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Kate07
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Speaking of MILs

If my day hasn't been bad enough with what I think it the arrival of first AF since Connor was born (and 10 months of PMS just raging inside of me) my MIL calls - THANK GOODNESS I let the machine get it (nobody interrupts me when I'm on LIF) and says "I'm in Long Beach, I just figured I'd stop by...I'm going to drive by and see if you are home"

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Hey, maybe I should call her back and ask me to bring me something with wings!!!

She'd probably think I was talking about KFC.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 4:31 PM
 
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Posted 7/27/06 4:31 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: Speaking of MILs

she just stops in like that??????

Posted 7/27/06 4:35 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by preshy7

she just stops in like that??????



I KNOW. My experiences with this woman have not been good since Day 1. Sometimes I thinks she just does it to get under my skin. Don't get me wrong, she's cordial. She is just not considerate. Anyway DH LOVES his mother and I would never badmouth her in front of him - and she did raise a wonderful son- so I can't hate her.

I just can't deal today of all days.....

Dealing with her has given me a whole new appreciation for my own mother (and her manners).

Posted 7/27/06 4:39 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by Kate07

Posted by preshy7

she just stops in like that??????



I KNOW. My experiences with this woman have not been good since Day 1. Sometimes I thinks she just does it to get under my skin. Don't get me wrong, she's cordial. She is just not considerate. Anyway DH LOVES his mother and I would never badmouth her in front of him - and she did raise a wonderful son- so I can't hate her.

I just can't deal today of all days.....

Dealing with her has given me a whole new appreciation for my own mother (and her manners).



im sorry but i would DIE

i think id hide my car around the block
and not answer the door


that is sooo wrong

what the heck is wrong with people?????????????/

privacy is soooo important. you sgould tell her you love to see her but to give you advance notice. like today, you should not be HOSTING her in your home. that is so wrong!im gertting mad typing this. i feel so bad for you
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Posted 7/27/06 4:42 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by preshy7
what the heck is wrong with people?????????????

that's the Q of the day!

heck, it's the Q of the century!

Posted 7/27/06 4:43 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by preshy7

Posted by Kate07

Posted by preshy7

she just stops in like that??????



I KNOW. My experiences with this woman have not been good since Day 1. Sometimes I thinks she just does it to get under my skin. Don't get me wrong, she's cordial. She is just not considerate. Anyway DH LOVES his mother and I would never badmouth her in front of him - and she did raise a wonderful son- so I can't hate her.

I just can't deal today of all days.....

Dealing with her has given me a whole new appreciation for my own mother (and her manners).



im sorry but i would DIE

i think id hide my car around the block
and not answer the door


that is sooo wrong

what the heck is wrong with people?????????????/





i agree!!!!!

but at least she's not showing up with a pitbull in her backseat!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

or is she?? Chat Icon Chat Icon

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Posted 7/27/06 4:43 PM
 

Summer05
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Re: Speaking of MILs

I would not answer the door if I were you, that is just rude!

Posted 7/27/06 4:44 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Speaking of MILs

I know the feeling!!! My MIL tells us to come over for dinner. She has never heard of asking if we have plans. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 4:45 PM
 

MABLE03
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Re: Speaking of MILs

I feel your pain!! My mil lives nearby and likes to "drop in" MULTIPLE times in a week!!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 4:49 PM
 

Kate07
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Kate

Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by preshy7

that is sooo wrong

what the heck is wrong with people?????????????/

privacy is soooo important. you sgould tell her you love to see her but to give you advance notice. like today, you should not be HOSTING her in your home. that is so wrong!im gertting mad typing this. i feel so bad for you
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Thanks - I needed that !!! Great minds think alike - my car is already on the next block - I idd that PURPOSELY earlier today Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Now I am glad I did.





Posted 7/27/06 4:50 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by MABLE03

I feel your pain!! My mil lives nearby and likes to "drop in" MULTIPLE times in a week!!! Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon this would be my worst nightmare.

Posted 7/27/06 4:51 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by Kate07

Posted by preshy7

that is sooo wrong

what the heck is wrong with people?????????????/

privacy is soooo important. you sgould tell her you love to see her but to give you advance notice. like today, you should not be HOSTING her in your home. that is so wrong!im gertting mad typing this. i feel so bad for you
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Thanks - I needed that !!! Great minds think alike - my car is already on the next block - I idd that PURPOSELY earlier today Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Now I am glad I did.








very smart!!!!!!!!!! and you didnt asnwer the phone so thats good too

put your shades down for that extra "im not home" touch

Posted 7/27/06 4:52 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by MABLE03

I feel your pain!! My mil lives nearby and likes to "drop in" MULTIPLE times in a week!!! Chat Icon



Bless you....at least mine is forty minutes away.

