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So i'm 10w2d and freaking out! This is when we had our m/c and i'm just so nervous. I feel much different, but I still am just down today. My m/s is still here in full force, but my bobbies don't hurt as much. I'm exhausted, but that's about it. At this stage how did you guys feel? Were you starting to feel a bit better or like you were still in the throws of the 1st triamester?

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at that point, i was DEFINITELY still in the first trimester mode - mood all over the place, nauseous, constipated... just not feeling "myself". the symptoms really didn't start to gradually dissipate until first tri was over, and even lasted for a few weeks afterwards.

BUT i should say that the symptoms do come and go throughout first tri. they were never exactly the same from day to day.

so just because you're having some symptoms and not others, i wouldn't worry about it at all. i'm sure all is perfectly well with your pregnancy

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It's tough, I struggled with confidence in the early stages of this pregnancy because of a prior MC.

The only thing that helps is time-the longer the pregnancy continues the more I think this is really happening this time.


I also embrace all of the MS and love it now that I can feel movement. It will get better

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i didnt feel myself until about 17 weeks.

symptoms come and go, and they change all the time.

have faith! you'll be fine.

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I started to feel better in my 9th week- it freaked me out, too, as I had previous losses. I am now 27 weeks and everything is fine.

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my boobs stopped hurting around then and i freaked too. M/s was still there though

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I never had M/S. Just exhaustion, which is just lifting. I'm sure you are fine!

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Honestly, for both of my pregnancies, I don't feel anything at all! I sometime wonder if everything is ok b/c I don't even feel pregnant!! Everything is fine... hang in there. Your boobs won't hurt the whole time. And hey! You're still puking right?!

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First please try to relax..i know that is easier said than done but your baby is fine you went for a sono saw your little one and the baby had a stong heartbeat all wonderful things try to concentrate on the positive and all the wonderful things to look forward to...I just hit 16 weeks and my stomach went way down i freaked and then just talked myself out of it..I try to keep the faith with every passing day and I concentrate on the good not the bad things that can happen

Have faith please

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Yes still have ehaustion, m/s ad intermitten boob pain.....I think it's just because we're the same day we were last time that i'm freaking out. I just get so nervous. I see the doc on Tues so hopefully we can her the hb on the doppler to reassure me. Thanks ladies for the pep talk...I needed it!

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I'm just ahead of you and for the last two weeks, I've felt really good for 3-4 days and then really bad for 3-4 days - the fog is definitely lifting. Symptoms do come and go so don't let it stress you out - I'm sure all is fine.

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I didn't really have bad symptoms, the occasional nausea and tiredness but I all around felt pretty good. When I wouldn't have certain symptoms I would get nervous too but all was well.

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Posted by spa118

I never had M/S. Just exhaustion, which is just lifting. I'm sure you are fine!

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I never had m/s but my boobs were sore-around that time there were days that they didn't hurt as much and then they would hurt more the following day. I think symptomss just fluctuate-and if u still have m/s I would think it is just fine.

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My first trimester ends on Tuesday and I've been paranoid the whole time too. I had a mc in February and got pregnant right after that. I have had no pregnancy symptoms except one bout of nausea(which happened yesterday) and sore breasts, which felt better around 8 weeks. I of course assumed the worst, but sure enough the following week I saw my peanut moving around. My doctor told me that once there is a heartbeat the chances of mc are greatly reduced. Unfortunately some of us were unlucky in the past, but I try to remind myself that the odds are in our favor !

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Since I just started my 11th week... all last week I felt much better than in weeks past. The m/s was not a intense... by boobs are not as sore... but the exhaustion is in overdrive!

I understand what you are going through, DH and I experienced a mc around the same time as you and that is all you think about - focus on the positive and what you want... Imagine your little bean and what he/she will look like, how you will feel when he/she is here.
I know it's easier said than done, but that's the only way I've been able to get over those thoughts...