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Mommyof2
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Emily
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Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Who lets things slide and who doesn't?
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Posted 5/17/06 10:27 PM  |
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Eva Luna
Be kind...life's hard!
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God, bless & heal my DH, JenG's DH Rob & DebG
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
We don't have kids yet...but I already know it'll be me. DH acts tough, but he's a huge softie with kids!
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:28 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
We both do but they take DH more seriously (because he's bigger).
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:28 PM |
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DebG
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
we discussed this and we decided DH will be doing it.
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:29 PM |
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Eva Luna
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by DebG
we discussed this and we decided DH will be doing it.
I love that answer!! 
My DH is obviously interested in "discussing" other more pressing things!
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:30 PM |
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Tany
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Tania
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
me, although our daughter is still very little.
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:30 PM |
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Redhead
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Jennifer
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by Mommyof2
Who lets things slide and who doesn't?
we only have a dog...
but i am both...
i am the one who let's things slide and the one who doesn't...
I know i am the disciplinarian...and will always be....but i am also the bigger softie
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:32 PM |
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
We both do. I think when only one parent is the disciplinarian, the kids don't take the other seriously.
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:45 PM |
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DebG
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by sasha
Posted by DebG
we discussed this and we decided DH will be doing it.
I love that answer!!
My DH is obviously interested in "discussing" other more pressing things!
Well I FORCED him to have the convo...I am afraid I will turn into my mother and I really don't want that...if he takes the role it will help our child have a bit better memories than I have.
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:46 PM |
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Eva Luna
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by DebG
Posted by sasha
Posted by DebG
we discussed this and we decided DH will be doing it.
I love that answer!!
My DH is obviously interested in "discussing" other more pressing things!
Well I FORCED him to have the convo...I am afraid I will turn into my mother and I really don't want that...if he takes the role it will help our child have a bit better memories than I have.
Aw... You'll be awesome!! 
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:47 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
I'm the boss...
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:50 PM |
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DebG
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by sasha
Aw... You'll be awesome!!
thank you
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:51 PM |
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CAJ
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by Stefanie
I'm the boss...
ditto or better know at the big meanie!
Message edited 5/18/2006 12:16:02 AM.
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| Posted 5/17/06 10:52 PM |
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neenie
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
hmmmmmm.... well, we don't have any kids yet, But, i discipline DH when he needs it, and in turn, he disciplines me when i want it 
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| Posted 5/18/06 12:14 AM |
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DebG
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Posted by neeniebean86
hmmmmmm.... well, we don't have any kids yet, But, i discipline DH when he needs it, and in turn, he disciplines me when i want it
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| Posted 5/18/06 7:37 AM |
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smiles
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
I do it. My DH is a pushover!!
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| Posted 5/18/06 9:38 AM |
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MsMBV
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
ME, and even though we do not have kids, I am the one who has to set the boundariesd for our families and oh yeah the dogs
ETA: DH is not good at confrontation.
Message edited 5/18/2006 9:39:33 AM.
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| Posted 5/18/06 9:39 AM |
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MrsMerlot
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
We don't have children yet, but it will most likely be me doing the disciplining...it's how I was raised - with mom being the disciplinarian, and dad being the "easy way out."
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| Posted 5/18/06 9:40 AM |
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MrsRbk
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
It will most likely be me because DH will say to our future kids "don't ask me, ask your mother" Besides he does not like confrontation and would rather give in.
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| Posted 5/18/06 9:44 AM |
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luvsun27
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Hmmm...that's a tough one. I would probably say me. DH's daughter from his first marriage lives with us...and while we will agree up front on the dicipline....I will make sure it sticks and he will let her slide.
For example...if we say no TV for a week...I mean no TV for a week...but by Wednesday, DH is saying we should give in and let her watch some TV. If I'm home...it won't happen...but if I'm at work and he's home...I know he's going to give in  
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| Posted 5/18/06 9:46 AM |
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JodiBabe
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Jodi
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
When my daughter lived at home....I did since she was my daughter & his step daughter.
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| Posted 5/18/06 10:38 AM |
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JennChris
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Jenn
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
being a SAHM I'm usually the one who does... my DH tries, but the kids always look to me for the final answer I know it hurts him a little, but they are home with me ALL day long, of course they look to me
ETA - but at the same time I sometimes let things slide because I have to pick my battles
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| Posted 5/18/06 10:41 AM |
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SoinLove
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Re: Spinoff...Who does the disciplining in your home?
Not that we really can do much discipling at this point (He's only 10 months), but DH and I do it pretty evenly, even though at this point, it's stopping him from crawling where he's not supposed to or grabbing what he's not supposed to.
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| Posted 5/18/06 10:43 AM |
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