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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

Posted by fjbaby

While I agree she has come a long way...I don't think this comment was appropriate.

I am not an Oprah fan at all...



mean either. I always thought she was a racist.

Posted 5/16/07 10:58 AM
 
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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by fjbaby

While I agree she has come a long way...I don't think this comment was appropriate.

I am not an Oprah fan at all...



mean either. I always thought she was a racist.



I am going to disagree here. I do not think the woman is a racist at all. Let's not even trash her like this.

Posted 5/16/07 10:59 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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I would like to see the speech too, but I am rarely impressed with Oprah and I don't need to be. She seems rather impressed with herself.



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Regardless of the context, it's inappropriate. She would crucify someone had they said the same thing regarding black people, Asian people, Indian people, etc...

Posted 5/16/07 10:59 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

I guess I just see what she said differently

IMO- she is saying- wow- look how far I and we have come- 50 years ago the best job for a woman like my Grandma could get was a SERVANT in house- and here I am a BILLIONAIRE

which is a gaint step for WOMEN and for African Americans- she is pointing out how much the world has changed in a short amount of time!

Oprah is not a racist - you can like her or hate her- but to call her that is unfair- she does so much good thru her angle network and helps so many people- it makes me sick that someone would call her that!

Posted 5/16/07 11:19 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by 5ofClubs

Posted by fjbaby

While I agree she has come a long way...I don't think this comment was appropriate.

I am not an Oprah fan at all...



mean either. I always thought she was a racist.



I am going to disagree here. I do not think the woman is a racist at all. Let's not even trash her like this.



It is clearly shown on her shows and everything else she does that she treats white people different then black.

Posted 5/16/07 11:21 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

Posted by Beth1210

I guess I just see what she said differently

IMO- she is saying- wow- look how far I and we have come- 50 years ago the best job for a woman like my Grandma could get was a SERVANT in house- and here I am a BILLIONAIRE

which is a gaint step for WOMEN and for African Americans- she is pointing out how much the world has changed in a short amount of time!

Oprah is not a racist - you can like her or hate her- but to call her that is unfair- she does so much good thru her angle network and helps so many people- it makes me sick that someone would call her that!




I see what you're saying and had she actually said it like that, we wouldn't be having this conversation and her speech wouldn't be making news headlines... she's specified a race that is now working for her when in reality she probably has black white asian indian men and women working for her... it's the way she said it... I don't think she's racist I just think SHE thinks she's better than everyone... I'm not a fan of Oprah...

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by BellaPaige

Posted by 5ofClubs

Posted by fjbaby

While I agree she has come a long way...I don't think this comment was appropriate.

I am not an Oprah fan at all...



mean either. I always thought she was a racist.



I am going to disagree here. I do not think the woman is a racist at all. Let's not even trash her like this.



It is clearly shown on her shows and everything else she does that she treats white people different then black.



That is so not true. She has helped so many people regardless of the color of their skin. For you to say that is just plain wrong and unfair.

People always find something to put down this woman. You would think we as women would be so happy to see a woman in her position.

I am so sick of all the race issues. I just cannot stand it. Why can't we just live as one and stop with this whol;e racist thing. I just cannot live my life judging anyone based on the color of their skin. I was not raised that way. I love all people. This is so freaking frustrating to me.

Posted 5/16/07 11:24 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

Posted by Beth1210

I guess I just see what she said differently

IMO- she is saying- wow- look how far I and we have come- 50 years ago the best job for a woman like my Grandma could get was a SERVANT in house- and here I am a BILLIONAIRE

which is a gaint step for WOMEN and for African Americans- she is pointing out how much the world has changed in a short amount of time!

Oprah is not a racist - you can like her or hate her- but to call her that is unfair- she does so much good thru her angle network and helps so many people- it makes me sick that someone would call her that!




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I see what you're saying and had she actually said it like that, we wouldn't be having this conversation and her speech wouldn't be making news headlines... she's specified a race that is now working for her when in reality she probably has black white asian indian men and women working for her... it's the way she said it... I don't think she's racist I just think SHE thinks she's better than everyone... I'm not a fan of Oprah...


the point would have been lost had she not said "white folks" - but it seems that people would prefer to miss the point anyway and look at 1 sentence from a speech - instead of the whole speech- taking it out on context- but to each his/her own

Posted 5/16/07 11:25 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

I don't know, but I don't really find anything offensive about what she said.

Posted 5/16/07 11:26 AM
 

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I am glad you all feel so stongly that she is not but I will always feel strongly that she is.

Posted 5/16/07 11:27 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

I think it's disturbing that many people posting on this board seem to find Oprah's comments more offensive than the incident on the Opie & Anthony show. IMO.

Posted 5/16/07 11:28 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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That is the truth!!!!

Posted 5/16/07 11:29 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

Posted by lululu

I don't know, but I don't really find anything offensive about what she said.



your not alone- I don't either

Posted 5/16/07 11:29 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by lululu

I don't know, but I don't really find anything offensive about what she said.



your not alone- I don't either



Me too!

Posted 5/16/07 11:30 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

Posted by Beth1210


the point would have been lost had she not said "white folks" - but it seems that people would prefer to miss the point anyway and look at 1 sentence from a speech - instead of the whole speech- taking it out on context- but to each his/her own



If we're being honest, I didn't listen to the whole speech, so I was passing judgement on the one sentence... The point may have been lost but for someone like her, she should choose her words carefully, you're always going to offend someone, right?


Posted by BellaPaige

That is so not true. She has helped so many people regardless of the color of their skin. For you to say that is just plain wrong and unfair.

People always find something to put down this woman. You would think we as women would be so happy to see a woman in her position.

