LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Posted By Message

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Hi ladies.

I posted last week (wednesday) that AF came early (she showed up at 9dpo, 3 days early). Well I thought it was AF but it ended up being some very light spotting that only lasted a day or two. It was def. not my normal AF at all.

So I am sitting here waiting for AF... she is technically late now! I am never ever ever late. I am at 16dpo and I decided to take a HPT and it was negative. However, I don't know if its my head doing this to me but I have very very tender bb's & I am very very tired. I also have had cramping since about 6dpo, mainly at night.

I am so confused and annoyed. The first month TTC and my body of all a sudden is thrown so out of whack Chat Icon I dont know what to think and I dont know if I should treat that spotting as AF or not.

Here is my chart

Chart

Thanks for letting me vent!Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/10 9:02 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

Pray4Baby2010
<3 Cutest Giants Fan

Member since 10/09

5796 total posts

Name:
MB

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

i have the worst time opening charts at work- never works so I cant look at that but just wanted to say a lot of people's first ttc cycles are kind of wacky- try not to get discouraged- its just your body's way of regulating itself and preparing you for pregnancy Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/10 9:34 AM
 

BabyFever10
St. Gianna Pray for us

Member since 9/09

1326 total posts

Name:

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

I would think it was AF - just very light. The reason im thinking that is b/c your temps dropped and if you were prg they would stay high

Posted 3/2/10 9:36 AM
 

DSLaff
Team One of Each

Member since 10/09

2150 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

i am sorry hun. I totally think its your body adjusting: all the meds and everythng your body went through these past two months can def throw your whole cycle off. lots of hugs and good thoughts coming your way Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/10 9:37 AM
 

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Posted by BabyFever10

I would think it was AF - just very light. The reason im thinking that is b/c your temps dropped and if you were prg they would stay high



Thats what I thought too! I think I am going to treat that as AF and start my next cycle there.

Thanks

Posted 3/2/10 9:41 AM
 

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Posted by DSLaff

i am sorry hun. I totally think its your body adjusting: all the meds and everythng your body went through these past two months can def throw your whole cycle off. lots of hugs and good thoughts coming your way Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I was thinking that too but I actually did not take any pain meds at all in the month of February (actually maybe once). But you are probably right Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/10 9:52 AM
 

WishingforBaby
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1110 total posts

Name:

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Don't know why but my cycle changed when we started TTC too. Went from average 26 day cycles to now averaging 29. Chat Icon It does happen although incredibly frustrating!

When you thought you got AF, was it dark red??

Posted 3/2/10 4:49 PM
 

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Posted by WishingforBaby

Don't know why but my cycle changed when we started TTC too. Went from average 26 day cycles to now averaging 29. Chat Icon It does happen although incredibly frustrating!

When you thought you got AF, was it dark red??



Not at all. It was brownish or light light pink with alot of CM (sorry TMI). It was SO light. It lasted not even 2 days. Normally AF lasts for 5-6 days and its usually out of control!

I just split my cycle on FF but before I did that i noticed that my temp did drop on the 9DPO but it never went back down to the pre ovulation temps. It is not very high though, not sure if that matters.

I feel like a crazy person because I have never felt my bb's this sore and been this crazy tired in my life. I was nauseas alot yesterday and couldnt eat but today I am better and ate alot!

I have no idea what is going on! I have enough symptoms to make me feel crazy and I dont know what I should do for this upcoming cycle. Maybe I should skip this month

Message edited 3/2/2010 5:12:59 PM.

Posted 3/2/10 5:04 PM
 

WishingforBaby
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1110 total posts

Name:

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

See, I know other girls are saying to consider that AF, but it's only considered AF if it is dark red...from what I understand. Brown = old blood.

Have you been testing with FMU? I don't want to get you excited over something that may be nothing, but I don't know what to think. When did you last test?

Posted 3/2/10 5:12 PM
 

WishingforBaby
LIF Adult

Member since 10/09

1110 total posts

Name:

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Also, when I used to temp (gave it up, stressed me out too much overanalyzing) sometimes my temp would drop before AF and sometimes it wouldn't. I think that's interesting that yours has NOT dropped to pre-ovulation temps.

Message edited 3/2/2010 5:24:39 PM.

Posted 3/2/10 5:13 PM
 

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Posted by WishingforBaby

See, I know other girls are saying to consider that AF, but it's only considered AF if it is dark red...from what I understand. Brown = old blood.

Have you been testing with FMU? I don't want to get you excited over something that may be nothing, but I don't know what to think. When did you last test?




Tested this morning with FMU and it was negative!

I also noticed today besides from really sore BB's they are so itchy too.

Its enough to drive me insane Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/10 5:15 PM
 

gporka23
:)

Member since 11/08

3783 total posts

Name:
:)

Re: Very confused!! and annoyed!!!

Posted by WishingforBaby

Also, when I used to temp (gave it up, stressed me out too much overanalyzing) sometimes my temp would drop before AF and sometimes it wouldn't. I think that's interesting that yours has dropped to pre-ovulation temps.



I agree temping makes me analyze everything. I think I am going to stop doing it for a bit. Thanks for your help Chat Icon

Posted 3/2/10 5:19 PM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Sooooo annoyed MrsMaz 6/9/05 1 Home
Car shopping - I am so confused. MrsR 5/20/05 12 Families Helping Families ™
So annoyed with DH.... ChristineR 5/19/05 4 Families Helping Families ™
Talk About Being CONFUSED.. UPDATED megsmom 5/17/05 14 TTC
I'm completely confused and frustrated...a week late and no BFP CookiePuss 5/17/05 10 TTC
I'm so confused.... Susan 5/13/05 8 TTC
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 680472 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows