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PLEASE someone assure me...

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dajc23
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Dana

PLEASE someone assure me...

that the CONSTANT whining stops Chat Icon


Dear Lord, I can't take it anymore!!
It's literally from the moment she wakes up, until she goes to bed. And she even does that whining!

Posted 6/22/11 8:43 AM
 
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krislee316
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Kristy

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hear you I cant take it either!!

Posted 6/22/11 8:48 AM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

I thought I was the only one!!!! I even thought is this even normal?!?!?! It's the same story with my dd. I barely have time to sit and eat! Hang in there! Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/11 8:51 AM
 

Ian&EmmesMommy23
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Diana

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

i feel like i should walk around with earplugs! i tell DS to use his words and stop whining. usually it works, but when it doesnt i just walk away.

Posted 6/22/11 9:03 AM
 

dajc23
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Posted by IansMommy23

i feel like i should walk around with earplugs! i tell DS to use his words and stop whining. usually it works, but when it doesnt i just walk away.




Emerson whines while she talks, so I can't even do that lol
I just want a few moments of silence. I guess I have about 20 more yrs for that

Posted 6/22/11 9:08 AM
 

4PsInaPod
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

This gets worse when my Mother or MIL are around . . .does that happen too?
"naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnny"
"MiiiiiiiiiMiiiiiiiiiiiiii"

Lately I've been going "Joey, enough! If you want something ask me for it and say please" if he continues I ignore him.

Posted 6/22/11 9:33 AM
 

NervousNell
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..being a mommy and being a wife!

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

I feel you!
My DD is just turning one and she whines already.
Constantly. Incessantly.
I feel like for every minute she is happy, she spends 10 minutes whining and crying and screaming.

I don't even want to KNOW what will happen as she gets older.

Posted 6/22/11 9:37 AM
 

munchkinfacemama
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Gotta love whining! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Even better here-headbutting my leg while screaming Mom! Mom!

Posted 6/22/11 9:40 AM
 

Aubreysmommy
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Baby Noelle is here!

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Posted by dajc23

Posted by IansMommy23

i feel like i should walk around with earplugs! i tell DS to use his words and stop whining. usually it works, but when it doesnt i just walk away.




Emerson whines while she talks, so I can't even do that lol
I just want a few moments of silence. I guess I have about 20 more yrs for that



My DD isalmost 5 and she still whines, especially when she doesn't get her way. I drives me insane!!!

Message edited 6/22/2011 9:42:48 AM.

Posted 6/22/11 9:42 AM
 

wjb5707
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

I I was listening to 1010 am yesterday and there is actually a study that found the "whining" was the most annoying sound to adults, worst than crying, screaming, etc. Just thoughtbinteresting factoid thought I would share Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/11 10:34 AM
 

GoldenRod
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Member since 11/06

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Shawn

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Me (or DW): "Stop whining"
DD: "I'm not whining, I'm crying"
Me: "Then stop crying"
DD: "I'm not crying, I'm whining"

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/11 10:35 AM
 

bicosi
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M

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I thought I was the only one!!!! I even thought is this even normal?!?!?! It's the same story with my dd. I barely have time to sit and eat! Hang in there! Chat Icon



don't you have a newborn? Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/11 10:37 AM
 

dajc23
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Dana

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Posted by DPerotti

This gets worse when my Mother or MIL are around . . .does that happen too?
"naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnny"
"MiiiiiiiiiMiiiiiiiiiiiiii"

Lately I've been going "Joey, enough! If you want something ask me for it and say please" if he continues I ignore him.



Yes!! OMG When my mother is around all we get is "No No" (her version of Nonna) "No Nooooooooooooo"
after a mere hour of listening to her my mom goes "I think it's about time she goes home and naps" lol
And we're at her house at least 4x a weekChat Icon

Posted 6/22/11 10:58 AM
 

BAM 2009
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

We are going through that here too..And he only wants ME!!!! I am chalking it up to the 3 molars he just cut tin the last 2 weeks.. That is around when it started..One more to go..

Posted 6/22/11 12:47 PM
 

Mags1227
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M

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

i told DH that if he ever intends to get home late, he may find me curled up in the fetal position rocking back and forth from the constant whining. I hear "eh eh eh eh eh" ALL DAY LONG!

not that i can blame DS- at 9.5 months he doesn't know enough words to express himself.

although, DH has not been home late in over two weeks! Chat Icon

Posted 6/22/11 12:55 PM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
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Kristin

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Posted by bicosi

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

I thought I was the only one!!!! I even thought is this even normal?!?!?! It's the same story with my dd. I barely have time to sit and eat! Hang in there! Chat Icon



don't you have a newborn? Chat Icon


oppps yes. I misread!!! Lol. I thought you were talking about just crying!! But oh man gives me something to look forward to!

Posted 6/22/11 1:34 PM
 

MichLiz213
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Crashing, but working in early childhood education I once heard a mom tell her son, "I can't hear you when you whine." I used that often when I was a pre-school teacher and it helped!

Posted 6/22/11 1:43 PM
 

mommyIam

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Shana

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

Posted by MichLiz213

Crashing, but working in early childhood education I once heard a mom tell her son, "I can't hear you when you whine." I used that often when I was a pre-school teacher and it helped!



THIS! and it works!

I just look at him confused and say "I don't understand" he stops and tries to make the sound for whatever it is, and if its something he can't have "Oh you want this, sorry but you can't have this, you can have that or that" ... and it either is enough, or he breaks our screaming. I say "I know you want this, but I wont let you have it right now, find something else" He might protest for a minute, but I just sit down on the floor near him and just listen to him scream and if I can interject say "I know you want this" to him, like I understand him, and he just gives up in a minute and I don't feel like a horrible mom by ignoring him.

Posted 6/22/11 1:58 PM
 

DSLaff
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Dana

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

ALWAYS HELPS!! I M SORRY MY EARS TURN OFF WHEN PEOPLE WHINE AND THEN I CANT HEAR , I ALWAYS SAY THAT !!!!

Posted 6/22/11 2:06 PM
 

Kmarie36
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Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

So happy to read this. DD is almost 20 months and has been so whiny lately. I can't even blame it on her being tired, sometimes she starts from the minute she wakes up

Posted 6/23/11 4:46 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Leslie

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

I'll be 41 and I havent stopped whining.

Posted 6/23/11 5:50 PM
 

kshaps
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Member since 3/10

68 total posts

Name:
kim

Re: PLEASE someone assure me...

my daughter is 16 months & wines to be held, then wines to get down, then wines for her shoes, then throws herself backward in a tantrum because she wants them off. I have 3 boys, they were NEVER like this! Chat Icon shes soooo cute though!

Posted 6/23/11 6:53 PM
 
 

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