Stressing out

I know I have not been around in a while, but things are getting stressful. I have been off my BCP since July and for the past 2 months I have been using CBEFM. So here I am 8 months later and no pregnancy.

It is funny b/c being on this site I see how long it takes couples to get pregnant and where I work a lot of the ladies took 1 to 2 years to get pregnant. However, where my DH works, everyone is getting pregnant on the first shot. So needless to say, this is causing issues b/c now he sees everyone else getting pregnant and we are not, so he feels there is a problem.

Now this is making me think, maybe there is a problem? Maybe I am dong something wrong? Maybe it will never happen?

I when I am ovulating, or at least when the monitor tells me I am... I do not know what else I should do!

Should I go to the doctor and get tested? should DH go get tested? Should he go first than when he finds out he is normal, should I then go? Should I just get DH and I to relax and wait or should I jump the gun and talk to the doctor? I dunno if I am coming or going!

Thanks for letting me ven

Re: Stressing out

It can't hurt to see your doctor and talk to them. I did this since it's been 6 months with nothing. My doctor said to wait until 6 months (I called at 5).

Re: Stressing out

I know they say it can take a couple a year or longer to get pregnant but it never hurts to see a doctor!

if there is an issue then finding out earlier is better! Good luck

Re: Stressing out

I am on month 10 and still here too

There is no harm in seeing a doc a little earlier than the year mark. We started testing with an RE last month.