I am so sick of all the race issues. I just cannot stand it. Why can't we just live as one and stop with this whol;e racist thing. I just cannot live my life judging anyone based on the color of their skin. I was not raised that way. I love all people. This is so freaking frustrating to me.



I'm extremely happy that a woman hold the cards that she does... she's a very powerful woman and has done nothing but worked her asss off to get there..

The fact that she helps people doesn't give her the right to do and say anything she wants. I don't think Oprah is a racist at all, I honestly don't. I do however feel that she has this "I'm better than everyone attitude". That's JMO... it's difficult to watch her have a guest of her show that she is contantly interupting and putting down...I'm vering off the topic of the OP, but that's just my feeling on Oprah... you either love her or hate her.

Posted 5/16/07 11:32 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by Beth1210


the point would have been lost had she not said "white folks" - but it seems that people would prefer to miss the point anyway and look at 1 sentence from a speech - instead of the whole speech- taking it out on context- but to each his/her own



If we're being honest, I didn't listen to the whole speech, so I was passing judgement on the one sentence... The point may have been lost but for someone like her, she should choose her words carefully, you're always going to offend someone, right?


Posted by BellaPaige

That is so not true. She has helped so many people regardless of the color of their skin. For you to say that is just plain wrong and unfair.

People always find something to put down this woman. You would think we as women would be so happy to see a woman in her position.

I am so sick of all the race issues. I just cannot stand it. Why can't we just live as one and stop with this whol;e racist thing. I just cannot live my life judging anyone based on the color of their skin. I was not raised that way. I love all people. This is so freaking frustrating to me.




The fact that she helps people doesn't give her the right to do and say anything she wants. I don't think Oprah is a racist at all, I honestly don't. I do however feel that she has this "I'm better than everyone attitude". That's JMO... it's difficult to watch her have a guest of her show that she is contantly interupting and putting down...I'm vering off the topic of the OP, but that's just my feeling on Oprah... you either love her or hate her.



You are entiltled to your opinion. I just hate this whole race thing. It drives me insane to see people still giving in to this B-llsh-t. It is time for people to live as one. I will teach my daughter to look at people as people and not judging anyone by the color of their skin. We are all made up of the same color of blood. I am stunned by the ignorance that is still floating in today's society.

Posted 5/16/07 11:39 AM
 

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Posted 5/16/07 11:42 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

I'm not offended at all by what she said, I think people are just looking for ways to put her down because of her success

Posted 5/16/07 11:43 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by BellaPaige
You are entiltled to your opinion. I just hate this whole race thing. It drives me insane to see people still giving in to this B-llsh-t. It is time for people to live as one. I will teach my daughter to look at people as people and not judging anyone by the color of their skin. We are all made up of the same color of blood. I am stunned by the ignorance that is still floating in today's society.


Oprah is the one who brought up the whole "race" thing - in her speech. She Chose to use the word white in her description of who she has working for her. Is that not a racist remark? If a white person said this but said black people-would that have not been a problem?



exactly I am so confused by these comments.

Posted 5/16/07 11:43 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by BellaPaige
You are entiltled to your opinion. I just hate this whole race thing. It drives me insane to see people still giving in to this B-llsh-t. It is time for people to live as one. I will teach my daughter to look at people as people and not judging anyone by the color of their skin. We are all made up of the same color of blood. I am stunned by the ignorance that is still floating in today's society.


Oprah is the one who brought up the whole "race" thing - in her speech. She Chose to use the word white in her description of who she has working for her. Is that not a racist remark? If a white person said this but said black people-would that have not been a problem?



IMHO, there was nothing racist about the woman's speech. People are just looking something to nit pick about.

Posted 5/16/07 11:45 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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I'm not offended at all by what she said, I think people are just looking for ways to put her down because of her success



Exactly!! I guess some people cannot stand to see how successful she is.

Posted 5/16/07 11:46 AM
 

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Re: Oprah's Speech at Howard University

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Posted by BellaPaige
You are entiltled to your opinion. I just hate this whole race thing. It drives me insane to see people still giving in to this B-llsh-t. It is time for people to live as one. I will teach my daughter to look at people as people and not judging anyone by the color of their skin. We are all made up of the same color of blood. I am stunned by the ignorance that is still floating in today's society.


Oprah is the one who brought up the whole "race" thing - in her speech. She Chose to use the word white in her description of who she has working for her. Is that not a racist remark? If a white person said this but said black people-would that have not been a problem?



IMHO, there was nothing racist about the woman's speech. People are just looking something to nit pick about.



when you single out a race like this, you open yourself up to criticism like this. Oprah, who I believe is a philanthropist of epic proportions, has taken much liberty in saying things like this in my recent memory.

This is the woman who with one sentence about a book or product she "likes" can sell MILLIONS UPON MILLIONS of them. She has gotta know how every word she says is gospel to some people and scrutinized by others.

Posted 5/16/07 12:08 PM
 

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Posted by lolagranola

I think it's disturbing that many people posting on this board seem to find Oprah's comments more offensive than the incident on the Opie & Anthony show. IMO.



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Oprah ( who I like actually ) was speaking at a COLLEGE. She is a prominent leader in the A-A community and is often seen as a spokesperson for issues that are important for A-A's, women etc.

Opie and Anthony are "shock jocks" that have a COMEDY radio show - and they allowed an uneducated homeless man to make some stupid remarks.

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ETA: i am NOT offended by either comment nor have i ever been offended by ANY comments made by a public figure - however, I just wanted to clarify why these two incidents should not even be compared.

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Posted 5/16/07 12:50 PM
 

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My best friend graduated from Howard this past weekend & said that Oprah's speech was the highlight of the ceremony & she felt very empowered by her words.

She is speaking at an AA college & the quote is probably taken out of context.

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