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Rosie4
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
Just curious, does your DH have a passcode on phone that you don't know? Is this something that everyone does?
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Posted 12/2/17 11:29 PM |
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NervousNell
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
He has an iphone that has a thumbprint code. So.i obviously can't get into it unless I use his thumb. Lol.
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Posted 12/2/17 11:38 PM |
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GoldenRod
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
DW knows all of my passcodes (except for my work computer), and I know all of her passcodes.
I don't think it's mandatory, but that's just what works for us.
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Posted 12/2/17 11:39 PM |
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MissJones
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
We don't have them anymore because we want our kids to be able to access the phone in case of an emergency but when we did, we actually had the same code. Phones are free to look at it.
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Posted 12/3/17 12:29 AM |
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StaceyWill
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
DH has one on his phone, but I know it. I don't have one on my phone. I personally would not be comfortable if I didn't know his passcode.
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Posted 12/3/17 12:40 AM |
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jeanyus27
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We know each other's pass codes.
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Posted 12/3/17 12:55 AM |
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LuckyStar
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
Posted by NervousNell
He has an iphone that has a thumbprint code. So.i obviously can't get into it unless I use his thumb. Lol.
This, except it's android and I couldn't work it even if I wanted to.
It has honestly never occurred to me to look at his phone. I'm pretty sure he's not soliciting hookers or taking women on dates because I know how much money he has and it's not enough to support that lifestyle
Message edited 12/3/2017 1:17:47 AM.
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Posted 12/3/17 1:17 AM |
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PhyllisNJoe
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We have the same passcode
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Posted 12/3/17 1:31 AM |
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ap123
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We both have passcodes. He knows mine because I use the same code for many things. I don’t know his, but I know him, and have no concern about what his doing on his phone. I wouldn’t look through his stuff and I’d be really annoyed if I found him going through my phone. I’m not hiding anything but it would show a lack of trust.
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Posted 12/3/17 7:43 AM |
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MrsT809
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
Neither of us have pass codes. It would never occur to me to snoop through his phone though.
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Posted 12/3/17 8:10 AM |
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RainyDay
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
I have a code but thats because we have a small child that likes to play with our phones. Dh asked me for it yesterday and I had no problem twlling him. Its actually similar to some of my passwords that he knows.
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Posted 12/3/17 8:29 AM |
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Ellsey10
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
Yes we both have them on our phones but we know each others codes.
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Posted 12/3/17 8:41 AM |
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SusiBee
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We know each other''s codes. No secrets.
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Posted 12/3/17 8:45 AM |
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MrsG823
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
We both have passcodes- DH knows mine and I do not know his—occasionally I change my code but I do not usually think to tell DH-we rarely look at each other’s phones. I would be really annoyed if I found DH going through my phone- I do not have anything to hide but it is my personal stuff- I believe that despite being married to DH we are each entitled to a level of privacy- I feel this is where trust comes in.
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Posted 12/3/17 8:58 AM |
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mommy2be716
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
Posted by MrsG823
We both have passcodes- DH knows mine and I do not know his—occasionally I change my code but I do not usually think to tell DH-we rarely look at each other’s phones. I would be really annoyed if I found DH going through my phone- I do not have anything to hide but it is my personal stuff- I believe that despite being married to DH we are each entitled to a level of privacy- I feel this is where trust comes in.
this. We know each other's codes because we set them up at the sprint store together, but if he was ever in my phone without me knowing i would be pretty upset, and he would be pissed at me if I did the same.
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Posted 12/3/17 9:26 AM |
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
We both have passcodes because the kids are always grabbing them but we know each others
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Posted 12/3/17 9:41 AM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We have codes (my rationale is if I lose my phone, I don’t want to make it easy for someone to just go through it)
We know each other’s codes.
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Posted 12/3/17 10:15 AM |
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PearlJamChick
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We both have passcodes in case our phones are lost or stolen, and yes, we know each other's codes.
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Posted 12/3/17 11:25 AM |
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chilltocam
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
I've always known his - mostly because he's not very techy and would frequently ask me to do something on his phone. He never had any interest in knowing mine, but I never kept it a secret. I also use the finger print but since you can have a few finger prints saved, I had him do that on my phone - but I don't he even remember s that
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Posted 12/3/17 11:30 AM |
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lululu
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We both have pass codes and we both know them. I would not be comfortable if my husband changed his code without telling me. We actually have no "privacy" about anything from each other. I don't feel like I need to keep anything from him and vice versa. That is what works for us.
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Posted 12/3/17 11:30 AM |
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Jenn79
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
We both have codes and we both know them
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Posted 12/3/17 12:02 PM |
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BargainMama
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
If you have passcodes, and you don't have a landline at home, make sure your kids know your passcodes in case they need to call 911!
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Posted 12/3/17 12:43 PM |
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alli3131
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
Posted by BargainMama
If you have passcodes, and you don't have a landline at home, make sure your kids know your passcodes in case they need to call 911!
You don’t need a password to dial 911. You can call on any locked phone
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Posted 12/3/17 1:06 PM |
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alli3131
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Phone passcodes in a marriage
Yes we both have passcodes as required by our work. But we know them. We grab each other’s phone to use internet at times if the one is closer than the other.
After our marriage almost falling apart we don’t hide things
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Posted 12/3/17 1:07 PM |
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NervousNell
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Re: Phone passcodes in a marriage
Posted by alli3131
Posted by BargainMama
If you have passcodes, and you don't have a landline at home, make sure your kids know your passcodes in case they need to call 911!
You don’t need a password to dial 911. You can call on any locked phone
Yes. On the lock screen it has the option for emergency call
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Posted 12/3/17 1:15 PM |
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