Posted 7/27/06 4:52 PM
 

Kate07
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Kate

Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by preshy7


very smart!!!!!!!!!! and you didnt asnwer the phone so thats good too

put your shades down for that extra "im not home" touch



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I like your style !!!

Posted 7/27/06 4:54 PM
 

MABLE03
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by LadyLainez

Posted by MABLE03

I feel your pain!! My mil lives nearby and likes to "drop in" MULTIPLE times in a week!!! Chat Icon




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon this would be my worst nightmare.



Tell me about it!!! Sometimes I go into fits and start yelling ( to myself by the way) about how nuts this is and I can't wait to move out of the area - and I know she can hear me.. I guess it doesn't bother her Chat Icon Chat Icon

Some months are better then others.. the last few months have been great... In April though I swear she was here almost every single day Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 4:54 PM
 

Kate07
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Kate

Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by MABLE03

Tell me about it!!! Sometimes I go into fits and start yelling ( to myself by the way) about how nuts this is and I can't wait to move out of the area - and I know she can hear me.. I guess it doesn't bother her Chat Icon Chat Icon

Some months are better then others.. the last few months have been great... In April though I swear she was here almost every single day Chat Icon



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I think the pregnancy is what really changed the dynamic between her and I. She felt it put more pressure on Dave since it is his first year out of law school and work is such a responsibility. Like it was my fault...How dare I seduce her son Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 5:05 PM
 

MABLE03
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by Kate07

Posted by MABLE03

Tell me about it!!! Sometimes I go into fits and start yelling ( to myself by the way) about how nuts this is and I can't wait to move out of the area - and I know she can hear me.. I guess it doesn't bother her Chat Icon Chat Icon

Some months are better then others.. the last few months have been great... In April though I swear she was here almost every single day Chat Icon



OMG Chat Icon Chat Icon


I think the pregnancy is what really changed the dynamic between her and I. She felt it put more pressure on Dave since it is his first year out of law school and work is such a responsibility. Like it was my fault...How dare I seduce her son Chat Icon



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My mil "jokingly" has made remarks regarding me getting pregnant, etc. and the way she said it made it seem like I DID IT TO HER SON!!! LOL

So one moody day I told her " I didn't climb on top of myself and get myself pregnant! Oh and your poor little son.. he didn't seem to mind one bit!!"
She never did it again Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Dh and his siblings were rolling on the floor Chat Icon

Message edited 7/27/2006 5:08:08 PM.

Posted 7/27/06 5:07 PM
 

Kate07
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Kate

Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by MABLE03

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My mil "jokingly" has made remarks regarding me getting pregnant, etc. and the way she said it made it seem like I DID IT TO HER SON!!! LOL

So one moody day I told her " I didn't climb on top of myself and get myself pregnant! Oh and your poor little son.. he didn't seem to mind one bit!!"
She never did it again Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Dh and his siblings were rolling on the floor Chat Icon



Chat Icon THAT IS GREAT Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
I give you props for that !!!!

Posted 7/27/06 5:50 PM
 

ChristineR
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Re: Speaking of MILs

I should thank my lucky stars, my MIL can't drive! I'm sorry yours does Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 5:51 PM
 

janet
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Re: Speaking of MILs

Chat Icon i hate when people do that to me.... if someone comes with out calling first , i will not answer the door if i am buzy or just do not want to be bothered. it is one of my biggest pet peves

Posted 7/27/06 5:52 PM
 

saraH
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Re: Speaking of MILs

my fmil has yet to do a "drop by." but we are about 20 minutes away and her lazy azz won't drive out of her neighborhood.....

Posted 7/27/06 6:29 PM
 

giggles
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Colleen

Re: Speaking of MILs

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by preshy7

Posted by Kate07

Posted by preshy7

she just stops in like that??????



I KNOW. My experiences with this woman have not been good since Day 1. Sometimes I thinks she just does it to get under my skin. Don't get me wrong, she's cordial. She is just not considerate. Anyway DH LOVES his mother and I would never badmouth her in front of him - and she did raise a wonderful son- so I can't hate her.

I just can't deal today of all days.....

Dealing with her has given me a whole new appreciation for my own mother (and her manners).



im sorry but i would DIE

i think id hide my car around the block
and not answer the door


that is sooo wrong

what the heck is wrong with people?????????????/





i agree!!!!!

but at least she's not showing up with a pitbull in her backseat!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

or is she?? Chat Icon Chat Icon

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My MIL does this - "Hey MIL - I have a CAT! Leave your dog at home!!!" Chat Icon

Posted 7/27/06 6:43 PM
 
 

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