and i'm not upset. Things happen for a reason. If I had a baby right now I don't know what we would do. We didn't sell the house (like we thought we would have) DH is not working (we thought the company he was in was going to keep him) and to be honest, financially, we are not as well off as we were 9 months ago. Plus, I again have been having some medical issues. (would I have them if I were pg- don't know)
The point i'm trying to make is that things happen for a reason. I've read several posts where the girls are just defeated. It's hard to accept things but things will happen when they are supposed to happen. I truly believe that.