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Personal question Do you still enjoy
Sex?
It has become very uncomfortable and I am not into it anymore
Is anyone else feeling this way also?
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Posted 8/9/06 4:09 PM  |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Genna
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
yep...I have no desire for sex since becoming pg. Between MS until 14 weeks and then feeling extremely tired ALL of the time, I have had no desire. Lets just say that DH has the patients of a saint  and that we have not done the deed in a VERY long time
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:22 PM |
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
we did the Deed but I was just wishing it was over soon
Then I felt really bad after because I really love my DH and am very attracted to him but its soooo UNCOMFORTABLE
I guess I will have to be a little more creative in the positioning
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:25 PM |
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RobeyMuse
my little man
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
yes. I am almost 31 weeks and luckily for DH nothing has changed in that dept. 
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:27 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
The 2nd trimester was much better in that department than the 1st ... though still nothing like before getting preggo. I could not even fathom having sex in my 1st tri, I was so sick all the time ..
The crazy part is that i have these extremely sexual dreams and always 'want to' at the most random times.. but then when DH & I actually HAVE the chance, I totally am not into it all over again
Now that I'm in the 3rd tri, the same thing is happening again. I feel achey, tired, nauseous ..and just so BIG. I just don't want to and can't even force myself though I know I should..
My Dh has the patience of a saint also .. I feel badly 
Message edited 8/9/2006 4:29:01 PM.
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:27 PM |
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CaidensMommy
My 3 Miracles!
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
I have no sex drive whatsoever! My DH takes it personally, but it's not personal. I am just always too tired for it. By the time we actually get to it's after midnight and it's waaaay past my bedtime. I feel horrible about it, but what can I do?
It's worse now that I'm PG, but it was still bad before getting PG. I was always too tired still. I really need to get my son into bed earlier so we can try to have time for one another!
Sex is very uncomfortable for me. My belly is soooo big right now, I can't seem to get into it. I'm too busy moaning and groaning from all the aches and pains from getting into position!
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:35 PM |
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bethsiar
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by FeliciaDP
The 2nd trimester was much better in that department than the 1st ... though still nothing like before getting preggo. I could not even fathom having sex in my 1st tri, I was so sick all the time ..
The crazy part is that i have these extremely sexual dreams and always 'want to' at the most random times.. but then when DH & I actually HAVE the chance, I totally am not into it all over again
Now that I'm in the 3rd tri, the same thing is happening again. I feel achey, tired, nauseous ..and just so BIG. I just don't want to and can't even force myself though I know I should..
My Dh has the patience of a saint also .. I feel badly
I could have written this myself!!! Esp the wild dreams... Then when it comes time, I'm just so tired and HUGE....
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:48 PM |
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nferrandi
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Nicole
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
I still enjoy sex, though it does take me a bit longer than pre-preggo. DH is more of my problem. I know he loves me but he's not confortable having sex with me- he says he feels guilty. I honestly think it's because he's just not finding me attractive right now, and that makes me feel ike sh!t.
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| Posted 8/9/06 4:51 PM |
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casey31
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by bethsiar
Posted by FeliciaDP
The 2nd trimester was much better in that department than the 1st ... though still nothing like before getting preggo. I could not even fathom having sex in my 1st tri, I was so sick all the time ..
The crazy part is that i have these extremely sexual dreams and always 'want to' at the most random times.. but then when DH & I actually HAVE the chance, I totally am not into it all over again
Now that I'm in the 3rd tri, the same thing is happening again. I feel achey, tired, nauseous ..and just so BIG. I just don't want to and can't even force myself though I know I should..
My Dh has the patience of a saint also .. I feel badly
I could have written this myself!!! Esp the wild dreams... Then when it comes time, I'm just so tired and HUGE....
Yes, could've written this too!
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| Posted 8/9/06 5:11 PM |
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MommyofG
just the girls
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Yes and even more!!!!! We have been active since the day I got my BFP, nothing has changed. I will say this, DH was scared in the beginning until I assured him its fine and I guess with my hormone levels so high its more intense. DH is very lucky!
