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what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

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mrsBLT
missing my baby

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what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

our close friends just had a baby (their first via c-section) this morning. we went to see the baby this afternoon and are going back tomorrow afternoon to visit. they said they don't need anything, but i'm sure there is something they aren't thinking of/will want tomorrow/etc. what do you suggest? tia!

Posted 12/30/12 5:47 PM
 
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skinny
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Momma

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Food. GC to a t=restautant w/ delivery/ take out. Frozen meals that they can heat and eat.

Posted 12/30/12 6:03 PM
 

LSP2005
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L

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Posted by skinny

Food. GC to a t=restautant w/ delivery/ take out. Frozen meals that they can heat and eat.



ITA!!! If she is nursing, then nothing with tomatoes as that can cause the baby discomfort. But the best gift I got was meals from my friends after coming home from the hospital.

Posted 12/30/12 6:12 PM
 

Champ
2 little ladies

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Rose

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

food!!!

and a promise that you will clean her bathroom and kitchen in 2 weeks Chat Icon

as first time parents, we found that there was no way to really prepare for how much things really did change.

Message edited 12/30/2012 6:17:26 PM.

Posted 12/30/12 6:15 PM
 

missfabulous
#mommyneedswine

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Colleen

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Definitely food!

Posted 12/30/12 6:16 PM
 

walkintomymind
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Sarah

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

I wish people brought me food! I try to make all new Moms I know something they can heat/freeze because I would have LOVED that!

Even in the hospital, the food wasn't awful, but I would have killed for a Snapple and an egg sandwich! Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/12 6:23 PM
 

aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

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Ali

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Posted by skinny

Food. GC to a t=restautant w/ delivery/ take out. Frozen meals that they can heat and eat.



PERFECT idea!

Posted 12/30/12 6:26 PM
 

butterfly20
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what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

I wish people brought me food or giftcards....

il's would have brought takeout but we didnt have visitors the first 8 weeks

Posted 12/30/12 6:27 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Food for sure....not so much in the hospital, but for when I got home. Def not able or any desire to cook when you get home, esp if you had a csection.

Posted 12/30/12 6:39 PM
 

mrsBLT
missing my baby

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Brittany

what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

awesome, thanks!

Posted 12/30/12 6:45 PM
 

whoababy1
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what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Food that can be heated from the freezer.
Bonus: if whatever you give them is cooked in throw away tins (no dishes to clean and no pressure to keep track of things to return to people).

Someone to come and clean the kitchen/bathroom 2 weeks or so later is great suggestion from PP. I would have LOVED that,

Posted 12/30/12 7:27 PM
 

spooks
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Sarah

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Yes - food! Food that is easy to freeze or will stay a day or two.

Posted 12/30/12 7:45 PM
 

gina409
TWINS!

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g

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

food and drinks..i was so thirsty before the c section i would have drank my urine bag if they let meChat Icon

Posted 12/30/12 8:08 PM
 

MommaG
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Gloria

what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

Also, someone to watch the baby while I slept (day or night). I was so sleep deprived for weeks after (especially after DH went back to work) sleep was what I wanted more than anything.

Posted 12/30/12 11:35 PM
 

2BadSoSad
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Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

letting them sleep, if only for an hour!

Posted 12/31/12 12:12 AM
 

MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS

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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

FOOD!!!!

Trust me!!!

Posted 12/31/12 10:03 AM
 

Sparrow
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Re: what did you need/want the day after having your dc?

All of the above are GREAT suggestions! I 100% agree with food, really of any type! Freezer meals, things to "pick on" (cheese/cracker/sausage type things), a cut up fresh fruit platter if they like fruit. If you're close enough with them, I'd offer to come watch baby so mom and dad can sleep, or to help mom out at home after dad goes back to work (if that is the situation and she doesn't have other help). I know when DH went back to work after a week and I was MAJORLY sleep deprived, I would kill for someone to come and tend to the baby for an hour or two so I could just sleep or take a shower in peace!

Posted 12/31/12 10:12 AM
 
 

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