

Name:
K

Re: What would you do???

have a drink or 2 and enjoyChat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 9:05 AM
 

BabyLoveBug143
Alyssa Rose is here!!!

Member since 9/10

3288 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: What would you do???

Def have a drink! i went out for drinks with my friend a few days before i got my bfp...
think of it this way!! it could be the last time you have a drink for a while!! enjoy it cuz whne you can't have it you want it more!!

Posted 12/15/10 9:13 AM
 

Nicoley89
LIF Adolescent

Member since 9/10

623 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: What would you do???

Def drink & enjoy yourself tonight...If you don't your just adding extra stress to yourself... it's too early for it to affect the baby anyway... go have some fun!

Posted 12/15/10 9:18 AM
 

RocPin
Life's Beachy <3

Member since 2/08

6765 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: What would you do???

The TWW doesn't keep me from my favorite wineChat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 9:20 AM
 

MrsPenthouse
LIF Adult

Member since 11/10

924 total posts

Name:

Re: What would you do???

ENJOY yourself!!! Could be your last time for a while! Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 9:33 AM
 

springsandra
Baby girl has a baby brother!

Member since 11/09

7155 total posts

Name:
Sandra

Re: What would you do???

First thing my DH told me to ask the doctor about when I got my BFP was the hard cider I had while we were in Ireland (ONE GLASS, mind you)... I was actually like 5 weeks PG when we were there but didn't know because my cycles were so long and irregular.

My doctor told me that the baby isn't "sharing" with you until 6 weeks, so there's nothing wrong with drinking before you know you're PG.

There is something wrong with letting fine wine and dining with a friend go to waste, though!!! So get out there and enjoy and be confident that there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you're doing!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 9:56 AM
 

CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts

Member since 9/10

1531 total posts

Name:
Cathy

Re: What would you do???

Posted by springsandra

First thing my DH told me to ask the doctor about when I got my BFP was the hard cider I had while we were in Ireland (ONE GLASS, mind you)... I was actually like 5 weeks PG when we were there but didn't know because my cycles were so long and irregular.

My doctor told me that the baby isn't "sharing" with you until 6 weeks, so there's nothing wrong with drinking before you know you're PG.

There is something wrong with letting fine wine and dining with a friend go to waste, though!!! So get out there and enjoy and be confident that there is absolutely nothing wrong with what you're doing!!!! Chat Icon


ITA!! Have a glass with your good friend and enjoy!
I hope this is your month!!

Posted 12/15/10 9:59 AM
 

DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

Member since 7/09

18802 total posts

Name:
DiamondMama

Re: What would you do???

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Nothing wrong with having a drink during that 2ww.

I drank like a FISH a few days before I got a BFP -- because I had no idea I was preggo and we weren't trying.

You don't share blood with the baby until 6 wks -- so even if you were pregnant, it wouldn't affect the baby at all.

Go for it!



ITA with this Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 10:05 AM
 

MillerTime424
LIF Adolescent

Member since 7/09

737 total posts

Name:
Colleen

Re: What would you do???

def have a drink dont stop until you get the BFP!

Posted 12/15/10 11:08 AM
 

jasmine
little boy blue <3

Member since 10/10

1475 total posts

Name:
x

Re: What would you do???

have a drink and enjoy!

Posted 12/15/10 11:14 AM
 

Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!

Member since 12/08

11013 total posts

Name:

Re: What would you do???

Enjoy yourself! Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 12:01 PM
 

WishingforBaby
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1110 total posts

Name:

Re: What would you do???

i drank a good couple glasses of wine the weekend before we found out I was PG. My doctor said it's not a problem.

Posted 12/15/10 12:44 PM
 

gina409
TWINS!

Member since 12/09

27635 total posts

Name:
g

Re: What would you do???

drink up and enjoy!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 12:58 PM
 

azailia
He's TWO already!!!

Member since 9/09

1507 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: What would you do???

Posted by gina409

drink up and enjoy!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



yup yup!!!Chat Icon

Posted 12/15/10 9:02 PM
 
 
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