So Confused! VENT

My cycles have been all over the place since having DD#1. AF arrives anywhere from 28 to 42 days when they usually were always 31 days. AF lasts around 5 days and last month only 2 very light days. I always O'd on CD 14...now, anywhere from 14 one month to 42 the next. This month I bought the CBEFM. No luck. Been trying for 8 months going on 9 and nothing. I've tried OPK's, OVwatch, Digital OPK's, Fertility Friend (which is ALWAYS off for me), and cheapies. Don't know what else to do. Have an appointment with my OB Sept. 28..it was the earliest appointment they had. Just so frustrated and had to vent. Oh...and I am 40 going on 41 so I am in a bit of a hurry to get a BFP. Don't want to wait any longer for DD#2

Message edited 8/16/2011 9:37:11 AM.

Re: So Confused! VENT

have you considered skipping the OB and going straight to a RE?

Message edited 8/16/2011 10:31:07 AM.

Re: So Confused! VENT

I would make an appt with an RE. I think they would be able to help you better! This is the road I am going to go down very soon if I do not get a BFP next month!!!