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leighla
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Lauren
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Porn Poll
I was talking to a friend last night about our TTC efforts and I made an off-handed comment about porn.
Something like, "Thank god for porn or we would never make it through this."
I've known for her for YEARS and was EXTREMELY surprised are her reaction. She got so offended and flustered that she actually hung up on me.
I called her back, and she said she couldn't believe I would condone porn, let alone watch it and she had to rethink our friendship.
Now, putting her craziness aside, I was curious as to whether I was in the minority or if there are closet porn watchers out there.
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Porn Poll
Was it TMI? 
Message edited 12/6/2005 1:00:55 PM.
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| Posted 12/6/05 12:44 PM |
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saraH
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Re: Porn Poll
wow, that is a littel extreme. i personally don't watch it, but what you do is your business and i can't imagine ever not being freinds w/someone just b/c of that
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| Posted 12/6/05 12:44 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by BNL2005
wow, that is a littel extreme. i personally don't watch it, but what you do is your business and i can't imagine ever not being freinds w/someone just b/c of that
I totally agree. What does pron & friendship have anything to do with each other??? That's so silly.
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| Posted 12/6/05 12:48 PM |
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baghag
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Re: Porn Poll
I voted.
I don't get how you watching porn has any affect on your friendship, though. It's not like you want to watch it with HER!   I hope it works out.
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| Posted 12/6/05 1:00 PM |
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momAGAIN
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by BNL2005
wow, that is a littel extreme. i personally don't watch it, but what you do is your business and i can't imagine ever not being freinds w/someone just b/c of that
I totally agree. What does pron & friendship have anything to do with each other??? That's so silly.
i agree!
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| Posted 12/6/05 1:02 PM |
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Posted by momAGAIN
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by BNL2005
wow, that is a littel extreme. i personally don't watch it, but what you do is your business and i can't imagine ever not being freinds w/someone just b/c of that
I totally agree. What does pron & friendship have anything to do with each other??? That's so silly.
i agree!
I agree! Well, everyones different I guess!
I am fully out of the closet regarding porn - no shame here!
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| Posted 12/6/05 1:16 PM |
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Myrockette
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by missus-hbradio
Posted by momAGAIN
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by BNL2005
wow, that is a littel extreme. i personally don't watch it, but what you do is your business and i can't imagine ever not being freinds w/someone just b/c of that
I totally agree. What does pron & friendship have anything to do with each other??? That's so silly.
i agree!
I agree! Well, everyones different I guess!
I am fully out of the closet regarding porn - no shame here!
I agree here too!!!!
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| Posted 12/6/05 3:38 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Porn Poll
mmmmmmmmm--pooooorrrnn
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| Posted 12/6/05 3:41 PM |
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Jesaroo
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Re: Porn Poll
nope
but i dont think she should have acted like that. and i thought i was a prude!
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| Posted 12/6/05 3:46 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
mmmmmmmmm--pooooorrrnn
How did I know that would be your answer!!
Honestly, I was TOTALLY taken aback by her reaction. I always thought I was the tamer one of the two of us.
I'm going to let some time go by and then talk to her again to see if there's something deeper here. And if not, oh well. If she's going to stop being my friend because of porn than she must not have been a great friend to begin with!!
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| Posted 12/6/05 3:59 PM |
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karacg
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Re: Porn Poll
Oh Lauren, you KNOW where I stand on this....
Sometimes, ya just need the extra lift when the POAS tells you it's time!!!
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:00 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
mmmmmmmmm--pooooorrrnn
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:02 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by leighla
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
mmmmmmmmm--pooooorrrnn
How did I know that would be your answer!!
Honestly, I was TOTALLY taken aback by her reaction. I always thought I was the tamer one of the two of us.
I'm going to let some time go by and then talk to her again to see if there's something deeper here. And if not, oh well. If she's going to stop being my friend because of porn than she must not have been a great friend to begin with!!
send her a video and tell her if the video doesn't make her tingle then you can end the friendship
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:02 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Porn Poll
I'm going to let some time go by and then talk to her again to see if there's something deeper here. And if not, oh well. If she's going to stop being my friend because of porn than she must not have been a great friend to begin with!!
send her a video and tell her if the video doesn't make her tingle then you can end the friendship
Hey Leighla...make sure you download the video first!
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:03 PM |
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kathleeng
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Re: Porn Poll
Totally extreme reaction by your friend. And, I will admit that I do watch.
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:04 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
send her a video and tell her if the video doesn't make her tingle then you can end the friendship
That should work!!
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:06 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Porn Poll
growing up, women would have me believe that they never watched porn and they never "double-clicked the mouse"
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:07 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
growing up, women would have me believe that they never watched porn and they never "double-clicked the mouse"
OMG
I've never heard "double-clicked the mouse" before. That's hysterical!!
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:10 PM |
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Jesaroo
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Re: Porn Poll
now... when you ask if ppl watch do you mean as a couple or solo?
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:14 PM |
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leighla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by Lolita4Life
now... when you ask if ppl watch do you mean as a couple or solo?
Either really.
I must say, I never really watched it until DH, but since then I have been known to watch alone.
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| Posted 12/6/05 4:16 PM |
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Jesaroo
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Re: Porn Poll
i'll watch once in a BLUE moon out of pure boredom or curiousity. then i feel ashamed for watching it.
me and dh dont ever watch it together.
lik eONCE we did, but i was wasted and he was really drunk too, but it was odd and not really enjoyful. just was dumb and irrelevent really.
Message edited 12/7/2005 3:22:59 AM.
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| Posted 12/7/05 3:22 AM |
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btrflygrl
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Re: Porn Poll
The Jan issue of Redbook stated watching a steamy scene (not necessarily porn) invokes some sort of competitve nature in the man....like he sees one man getting it on, and then he feels the need to compete with that guy on tv, and then the better sperm "act up" therefore creating a "healthier" child. 
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| Posted 12/7/05 9:23 AM |
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jar823
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Re: Porn Poll
Okay, let me explain my OTHER vote! 
DH used to work in a porn shop. His family owns it, and he worked there for about 4 years. When we started dating (we met at school!) I used to hang out there with him while he worked his long, dredful hours! So, then I used to watch a lot of porn! But now, not so much. I don't hate it or think it's gross, for christs sake, DH puts porn on his PSP! It is basically just part of our lives.
So . . . I guess my answer is sometimes/once in a while!
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| Posted 12/7/05 10:41 AM |
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leighla
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Re: Porn Poll
Posted by btrflygrl
The Jan issue of Redbook stated watching a steamy scene (not necessarily porn) invokes some sort of competitve nature in the man....like he sees one man getting it on, and then he feels the need to compete with that guy on tv, and then the better sperm "act up" therefore creating a "healthier" child.
That's interesting!!
We should have really healthy babies then!!
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