Do you use the tiny changing pad they give you? Mine came with the light one. I have the hobobe. I don't care about the padding but there is no way my 2 yr old is going to come close to fitting on this thing. I went to buybuybaby to see if the padded one was bigger and it's only about .5 inch bigger. I was going to get a separate changing pad but the other brands won't fit in the back pocket. What do you use?