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Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

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BlondeJD
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Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

I just got this forward and, personally, I think it's incredibly offensive. Does anyone else get emails like this and what do you do if you're offended? Do you tell the person who sent it or just let it go?

Here it is:

FINALLY, SOMEONE HAS CLEARED THIS UP FOR ME....

For centuries, Hindu women have worn a dot on their foreheads. Most of us have naively thought this was connected with marriage or religion, but the Indian Embassy in Washington, D.C. has recently revealed the true story.

When a Hindu woman gets married, she brings a dowry into the union. On her wedding night, the husband scratches off the dot to see whether he has won a convenience store, a gas station, a donut shop or a motel in the United States. If nothing is there, he must take a job in India answering telephones giving technical advice.

Posted 9/26/07 3:54 PM
 
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JennZ
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Personally being married to an Indian(Guyanese) man I find offensive and tasteless.

ETA: spelled Guyanese wrong Chat Icon

Message edited 9/26/2007 3:58:02 PM.

Posted 9/26/07 3:54 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

It's just not funny.

I hate email forwards.

Posted 9/26/07 3:56 PM
 

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Message edited 7/16/2009 9:49:47 AM.

Posted 9/26/07 3:58 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

When I get an email like that I hit "reply all" and tell the sender (all all of his.her friens) how ignorant it is.

Posted 9/26/07 3:58 PM
 

kellsbells7
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

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Posted 9/26/07 3:58 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

this is a joke, right?

like Jewish jokes, lawyer jokes, doctor jokes...

anything poking at a stereotype...right?

in that context, yes, I do find it pretty funny.

Posted 9/26/07 3:58 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

not appropriate in the work setting

Posted 9/26/07 3:59 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Posted by Ophelia

this is a joke, right?

like Jewish jokes, lawyer jokes, doctor jokes...

anything poking at a stereotype...right?

in that context, yes, I do find it pretty funny.



I agree

Posted 9/26/07 3:59 PM
 

BlondeJD
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

I just read emails like this and wonder to myself "Who would actually find this funny?" and think "What about me makes this person think that *I* would find this humorous at all?"

Just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something that would make this a comedic gem instead of an obviously racist commentary.

ETA: I didn't think of this one as a "poking fun at stereotypes" but maybe that was the intent of the person who sent it.

Message edited 9/26/2007 4:02:29 PM.

Posted 9/26/07 4:00 PM
 

suvenR
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Many times I laugh at email forwards. Sometimes I find them offensive. I've never made a comment to the sender, though. However, as a rule, I NEVER send any of them on.

To be honest, and maybe no one is on the same wavelength as me- the one I received last week was the most offensive one, IMO, that I ever received.

It was a beautiful photo of a religous figure. Then, it basically said if I didn't forward it to 13 people, tragedy would befall me and my family and we'd all burn in hell.

Posted 9/26/07 4:00 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Posted by suvenR

Many times I laugh at email forwards. Sometimes I find them offensive. I've never made a comment to the sender, though. However, as a rule, I NEVER send any of them on.

To be honest, and maybe no one is on the same wavelength as me- the one I received last week was the most offensive one, IMO, that I ever received.

It was a beautiful photo of a religous figure. Then, it basically said if I didn't forward it to 13 people, tragedy would befall me and my family and we'd all burn in hell.



Those are the worst.

I recently got a string of "patriotic" emails with a lot of racist and ignorant propaganda and I told the sender exactly what i felt about it, and this is one of my best friends. I'm thinking "wow, does she not know me??"

Then again this is the person who saw the book "Reading Lolita in Tehran" on my kitchen table and said "I don't know how you can read that. I'm so angry." as in how could I read about Msulim people after 9/11? I could have killed her, as apparently she doesn't realize that my very best friend is Muslim, and also that I'm not a bigoted moron who doesn't know the difference between a terrorist and a schoolgirl wearing a hijab.

Yeah we're just a little bit different.

Posted 9/26/07 4:04 PM
 

ckdk
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

I thought it was funny...
I am Jewish and when people send Jewish jokes, I find it funny not offensive... But I don't get offended easily...

Posted 9/26/07 4:12 PM
 

bird382
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Neither offensive nor funny...just kind of dumb.

Posted 9/26/07 4:13 PM
 

sticklee
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Posted by Ophelia

this is a joke, right?

like Jewish jokes, lawyer jokes, doctor jokes...

anything poking at a stereotype...right?

in that context, yes, I do find it pretty funny.



i agree

Posted 9/26/07 4:14 PM
 

stickydust
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

I don't find it offensive but it is not incredibly funny. Most jokes offend in some way and as long as they are equal opportunity offenders I am OK. You see it for what it is.

When I was in college Chris Rock came to perform and people were all offended by his performance - you can't take everything too seriously.

I laugh at jokes about my ethnicity all the time...

Posted 9/26/07 4:17 PM
 

pmpkn087
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

I never found any of these "jokes" funny. I just hate forwards in general and delete them before I even read them.

Posted 9/26/07 4:20 PM
 

Ginger123
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

i think its pretty funny .. just a joke ...i think a chill pill is needed

Posted 9/26/07 4:21 PM
 

tray831
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?


Actually I find it funny. I got this a while ago and honestly, I LMAO.

And that includes jokes of other races/religions including my own.......

A joke is a joke and they're said and forwarded all day long.........of every race/religion/ethnicity possible.

Posted 9/26/07 4:21 PM
 

anonttcer
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Posted by ckdk

I thought it was funny...
I am Jewish and when people send Jewish jokes, I find it funny not offensive... But I don't get offended easily...



ITA- I don't get offended easily at all though!

Posted 9/26/07 4:22 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Posted by Ophelia

this is a joke, right?

like Jewish jokes, lawyer jokes, doctor jokes...

anything poking at a stereotype...right?

in that context, yes, I do find it pretty funny.



ITA.

It's not fall on the floor laughing but it's a ha ha, move on to the next topic laugh.

Posted 9/26/07 4:22 PM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Considering they don't know if the forward is to someone who may have Indian relatives, etc., I think it's pretty offensive.

Posted 9/26/07 4:25 PM
 

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Message edited 11/11/2011 7:16:22 PM.

Posted 9/26/07 4:28 PM
 

MarisaK
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

Posted by sticklee

Posted by Ophelia

this is a joke, right?

like Jewish jokes, lawyer jokes, doctor jokes...

anything poking at a stereotype...right?

in that context, yes, I do find it pretty funny.



i agree



Me too - but I'm not easily offended - And if I DID find it offensive or stupid/ignorant whatever - I'd just delete it and continue on with my day -

Posted 9/26/07 4:43 PM
 

lucyloo
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Re: Someone just forwarded this email to me - funny or offensive?

I don't think it's either I think it's just stupid.

Posted 9/26/07 4:49 PM
 
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