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FlowerWife
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so nervous!!!
im only 3dp5dt.. im just so nervous.
im trying to distract myself but its so hard since i havent been doing much but relaxing.
im nervous that my OHSS symptoms are pretty much gone (who wouldve thought that feeling physically better would make me nervous!!).
im nervous that i dont really feel anything.
im just so nervous that this didn't work.
i even had a dream last night that i got a BFP on an HPT and usually that would make me hopeful but i am just SO nervous!!
i feel like i want to email Dr. B every 5 seconds for reassurance yet i don't have any legitimate questions for him...
my beta isnt until Thursday and chances are that i will wait for it and not test earlier. but its only day 3 and i feel a little like im losing my mind..
i'm usually the voice of reason to so many people and right now i feel like im on crazy pills.
someone talk me down!!!!!
Message edited 10/16/2010 1:57:28 PM.
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SweatPea
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Re: so nervous!!!
Deep Breaths!!!!! You have come too far. The nervousness I believe is a bit of excitement of what is to happen. It is understandable how you would begin to over think many things now bc you have all the time to do it. But think about the little bundles of joy slows being nestled into your lining and saying "Thank you, mommy, It's so cozy here. See you in a couple of months."
I hope that helped Flower. 
HANG in there!!!
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| Posted 10/16/10 3:19 PM |
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PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True
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Re: so nervous!!!
I totally hear you! I had my transfer yesterday and Im not sure how I am going to make it the next few weeks. Just relax, try and distract yourself. Think positive thoughts. It will all be ok no matter what. The day will come quickly. Dr. B has fixed what was wrong with you. There is no reason why it shouldn't work. Just hang in there. We are all thinking of you.
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| Posted 10/16/10 3:36 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: so nervous!!!
Posted by PurpleC
I totally hear you! I had my transfer yesterday and Im not sure how I am going to make it the next few weeks. Just relax, try and distract yourself. Think positive thoughts. It will all be ok no matter what. The day will come quickly. Dr. B has fixed what was wrong with you. There is no reason why it shouldn't work. Just hang in there. We are all thinking of you.
good luck to you as well waiting buddy!!!
im glad the yankee game is on to distract me!!!
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BBmaking
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Re: so nervous!!!
IT's perfectly normal to be nervous!!!!! You can do it.......What I did to calm myself down was to look at the picture of the embryo that I transfered!!
Good luck!!  
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Daisy21
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Re: so nervous!!!
I can't even imagine! I'm sending lots of hugs. I just started stimming and I'm so excited. I wish I was already waiting. Everything went so well for you this cycle and I'm super excited that this will be it for you and your DH. Just know we're all rooting for you and hang in there.
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| Posted 10/16/10 6:50 PM |
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FergieK
Loving my girls
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Re: so nervous!!!
Oh I dont know if I have the tak you from the ledge advice but try to keep yourself busy. The couple of days will fly by. Oh I am praying this is your turn..
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Jen2999
Baby girls & beagles rock!
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Re: so nervous!!!
Just so you know.. I had terrible OHSS and got better. I developed it right after retrieval so it had time to kinda clear up before the baby was able to implant and start producing hormones.
.....I'm now 12 weeks pg
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| Posted 10/16/10 9:09 PM |
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littlebeanz
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Re: so nervous!!!
hmmm...i dont know how you dont test this weekend...haha
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| Posted 10/16/10 9:25 PM |
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ns1011
I'm wide awake
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Re: so nervous!!!
Hang in there. I certainly don't know you IRL - but you definitely seem to be a strong woman so you can do this. I always have to distract myself during the 2ww, and even though I usually overanalyze everything in the back of my mind, somehow I've been strong enough to never test before AF is due. And I am awful when it comes to will power  .
Soon enough  
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MissMeliss
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Re: so nervous!!!
You're almost there!! Try and keep yourself sane for the next few days, Thursday will be here before you know it!! We're all rooting for you!
BTW, you're going to have to talk me down in a few days
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| Posted 10/17/10 12:20 PM |
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DaisyGirl
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Re: so nervous!!!
You've waited this long, you can wait a few more days. Waiting is horrible but it will be over soon. Just try to relax (impossible, I know!) and stay busy. I'm praying that this is it for you!
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| Posted 10/17/10 1:37 PM |
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readts78
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Re: so nervous!!!
hang in there! stay positive!
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| Posted 10/17/10 4:10 PM |
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ChiefMT
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Re: so nervous!!!
Good luck to you! The IVF 2ww is one of the hardest. You have done everything and now it's just a matter of time. Try to focus on the fact that it is out of your control and ultimately already determined. Pray for strength to deal with the outcome no matter what that may be. The more peace you have going into that beta the better. Seems like you had a lot on your side this cycle though. When I got my BFP, I didn't feel any different from any other cycle. I had all the classic AF symptoms to the minute! Don't drive yourself crazy trying to "feel pregnant" - that doesn't come until you are like 20 weeks pregnant anyway!!! I am praying that this is it for you!!!!!!!!! You totally deserve it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 10/17/10 6:00 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: so nervous!!!
thanks everyone.. im feeling a little better today.. i think going back to work tomorrow will distract me enough to get to the beta.. i hope!!!!!
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| Posted 10/17/10 6:08 PM |
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JenMarie
One day at a time
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Re: so nervous!!!
Hang in there! I know this is it for you!
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PennyCat
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Re: so nervous!!!
Little by little you're getting through it ... When you made that post, it was 10/16. Now it's 10/18 Slowly but surely, the days are passing and before you know it, we'll all be celebrating!
(And in another 3 weeks, we'll hopefully be celebrating again!  )
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| Posted 10/18/10 9:28 AM |
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curiousO
he is here.. thank you God
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Re: so nervous!!!
I am sure waiting is very very tough, but Thur wil be here before you know it It is easier said than done, but maybe try to re-focus and spoil yourself with something yummy
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| Posted 10/18/10 10:09 AM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: so nervous!!!
Right there with ya sistah!!!
WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS !! WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS !! WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS !! WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS !!
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