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JDC112010
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We are officially going...
Team Green 
This also means I will be banning DH from doctors appointments because I feel that if I don't know, no one knows. He'll blow it and it will cause me to punch him in the face.
This is sooo not like me to not know, but I have to do it for this.
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LightUpMyLife
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Re: We are officially going...
How would he know if he goes to the office visits? I can't imagine not having my DH there sharing in those moments. Looking at what we created. If you are worried about the sono tech, have her angle the screen so neither of you can see until it is set. 
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| Posted 4/7/11 8:51 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: We are officially going...
yeah honestly if it meant not having my DH at sonos with me, i wouldn't be team . id rather have him there to see what we created!!
how will he know - is he a doctor or sono tech??
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| Posted 4/7/11 8:55 PM |
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JDC112010
He's my hamball :)
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Jessica
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Re: We are officially going...
Posted by FlowerWife
yeah honestly if it meant not having my DH at sonos with me, i wouldn't be team . id rather have him there to see what we created!!
how will he know - is he a doctor or sono tech??
he says he's going to ask the doctor to know and be a nag about it, he then tells me he wants to tell people. personally, i don't. i want a surprise and i believe he will love the idea and thank me later.
the reason why we can go team green is we live in a one bedroom apartment - we do not have a room to set up or anything fancy, so there's no urgency to know. most of our family encourages not knowing. I had already promised we can find out on number 2, i'm sure we'll be in a house by then so yes, I would love to have room set up accordingly. but for now, i really really really really feel a surprise is the way to go for Number 1.
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| Posted 4/7/11 9:13 PM |
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drwifettc
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Re: We are officially going...
I looove being team green, but I wouldn't do it if it meant he couldn't come to the sonos. Honestly, he can likely nag the doctors all he wants. If you tell them you don't want to know then they won't tell him. Or you can always pull the when you carry around the baby in your uterus and then push the baby out you can decide all you want. I haven't used that card yet, but I would if I needed to, haha.
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| Posted 4/7/11 9:18 PM |
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JDC112010
He's my hamball :)
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Jessica
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Re: We are officially going...
Posted by drwifettc
I looove being team green, but I wouldn't do it if it meant he couldn't come to the sonos. Honestly, he can likely nag the doctors all he wants. If you tell them you don't want to know then they won't tell him. Or you can always pull the when you carry around the baby in your uterus and then push the baby out you can decide all you want. I haven't used that card yet, but I would if I needed to, haha.
I haven't permanently banned DH from sonos ('m raging, i say things i more than likely don't mean), but I won't have him harassing my doctors about it. and honestly I do feel I'm the one carrying it, I was the one being pushy with TTC and he showed no interest in things until i finally got pregnant. I don't like the idea of him knowing and not me. either we both know, or not know. and since he gets his way with most of our decision making, it's time to let me have something.
Message edited 4/7/2011 9:26:28 PM.
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| Posted 4/7/11 9:25 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: We are officially going...
honestly - it sounds like the two of you need to come to an agreement. youre having a kid together so theres LOTS AND LOTS of decisions you will have to make as a team from now on. if that means one of you has to give in, then so be it. if you feel that strongly about team then he will just have to give in. that's part of being a team and a partnership. IMO banning him from sonos is not a solution. you need to continue to have rational discussions until one of you just gives in to the other. having a baby should be something that you both enjoy together, don't let nonsense like team ruin the bonding experience you will have when you see your baby bouncing around on the sono!!! its not worth it!!
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| Posted 4/7/11 9:45 PM |
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JulyMommy2Be
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Christina
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Re: We are officially going...
awww i give you alot of credit! i couldn't wait to find out! good luck being team
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| Posted 4/7/11 9:55 PM |
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JDC112010
He's my hamball :)
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Jessica
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Re: We are officially going...
Posted by MiracleJulyBaby11
awww i give you alot of credit! i couldn't wait to find out! good luck being team
it's gonna be a challenge for me, but I have to have at least ONE surprise in my life. I already told DH I will be more than willing to find out for number 2.
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| Posted 4/7/11 10:28 PM |
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Mimms
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Yay!!! Team is so much fun!
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