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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Lisa
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Need to vent over TTC
I am so tired of this this BFN every month, I am tired and exhausted by this process once again. Why should getting pregnant be a constant issue for us. We  on the days 12,14,16 and go the extra mile to help bring on our BFP and still come up empty.
Its not fair, It took me 7 months with DD and first try with my last pregnancy that ended as a miscarriage at 9wks.
 Sorry to vent this cycle is making me very cranky. Wish AF would leave already so I can start trying again.
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Posted 2/5/11 11:32 AM  |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
Vent all you want, we are here to hear and support you. TTC is not an easy process it seems. This is my 4 month and Im going crazy. I thought it was going to be easy but its not. I am so sorry and I hope you get your BFP soon  
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| Posted 2/5/11 11:35 AM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
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Lisa
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
Posted by bettybcafe
Vent all you want, we are here to hear and support you. TTC is not an easy process it seems. This is my 4 month and Im going crazy. I thought it was going to be easy but its not. I am so sorry and I hope you get your BFP soon
thank you 
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| Posted 2/5/11 11:37 AM |
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MrsG72907
Mommy of 2 girls!
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
i have been feeling the same exact way. feb makes 11 months with a chemical in december. started spotting yesterday so im sure AF is on her way. we do have male infertility issues but its still soooo frustrating.
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| Posted 2/5/11 11:43 AM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
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| Posted 2/5/11 11:45 AM |
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Shelleybean11
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
The process is completely exhausting and an emotional roller coaster. I completely understand your frustration, I'm on month 10 now.
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| Posted 2/5/11 12:09 PM |
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Bearcat
Love my little girls!!! <3
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
im sorry, just want to give u some
Message edited 2/5/2011 12:59:38 PM.
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| Posted 2/5/11 12:59 PM |
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
it's an emotional rollercoaster for sure! for you!
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| Posted 2/5/11 1:10 PM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
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| Posted 2/5/11 1:11 PM |
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addingonemore
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
Vent away! We have all heard and experienced it right along with you  This is our 3rd month and we did all we could possibly do this month with bd-ing and all the old wives tales. I am going to lose some faith if this isn't our month. We played the odds and I will be bummed if we don't get a bfp-but I WILL carry on. Good luck to you
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| Posted 2/5/11 1:14 PM |
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autumn
Mommy to 2 divas
Member since 9/07 3389 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
thank you ladies, I am very happy for all the girls that recieved their BFP. I just want mine to come already
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| Posted 2/5/11 6:22 PM |
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gina409
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
i am right there with you..have good days and horrible days..
i never thought it would take this long to have a child..
but we cant give up and we keep trying cause its so worth it in the end
hope you feel better
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| Posted 2/5/11 7:03 PM |
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MrsG72907
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
Posted by gina409
i am right there with you..have good days and horrible days..
i never thought it would take this long to have a child..
but we cant give up and we keep trying cause its so worth it in the end
hope you feel better
speaking of horrible days...i had a crying breakdown today about TTC...its just so much at times. then DH and I a little while ago which made me feel a better, esp. since it is not O time. But then I went to the bathroom and it was pinksih....i guess AF is on her way...ugh. A bit early, CD22 today, but who knows with my crazy body.
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| Posted 2/5/11 9:06 PM |
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limommer
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
You are in good company so feel free to vent away! I am at my wits end as well this month will mark our 7th month never in my wildest dreams would it take this long when people around me sneeze next to thier DH and they get pregnant! My patience is wearing thin I try to take a deep breath and just go day by day. I really don't think I can handle another 2ww I may start hittin the bottle!!!!
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| Posted 2/5/11 9:42 PM |
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babyfever24
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
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| Posted 2/5/11 10:15 PM |
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BigSmooch
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
I feel you. I had it easy with my first pregnancy because it happened so easily. I didn't have to deal with the bfns but that was short lived because all of the joy was sucked out of me when I miscarried. What a terrible thing to go through. Even though I had a pregnancy it's still 5 months of what I feel like is wasted time. I'm ready to get back on the horse but now I'm scared of losing a second pregnancy. I'm also scared that it is going to take forever to get pregnant this time.
TTC is def an emotional rollercoaster
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| Posted 2/7/11 12:27 PM |
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apples99
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| Posted 2/7/11 12:36 PM |
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MamaNature
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| Posted 2/7/11 2:33 PM |
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Kris828
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
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| Posted 2/7/11 6:04 PM |
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Arissa444
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
Hoping that things turn out better for you and your journey on the ttc boards will soon move over to the pregnancy boards...sticky dust wishes sent your way for next month
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| Posted 2/7/11 8:21 PM |
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ElizaRags35
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Re: Need to vent over TTC
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