What do you think ladies...

Dh and i are itching to try again. we have had such a romantic and fun filled weeked and I want to try. I know I havent a cycle pass since the MC on 1/30 but do you think im crazy. Im on the fence with this one. I feel like if i get a BFP and something goes wrong i will blame my self. then again you never know mircales happen as some have proven on here. I was only 7w5d when i had teh MC bleeding stopped on 2/5 and my HCG levels went back to zero immediately they were only 5,000 to begin with. I know people say dont rush.. but this is also comming from people who already have one child. So please tell me im out of my mind or go for it. Or cool down missy. Maybe i should take a cold shower. LOL

Re: What do you think ladies...

Posted by sweetbabydreams

Dh and i are itching to try again. we have had such a romantic and fun filled weeked and I want to try. I know I havent a cycle pass since the MC on 1/30 but do you think im crazy. Im on the fence with this one. I feel like if i get a BFP and something goes wrong i will blame my self. then again you never know mircales happen as some have proven on here. I was only 7w5d when i had teh MC bleeding stopped on 2/5 and my HCG levels went back to zero immediately they were only 5,000 to begin with. I know people say dont rush.. but this is also comming from people who already have one child. So please tell me im out of my mind or go for it. Or cool down missy. Maybe i should take a cold shower. LOL

Re: What do you think ladies...

BUt i dont really know what my gut says. argh

Re: What do you think ladies...

Do what feels right to you and your DH. If it were me my head would be saying to listen to the Dr. but I know my heart would be in the same plac yours is. You do what is good for you guys..We are all here for you no matter what! GL

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I know how you feel. I think I'm gonna wait till my cycle comes back again. I'm also scared that it could happen again too, but we have to take our chances. My doctor told me that MC is very common in first pregnancies. When I had my D&C my doctor told me that she had performed quite a few of them in the past few weeks. I was also told that we are very fertile now at this time! We just need to be brave and do what our hearts tell us to do. Good luck with your decision!

Message edited 2/18/2008 11:27:47 PM.

Re: What do you think ladies...

Perhaps you should wait one full cycle..You're almost there, a couple more weeks
This way you're sure everything is back to normal, you get your period and then you date the conception a little easier.

But if it happens before then, it happens I know it's hard, you want to jump back in and get that baby. My husband was the same way, he was ready right after my first miscarriage.

Good Luck!

Re: What do you think ladies...

Do exactly what you feel comfortable doing - ask any ob/gyn and they will tell you that getting pregnant so quickly after having a natural m/c at 7.5 weeks will NOT increase your chance for another miscarriage.

You are exactly in the position I was in - I miscarried naturally at 7.5 weeks. The bleeding stopped and DH and I didn't use any precautions, and a week later we conceived our fiesty, spirited little munchkin.

Good luck in whatever you decide!

Re: What do you think ladies...

Go with what feels right for you and DH.

Re: What do you think ladies...

I knowit seems like now is the time, but (if it were me) I would wait one cycle, let everything get out of me and then try again. Of course nextmonth seems like forever now, but giving yourself the chance at a healthy PG is worth the wait. Good Luck

Here's some babydust for whenever you decide to try

Re: What do you think ladies...

Thanks ladies.. Well i fell asleep on DH. LOL i feel horrible. BUt he understands. Im so tired and working nights is crazy. So ill be working tonight and then he works the next 3 and then im back to wrok for 4 so we will dodge each other for a little bit and then that cycle will be here. Ill wait for one but 2 i think is gonna be tough. LOl but im gonna try. Im sure its gonna be some crazy bd going on in our new home that we close on in 1 week. YIPPIE

Re: What do you think ladies...

Do what you feel is right for you and your husband

Re: What do you think ladies...

Do whatever you feel comfortable with. I will be trying again right away. I stocked up on OPKs & we're going to be starting in a few days as soon as the bleeding is completely gone. If you are worried, then wait it out a cycle, but if you're sure you are ready to try now go for it. Good luck

Re: What do you think ladies...

You have to do what you're comfortable with. Personally, I believe if you're body allows it to happen - it's meant to be.

When I miscarried I debated what to do and then ended up having unprotected sex pretty much right after I stopped bleeding. I didn't get pg again for a few months (my 3rd cycle after the m/c) so I guess that's when it was meant to be.