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| Posted 8/9/06 5:14 PM |
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Spring Baby06
My two loves
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by FeliciaDP
The crazy part is that i have these extremely sexual dreams and always 'want to' at the most random times.. but then when DH & I actually HAVE the chance, I totally am not into it all over again
Oh Felicia-I was the same EXACT way!! Except I would wake DH up in the middle of the night
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| Posted 8/9/06 6:41 PM |
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Juliet
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
DH and I don't do it as much but we still do it and enjoy it. If anything, our crazy schedules seem to be preventing us from getting together, not a lack of desire
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| Posted 8/9/06 7:04 PM |
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apb17
My guys
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Remind me again...whats sex?
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| Posted 8/9/06 8:37 PM |
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Sassyz75
Turning a new page
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
now that I feel her moving around so much- we both sort of feel weird about it- i know it's ridiculous to think so- but we do- we are dorky.
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| Posted 8/9/06 8:49 PM |
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Charly
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by apb17
Remind me again...whats sex?
It's awful and I feel terrible but I still have NO desire!
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| Posted 8/9/06 8:53 PM |
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SoinLove
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by FeliciaDP
The 2nd trimester was much better in that department than the 1st ... though still nothing like before getting preggo. I could not even fathom having sex in my 1st tri, I was so sick all the time ..
The crazy part is that i have these extremely sexual dreams and always 'want to' at the most random times.. but then when DH & I actually HAVE the chance, I totally am not into it all over again
Now that I'm in the 3rd tri, the same thing is happening again. I feel achey, tired, nauseous ..and just so BIG. I just don't want to and can't even force myself though I know I should..
My Dh has the patience of a saint also .. I feel badly
With the exception of being sick in the 1st trimester, it's been exactly the same for me so far. We're going through a really bad dry spell right now and like you said, I can't even force myself. I feel SO bad for DH
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| Posted 8/9/06 8:55 PM |
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Janice
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
I enjoy not using condoms or pulling and praying. I have never been one to turn it down, even through all my ms(it was the only great feeling I had), but now I have found that I am incredibly sore after intercourse. I certainly don't hit an O as frequently anymore.
TMI-position wise-I hate seeing my belly during it. I miss missionary, now all i see is my fat stomach all over the place.
ETA: I notice it also brings on heartburn. I think I lay down too quickly for it after eating, then the moving around doesn't help. So I can't really get into it with this heartburn.
Message edited 8/9/2006 11:35:18 PM.
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ddunne2
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
To be brutally honest, I can take it or leave it when not pregnant! I'm bad, I wait to see if DH will initiate and he hasn't in a while since being preggo! Guess it doesn't help that i have a super active toddler that wakes up at 5:45 every day so by 8pm I'm seriously ready for bed!
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| Posted 8/10/06 8:15 AM |
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wowcoulditbe
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by Juliet
DH and I don't do it as much but we still do it and enjoy it. If anything, our crazy schedules seem to be preventing us from getting together, not a lack of desire
us too..although now as it gets closer to our due date we are both a little afriad too (silly I know!)!
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| Posted 8/10/06 8:40 AM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Genna
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
Posted by Charly
Posted by apb17
Remind me again...whats sex?
It's awful and I feel terrible but I still have NO desire!
I have absolutely NO desire either..I feel terrible also! Somebody mentioned the word sex yesterday and DH looked at me and said "Whats that? Dont mention that word" I felt so bad but this hasnt been fun for me either...feeling tired ALL of the time and I have been feeling achy and crampy. In the beginning I was barfing my brains out till 14 weeks and it became one uncomfortable symptom after another. Its really tough and I feel soooo bad I just keep reminding myself and DH that its only temporary
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| Posted 8/10/06 8:53 AM |
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Diane
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
In my second trimester..yes, now...not really
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| Posted 8/10/06 10:11 AM |
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MrsSchwags
Soccer Baseball Lax Mom
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
i'm almost done (38 wks) and for the past 4 or 5 weeks my desire has picked up. Although DH won't because he doesn't want to hurt the baby!
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| Posted 8/10/06 10:14 AM |
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stickydust
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
ummm...I haven't done it in so long that I think I may actually be a virgin again
Poor DH - I just don't feel up to it...
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| Posted 8/10/06 10:18 AM |
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angelbear217
Mommy of 2
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
I actually enjoy it slightly more now than I did. I get in the mood a lot easier and it is more "productive"I couldn't do it at all during my first trimester.
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| Posted 8/10/06 10:24 AM |
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WoodIAm
My Boys!
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Re: Personal question Do you still enjoy
I haven't had the desire in awhile, and no matter what I say, DH is too worried that the baby will get hurt.
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