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tricky nanny situation

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headoverheels
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tricky nanny situation

(for those who don't know my younger sister is my nanny)

so today she shows up at my house and tells me she has pinkeye. i send her home, and she goes to the doctor. the eye doctor tells her it's not pinkeye, her eye is red b/c her contacts are too small and she sleeps with her eyes open (how he knows this i have NO idea Chat Icon )

so she calls me at work to tell me this, and offers to take DS. i decline, saying that he is sleeping and if i need her help i will call her later. she said okay, and sounded fine with that arrangement.

but the truth is that i wanted to be 100% sure that she doesn't have pinkeye before she watches DS again.

to make a long story short (i know, too late Chat Icon) what do you do when your nanny? do you still pay them for that day?

ETA: i am asking this because in her mind, afte rher doctor visit, she was perfectly capable of taknig DS for today).

Message edited 12/24/2008 2:12:00 PM.

Posted 12/24/08 2:10 PM
 
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Re: tricky nanny situation

I do not have a nanny..but I think maybe you should pay her..she did offer to take him. But I'm sure whatever you decide it will be fine...She is your sister!Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/08 2:14 PM
 

Stacey1403
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Re: tricky nanny situation

Since it is Christmas Eve and she is your sister I would probably pay her. I would have a talk with her for the future though. Maybe give her a set amount of sick/personal time.

Posted 12/24/08 2:14 PM
 

julz33
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Re: tricky nanny situation

I don't have a nanny, but this is what I would do. I would decide on a set number of sick days per year that would be paid (like a real job would give you). That seems fair to me!
Since it is Christmas, I would probably still pay her today, but use it is an opportunity to discuss the future sick time pay.

Posted 12/24/08 2:16 PM
 

Salason
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Re: tricky nanny situation

Posted by Stacey1403

Since it is Christmas Eve and she is your sister I would probably pay her. I would have a talk with her for the future though. Maybe give her a set amount of sick/personal time.



ITA. I have a nanny and she's taken two half sick days so far and I've paid her. We never discussed the # of sick days but she doesn't abuse it so I haven't felt the need to.

Posted 12/24/08 2:22 PM
 

headoverheels
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Re: tricky nanny situation

Posted by Salason

Posted by Stacey1403

Since it is Christmas Eve and she is your sister I would probably pay her. I would have a talk with her for the future though. Maybe give her a set amount of sick/personal time.



ITA. I have a nanny and she's taken two half sick days so far and I've paid her. We never discussed the # of sick days but she doesn't abuse it so I haven't felt the need to.



i like the idea of paid sick days!

and she is jewish so she doesn't care that its christmas Chat Icon

thanks ladies Chat Icon

Posted 12/24/08 2:30 PM
 

InShock
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Re: tricky nanny situation

I would pay my nanny in this situation.

Posted 12/24/08 2:43 PM
 
 

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