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Bella01
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Someone please calm me down.....
I found out from a co-worker that another one of my co-workers was talking about me behind my back. She was saying how I should eat all healthy for the baby and quit eating pizza all day. All day...is she with me when I get home to see what I eat for dinner!!!
I was fuming....but I promised the person who told me that I wouldn't say anything or else I would seriously curse this person out. They should just mind their own freaking business. I do eat healthy. Just because I crave pizza for lunch and I have it doesn't mean that I am not eating healthy for the baby. I get all these tests done and my weight is fine, blood pressure is fine...so what's the problem??
I am just so pizzed...and she is right in front of me and I have to pretend everything is okay while she is talking about me behind my back.
Why is it that as soon as you become pregnant, please feel they have the right to comment/criticize,etc.
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Posted 10/19/11 10:28 AM  |
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Cacarina
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Ugh, that is so messed up. She really needs to mind her own business. My doctor told me that I should try to eat healthy, but if I can't eat healthy (because you are sick or something) that is okay too, you just need to get food inside you. Pizza isn't even THAT bad!!!
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:30 AM |
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Bella01
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Posted by Cacarina
Ugh, that is so messed up. She really needs to mind her own business. My doctor told me that I should try to eat healthy, but if I can't eat healthy (because you are sick or something) that is okay too, you just need to get food inside you. Pizza isn't even THAT bad!!!
Thanks!
and that's another thing.....carbs help me with my MS. So I give in and eat a bagel or slice of pizza and I do feel better after. I also know to eat my veggies, and other healthy stuff.
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:33 AM |
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PrincessP
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
I ate everything with both children and both are doing fine. Does she even have children to tell you what is adequate nutrition during a pregnancy? I probably couldn't hold back. Since you have to sit behind her, just throw sh!t in her hair...LOL
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:37 AM |
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alli3131
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Honestly you can't let what other people bother you. People say all kinds of things when someone is pregnant. You will hear a lot worse along the way I'm sure.
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:42 AM |
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Bella01
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Posted by PrincessP
I ate everything with both children and both are doing fine. Does she even have children to tell you what is adequate nutrition during a pregnancy? I probably couldn't hold back. Since you have to sit behind her, just throw sh!t in her hair...LOL
yes, I ate everything with my first too and she is healthy.
yea, she has 2 kids...
trust me..it's hard biting my tongue
Message edited 10/19/2011 10:43:08 AM.
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:42 AM |
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Lara&Aidansmommy
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
ugh. dont let her get you angry. You should see what I eat for lunch. Too bad I dont work in your office cause she would sure be talking about my lunches more than yours 
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:52 AM |
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buttercup
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Don't let anyone get to you. I was eating toasted and buttered bagel one day and this "health nut" who is quite thick I must say, told me you could NEVER catch her dead eating a bagel, so many useless calories and unnecessary carbs. I was livid, but I let it go.. no point in wasting my energy on idiots who can't keep their lids closed.
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| Posted 10/19/11 10:55 AM |
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dajc23
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Your co-worker wouldn't want to see what I ate everyday with both pregnancies
You should walk by her shoving an entire slice into your mouth going MMMMMMMM.
Everyone should mind their own business!
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| Posted 10/19/11 11:04 AM |
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MrsSx2
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
You're far more patient than me. The way my hormones are, I would have totally confronted her and told her to mind her own business.
Sorry you have to deal with that crap! 
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| Posted 10/19/11 11:06 AM |
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july4mrsO
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
As soon as someone's pregnant, everyone around them becomes an expert on pregnancy. I'm sorry you're dealing with this but know you're not alone! I'm sure we've all heard or will hear dumb comments/advice from the people we interact with.
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| Posted 10/19/11 11:21 AM |
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Bella01
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Thanks ladies..I knew I could count on you!
I guess what's frustrating...is that I have to work with her..she is literally right next to me now and I have to pretend we are okay. She acts all nice to me...and I have to put a smile on my face.
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| Posted 10/19/11 11:23 AM |
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MrsCampos10-01-10
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
It doesn't matter if you were on a pizza only diet. Its none of her effing business! I would not be able to stay quiet,, id flip!
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| Posted 10/19/11 11:26 AM |
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NoStressMom
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
ignore I ate pizza my whole pregnancy!!! DH I figured at the end would want a divorce!! I needed to have it morning noon and Night screw her
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| Posted 10/19/11 12:26 PM |
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lynnd126
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
She should have minded her own business but I also think the "friend" co-worker is a trouble maker. I wouldn't have told you b/c it just is stupid and doesn't matter- plus who wants to upset a pregnant lady you know?
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| Posted 10/19/11 3:28 PM |
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LoveMyHubby605
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
waht an annoying, nosy woman. 
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| Posted 10/19/11 3:31 PM |
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bonitachyc
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
if i were you i'd make it even MORE apparent your "bad" eating habits. if she sits right next to you, talk about all the stuff you eat and make it so extreme you'll piss her off...who is she to tell anyone what you should and shouldn't eat? go ahead and eat your pretty little heart out girl  more power to ya!
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| Posted 10/19/11 5:19 PM |
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Bella01
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Mama
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
Thanks ladies!!!!!!
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| Posted 10/20/11 8:20 AM |
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Mkr09
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
With my 1st pg I was soooo nauseous and the only thing that made me feel better was mcdonalds fries. I think I had them almost every day for lunch for about a month. I ate other healthy things throughout the day but around lunchtime my nausea was soooo bad.
I'm lucky I didn't work with your coworker.
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| Posted 10/20/11 9:34 AM |
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WenRC
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
I had to put my co worker in her place months ago!
She has a daughter who went totally organic for her pregnancy...more power to her but that doesnt mean I have to do it, too.
She got out of hand with her "mothering" that I had to remind her I would eat what I when I want and I have a mom already thank you!
THEN she had the nerve to comment about my driving when hers is no better so I baited her one day...started talking aobut driving so she could make her comment...then I let her have it in a nice way.
She still talks to me but she has learned to butt out of my life a little. Gosh I love my prego hormones!
Message edited 10/20/2011 9:56:23 AM.
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| Posted 10/20/11 9:52 AM |
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Brit
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Re: Someone please calm me down.....
I would tell her pizza at night tastes so much better as you can smoke and rinse it down with several beers! This woman is an idiot please ignore her!
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| Posted 10/20/11 10:07 AM |
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