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The reason I think it hit me so hard is because not getting pregnant the first try made me realize how much I actually want it. I thought I wanted it but the actual realation that I'm not preggo yet made me me realize how much its going to hurt if it doesn't happen. HUGE wake up call.

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awww completely understandable.
You just have to remind yourself that there is a small window of when you can get pregnant, and it's not the easiest thing.. A normal woman can take 6 months to a year before getting pregnant. That's average..

Hopefully it happens sooner for you.

Try to enjoy it at first and dont stress about something being wrong/etc until it's been longer.
I know that is MUCH easier said than done!


Good luck!!

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awww i think we all feel that way at some point...it hits you out of nowhere and now TTC is all you think about. they say it can take a normal couple under 35 up to a year of TTC before BFP...so dont get too down!

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I know, it sucks. We did get pregnant the first month trying but it ended in a chemical. And I was surprised by how hard it hit me even though it was only our first month. So I can totally appreciate those feelings.

But please don't be discouraged. You WILL get pregnant - for all you know it could be next month. And every month that goes by, while it sucks, is another month for you to save money and get things in order for when you are pregnant (at least that's how I viewed it).

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AF last week hit me hard too. I cried on DHs shoulder. Then he yelled at me and said that chances were that it wasn't going to happen on the first shot and it will, and I NEED to stop and have fun with it. I love that man!

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