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JenniferEver
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Jennifer
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My grandmother passed away
and I only found out because my cousin works with my dad.
My dad, who can call 100 times to harass my mom about income taxes did not bother to tell us.
The funeral is tomorrow. Should I go to see my dad with his gf and my horrible uncles and cousins?
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nov04libride
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Re: My grandmother passed away
She's your grandmother, of course you should go. Good luck and 
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LaurenExp
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I would go, you may regret it if you don't.
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Posted by nov04libride
She's your grandmother, of course you should go. Good luck and
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I know I should go.. It's just...ugh. I'm nervous about it
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Beth
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I would go- show them that you are a better person then they are
so sorry for your loss
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Blazesyth
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Go for yourself, not for anyone else.
Message edited 1/2/2007 11:46:24 AM.
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lululu
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Re: My grandmother passed away
i think that you should go to pay respects to your grandmother. forget about your dad and his GF and just dont speak to them.....
But if going is too hard for you, then i would just go to the cemetary and pay your respects in private.
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Go since she is your grandmother. Ignore him and his GF.
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Christine
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I am very sorry.
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~Colleen~
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Posted by lululu
i think that you should go to pay respects to your grandmother. forget about your dad and his GF and just dont speak to them.....
But if going is too hard for you, then i would just go to the cemetary and pay your respects in private.
I agree. Go for your grandmother (and for you)...but if it's too difficult, go to the cemetary and pay your respects in private.
I'm sorry for your loss...
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LisaW
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Coming from someone who just went through major family funeral drama
Definitely go
Ignore whomever you don't like
ETA- I am so sorry for your loss 
Message edited 1/2/2007 11:51:44 AM.
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Lisa
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I am so sorry!!
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I'm so sorry for your loss!
Definitely go! Just ignore your Dad and his GF! 
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Diva
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Jen, I'm so sorry for your loss. Go for your own peace of mind. I'd hate for you to regret not going because of your dad and his family.
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I am still in shock and just completely ****** that no one could be bothered to tell us. It happenend on friday
ETA: I hate my dad's whole family. I want to legally change my name
Message edited 1/2/2007 11:54:04 AM.
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twobabies
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Re: My grandmother passed away
i would go. and im sorry about your grandma.
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Jagster2000
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Me & My Sis back in the day!~~Jennifer
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I am sorry! I would definetly go. If you don't ,You may wish you had later on.
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Shelly
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I'm sorry. I would go to the funeral. Its about you and your grandmother more than anyone else.
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baghag
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Posted by Colleen9304
Posted by lululu
i think that you should go to pay respects to your grandmother. forget about your dad and his GF and just dont speak to them.....
But if going is too hard for you, then i would just go to the cemetary and pay your respects in private.
I agree. Go for your grandmother (and for you)...but if it's too difficult, go to the cemetary and pay your respects in private.
I'm sorry for your loss...
I agree, too.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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IrishTracy
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I say go. YOu will regret it if you don't. If they come up to you be the bigger person & walk away. A funeral is no place to start drama.
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Ambersmom
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Re: My grandmother passed away
I'm soo sorry Jenn about your Grandmother but I would avoid the heartache of the occassion if possible.
Obviously some people didn't think it was important enough to tell you that your grandmother passed  Clearly you weren't intended to be there
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Jesaroo
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Re: My grandmother passed away
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: My grandmother passed away
 I am so sorry
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JenniferEver
The Disney Lady
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Re: My grandmother passed away
THERE'S NO MASS!
And my grandmother was very religious and they're not even having a mass for her!
they're sick
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Jax430
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Re: My grandmother passed away
Jenn, I'm so sorry for your loss. I think you should go to the funeral if it is something that will be meaningful for you and bring you some closure. Ignore your father the best you can.
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