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Sob. She started realizing I leave

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WannaBeAMom11
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Sob. She started realizing I leave

Something switched on in my dd at 7 months. She now HATES when I leave anywhere. I just left her at daycare and she started hysterically crying trying to crawl towards the door crying mamama. Broke my heart. I could hear her cry as I left.

Posted 12/3/13 8:34 AM
 
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alli3131
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Sob. She started realizing I leave

This will change. She will have days she won't even care if you left and then the next day she will cry. And it doesn't end.

My DS is 2 and today was a rough one but tomorrow will probably be fine! Never can tell.

Posted 12/3/13 8:36 AM
 

ANewDayHasCome
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Sob. She started realizing I leave

I saw this in my wonder weeks app...she will learn that you also come back

Posted 12/3/13 8:36 AM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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Sob. She started realizing I leave

Yesterday when I got to daycare I was talking to her teacher and I didn't pick her up right away. Instant tears. I'm not used to this clingy baby. She's always been so independent. Not complaining my heart just hurt when she cries.

Posted 12/3/13 8:39 AM
 

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Re: Sob. She started realizing I leave

It's the set in of separation anxiety.

It effects bedtime too.

Posted 12/3/13 8:50 AM
 

blue11
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Re: Sob. She started realizing I leave

That's the worst Chat Icon DS is almost 2 and still has days like that - and it still breaks my heart. Some days he's fine, others he cries. I stand outside the door where he can't see me until he stops which is usually about a minute after i leave!

Posted 12/3/13 9:33 AM
 

WannaBeAMom11
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Re: Sob. She started realizing I leave

Posted by nycgirl

It's the set in of separation anxiety.

It effects bedtime too.



Yes. Bedtime has become a nightmare. She used to happily put herself to sleep now we have to cuddle till she passes out. Poor baby gets so upset.

Posted 12/3/13 9:51 AM
 

NYCGirl80
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Re: Sob. She started realizing I leave

Yup, totally normal. DS is 10 months old and has been like this for about a month. He is fine if he doesn't see me, but once he sees me he holds on to me for dear life! He won't even go with DH, which is rough on me when I need to accomplish anything or get out of the house. I know it's a phase, though, and a part of me loves that DS is loving on me so much right now.

Posted 12/3/13 11:40 AM
 

Ayne11
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Re: Sob. She started realizing I leave

DS had separation anxiety at 7mo. He thought I was never coming back when I got up to go to the bathroom. Chat Icon it broke my heart, but he had to learn I was coming back. It passes quickly. Chat Icon

Posted 12/3/13 12:31 PM
 

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Re: Sob. She started realizing I leave

Posted by NYCGirl80

Yup, totally normal. DS is 10 months old and has been like this for about a month. He is fine if he doesn't see me, but once he sees me he holds on to me for dear life! He won't even go with DH, which is rough on me when I need to accomplish anything or get out of the house. I know it's a phase, though, and a part of me loves that DS is loving on me so much right now.



THIS EXACTLY FOR ME RIGHT NOW!
DS will be 12 months on the 19th... He's been really clingy. Today at daycare drop off - he cried so much it to broke my heart... I try to sneak away but hes walking and becoming more agile and its not so easy...
Hoping this phase will pass fast

Posted 12/3/13 12:36 PM
 
 

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