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QuoteTheRaven424
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Spinoff to "giving"

OK, we are a sexually evolved group of people and we have our likes and dislikes

There are certain sexual acts that have become accepted as the "norm"

Suppose the person you are dating won't perform an act that you really find enjoyable. Would you consider that a deal breaker?

Posted 1/18/06 2:16 PM
 
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Redhead
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

hmmmmmmmmmmmmChat Icon

Posted 1/18/06 2:18 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by Redhead

hmmmmmmmmmmmmChat Icon



i can get more specific if you'd like Chat Icon

Posted 1/18/06 2:18 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

ok yes you can be more specific

Posted 1/18/06 2:19 PM
 

Shelly
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

I would.

Posted 1/18/06 2:19 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Message edited 1/18/2006 2:36:32 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 2:21 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

deal breaker - NO

if everything else was really wonderful BUT only for one sex act taht my partner would not perform? I could live with that ...

Message edited 1/18/2006 2:22:51 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 2:22 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

hmmmmmmm...i have to say this is hard for me to even fathom...
i have never had any "unwilling" partners

Posted 1/18/06 2:22 PM
 

MrsProfessor
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by FeliciaDP

deal breaker - NO

if everything else was really wonderful BUT only for one sex act taht my partner would not perform? I could live with that ...



Me too- good men are too hard to come by (no pun intended!)

Posted 1/18/06 2:23 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

I would say "see Ya" At this age & point in my life Sex has a big role and if ain't good or you're not willing to try new things then..you're otta here buddy.

Posted 1/18/06 2:24 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Message edited 1/18/2006 2:36:43 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 2:25 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by MrsProfessor

Posted by FeliciaDP

deal breaker - NO

if everything else was really wonderful BUT only for one sex act taht my partner would not perform? I could live with that ...



Me too- good men are too hard to come by (no pun intended!)



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But I totally agree! Took me damn long to find a Dh as wonderful as mine... *if* he told me he didn't like to do something I liked, I could have decided to live without it( NOT that we have this problem, mind youChat Icon.. he's wonderful in every aspect .. even that Chat Icon)

You are only talking about "ONE" sex act... not sex entirely! I think if everything else about the person was just wonderful, I cannot believe one part of your sex lives would be a "dealbreaker' for you Chat Icon

Message edited 1/18/2006 2:27:13 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 2:25 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

nope, not a deal breaker...

Posted 1/18/06 2:27 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Message edited 1/18/2006 2:36:55 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 2:28 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

i dunno

really tough call



Hey, you're entitled Chat Icon

Its just that I think it somewhat sad that *IF* (hypothetically speaking here) Boosh didn't like to do one particular sexual act that you "loved"... well then you would NOT have continued the relationship.. and then you would have missed out on the best wife a man could ever be blessed with Chat Icon

Message edited 1/18/2006 2:31:00 PM.

Posted 1/18/06 2:30 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

ONE thing? Nah, not a deal breaker as long as everything else is still good. Very good.

Posted 1/18/06 2:30 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

sounds good

thx all

Posted 1/18/06 2:33 PM
 

Ali1
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by FeliciaDP

deal breaker - NO

if everything else was really wonderful BUT only for one sex act taht my partner would not perform? I could live with that ...



I agree with this......sex is only one part of a relationship and if my DH does not like to do one thing there are other ways to work around that. Or vice versa.

I think sex is important, but i also think that there are many more things in my relationship with DH that are more important.

Posted 1/18/06 2:35 PM
 

Summer05
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Not a deal breaker... as long as everything else is great!

Posted 1/18/06 2:36 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

I do think that if I'm in a relationship that it's give & take. I'm not sure I'd want to be with someone who wouldn't be willing to compromise on occasion.

Posted 1/18/06 2:38 PM
 

karacg
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

A hard man is good to find! Ooops I mean.... A GOOD mand is HARD to find....

Posted 1/18/06 3:02 PM
 

nvrdull
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by Ali1

Posted by FeliciaDP

deal breaker - NO

if everything else was really wonderful BUT only for one sex act taht my partner would not perform? I could live with that ...



I agree with this......sex is only one part of a relationship and if my DH does not like to do one thing there are other ways to work around that. Or vice versa.

I think sex is important, but i also think that there are many more things in my relationship with DH that are more important.



Totally agree with this!

Posted 1/18/06 3:08 PM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

no but he shouldnt expect in return and other things better be damn near electrfying

Posted 1/18/06 4:23 PM
 

Bri
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

Posted by Summer05

Not a deal breaker... as long as everything else is great!

Posted 1/18/06 5:14 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: Spinoff to "giving"

I don't think one thing would be a dealbreaker, numerous things might be. There's always ways to work around a single thing.

Posted 1/18/06 8:29 PM
 
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