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What would be your ideal birth experience

Forum Opinion Poll
Vaginal birth - no drugs 11 26.83%
Vaginal birth - with drugs 24 58.54%
C-Section 6 14.63%
 

What is your ideal birth??

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Lizzy
Carson's Mama

Member since 2/08

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Elisabeth

What is your ideal birth??

Last night we took dinner to a friend who had her baby last week and she had a vaginal birth. My friend Karri was over as well and she recently had a C-section. They were comparing "battle wounds" and trying to figure out which was easier to recover from.

Just from listening to them talk, it almost seemed like the C-Section was easier -- no hemroids, episiotomy recovery, vaginal swelling, etc...

What would be your preference?

Posted 7/23/08 1:50 PM
 

kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

Member since 6/06

13519 total posts

Name:
Kerry

Re: What is your ideal birth??

def. vaginal with drugs

Posted 7/23/08 1:53 PM
 

ARIELSMOM
Love my Babes

Member since 8/05

5889 total posts

Name:
MEREDITH

Re: What is your ideal birth??

vag with epi after a very short labor

Posted 7/23/08 1:55 PM
 

Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!

Member since 8/05

20181 total posts

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Re: What is your ideal birth??

Posted by ARIELSMOM

vag with epi after a very short labor



Same here

Posted 7/23/08 1:55 PM
 

neener1211
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Member since 4/07

22952 total posts

Name:
J

Re: What is your ideal birth??

Ideal? Have my DH give birth for me.

I'll settle for Vag with/without drugs.

Posted 7/23/08 1:56 PM
 

hmm8191
My loves

Member since 3/06

2908 total posts

Name:
Heather

Re: What is your ideal birth??

I'd like to be able to deliver w/o drugs but I'm no hero and will take them if needed.

Posted 7/23/08 1:58 PM
 

JennZ
MY LIFE!!

Member since 8/05

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Re: What is your ideal birth??

Im not trying to be a hero, vaginal with the drugs. Think Murphy Brown.

DRUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 7/23/08 1:58 PM
 

mamabear
LIF Adult

Member since 3/08

4539 total posts

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Re: What is your ideal birth??

I really want to do a vaginal with no drugs. The scariest part for me is the epi for 2 main reasons. I'm terrified of not being able to move or feel my legs. i freak at the loss of control that way. Second, I have had major spinal surgery and my spine is fused from T5 to L3. My spinal doctor says that an epi can be done on me, but that the person doing it might be nervous and it might be much harder to do on me because there is really no space between the vertebrae. But, it looks like I might have to have a c-section, and I really don't want general cause then I would miss my Chat Icon being born, and I want to hear that first cry so bad. So, I will have to deal with the epi.

Posted 7/23/08 1:59 PM
 

meniasta
Mommy of 2

Member since 6/06

1339 total posts

Name:
M

Re: What is your ideal birth??

Posted by kerrycec03

def. vaginal with drugs






ditto

Posted 7/23/08 1:59 PM
 

DeniseMarie
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Member since 8/07

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Re: What is your ideal birth??

Ideal - would be no pain and no drugs! but since those do not go hand in hand.....

I am nervous for the epi only bc it scares me. So I really wanted no drugs but have a feeling I will have one. I really dont know what to expect pain wise.

I am obsessed with watching a baby story and what I see - the woman with the epi have ok births, nice and quiet and just push the baby out. The woman without the epi's are screaming like the devil!

Posted 7/23/08 2:02 PM
 

NinaLemon
It's a boy!!!

Member since 10/07

6453 total posts

Name:
Jeannine

Re: What is your ideal birth??

How come 'quick and painless' isn't a poll option????

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Posted 7/23/08 2:04 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: What is your ideal birth??

Posted by NinaLemon

How come 'quick and painless' isn't a poll option????

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Neither is having the baby "beamed up". So much for my Vulcan up-bringing.

Message edited 7/23/2008 2:08:57 PM.

Posted 7/23/08 2:08 PM
 

Lizzy
Carson's Mama

Member since 2/08

2430 total posts

Name:
Elisabeth

Re: What is your ideal birth??

I am obsessed with watching a baby story and what I see - the woman with the epi have ok births, nice and quiet and just push the baby out. The woman without the epi's are screaming like the devil!



Me too! I love Baby Story, listening to people's real life experiences and LIF's birth stories. I can't get enough of them!

I know we have no control over our births but I want to know as much as possible so I make the right choices to be one of those "nice and quiet and just push the baby out" mommies! Chat Icon

Posted 7/23/08 2:13 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: What is your ideal birth??

Posted by Lizzy

I am obsessed with watching a baby story and what I see - the woman with the epi have ok births, nice and quiet and just push the baby out. The woman without the epi's are screaming like the devil!



Me too! I love Baby Story, listening to people's real life experiences and LIF's birth stories. I can't get enough of them!

I know we have no control over our births but I want to know as much as possible so I make the right choices to be one of those "nice and quiet and just push the baby out" mommies! Chat Icon



DH flat out told me he would mock me senseless if I screamed - and I know he would. Epidural for me.

Most of the "A Baby Story"'s have been filmed in the NY/NJ area. My favorites are the ones from Brooklyn where the women are cursing like sailors with the thick NY accent and lots of bleeps.

Posted 7/23/08 2:17 PM
 

SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!

Member since 12/05

20105 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: What is your ideal birth??

Ideally - vaginal with no drugs. I am doubtful this will happen. But I can live in my ideal word for now!

Posted 7/23/08 2:24 PM
 

pjay
YAY! I CAN WRITE HERE....

Member since 5/07

1551 total posts

Name:
PJAY

Re: What is your ideal birth??

i would love to give birth in water! but i guess i'll have to settle for vag w/ drugs------

Posted 7/23/08 2:29 PM
 

Xelindrya
Mommy's little YouTube Star!

Member since 8/05

14470 total posts

Name:
Veronica

Re: What is your ideal birth??

Mr Spock beaming the baby out painlessly

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Posted 7/23/08 2:32 PM
 
 

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