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Theresa05
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Moms...
Do you think its in right taste for a mom to be going to Miami for the weekend for a vacation with her "girls"
I am DYING to see what everyone says b4 I respond..
this is my friend doing this.. 
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Diana1215
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Re: Moms...
I def. think it's right.
A mom needs some downtime also.
She should live it up - relax, and enjoy!
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| Posted 4/1/08 9:57 AM |
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smdl
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Re: Moms...
Well it depends.....  As long as you are not "embarrassed" the next day by your behavior or worry that some pics could be posting online then there are no issues.
Have a good time! You need your "me" time.
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| Posted 4/1/08 9:58 AM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Do you think its in right taste for a mom to be going to Miami for the weekend for a vacation with her "girls"
I am DYING to see what everyone says b4 I respond..
this is my friend doing this..
edited.. she's married
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| Posted 4/1/08 9:59 AM |
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Stefanie
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Re: Moms...
I think it's fine!
Just because you're a mom, doesn't mean that you have to stop seeing your friends or stop doing what you want to do in life. We're not dead!
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hbugal
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Re: Moms...
Nothing wrong with it at all...
In the past I have always taken vacations away from the either the kids or DH...
Im not ready to leave Caden yet though. But if the oppurtunity arose, and DH was going to be the one watching him..MAYBE
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
Posted by smdl
Well it depends..... As long as you are not "embarrassed" the next day by your behavior or worry that some pics could be posting online then there are no issues.
Have a good time! You need your "me" time.
haha, I don't drink anymore
but its not me.. I would never go to Miami for a weekend without my husband and baby.. I did all of that pre Sofia..
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:00 AM |
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Lucky
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Re: Moms...
If she is comfortable with it and has someone she really trusts to be with the baby, I don't see why not.
I wouldn't be able to do it but would have no problem knowing that others do it once in a blue moon. If it were every other week, I'd think that was odd.
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:00 AM |
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Tanaholic
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Re: Moms...
I think it depends what type of vacation it is--if it for a weekend of hard core partying (as she prob is going for to Miamii)...then maybe not.
But for a nice relaxing girls getaway then yes.
When DS was 13 months I went with Kristen and Shopaholic921 and my sister to Puerto Rico for 3 nights. It was hard to leave DS at first, but it was so nice to just get away and relax. I would def do it again!
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:00 AM |
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Diana1215
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Re: Moms...
I think even if she's married she should still go away.
Like Stef said, we're not dead.
But, that being said - I am so not ready to leave Jack yet - but I hope I will be able to someday!
Message edited 4/1/2008 10:01:08 AM.
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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Stefanie
I think it's fine!
Just because you're a mom, doesn't mean that you have to stop seeing your friends or stop doing what you want to do in life. We're not dead!
ITA!
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Diana1215
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by smdl
Well it depends..... As long as you are not "embarrassed" the next day by your behavior or worry that some pics could be posting online then there are no issues.
Have a good time! You need your "me" time.
haha, I don't drink anymore
but its not me.. I would never go to Miami for a weekend without my husband and baby.. I did all of that pre Sofia..
You don't think that you will ever want to go away for a nice girls weekend? A spa? Lay on the beach? Nice restaurants? 
I did my share of partying and vacationing before Jack - but I def. forsee me laying on a beach somewhere - with a margerita in my hand - and no child anywhere in sight!
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:02 AM |
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JenBenMen
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Re: Moms...
Totally go!!! can i come too?
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:02 AM |
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smdl
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
Posted by smdl
Well it depends..... As long as you are not "embarrassed" the next day by your behavior or worry that some pics could be posting online then there are no issues.
Have a good time! You need your "me" time.
haha, I don't drink anymore
but its not me.. I would never go to Miami for a weekend without my husband and baby.. I did all of that pre Sofia..
I don't see a problem with it. I agree with other posters. Hard core partying. Probably not but girls weekend, yes. Why not?
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:03 AM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Moms...
sure why not? Everyone needs to get away
my dh is going to myrtle beach to play golf for 4 days, I told him to have fun 
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2BEANS
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Re: Moms...
I think its okay to do that, but i think for me it would depend on my childs age. Right now at 6m, i couldnt be away that long. i worked 12 hours yesterday longest i been with out my dd so far, and it was soo hard.
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:04 AM |
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Kelly9904
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Re: Moms...
As long as she has someone to watch the baby I dont see an issue.
If she did this constantly I would probably think it more odd.
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:04 AM |
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yankinmanc
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Re: Moms...
Hells yeah! Where do I sign up???
I have been away with my work, and I was meant to go away to Wales with my gf's (but my husband had an accident, so I didn't go)
I can't wait to go away without anyone else!!!
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| Posted 4/1/08 10:05 AM |
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
I guess bc I know how she behaves when she is not with her husband I find something wrong with it.. I am a fart I guess
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
You don't think that you will ever want to go away for a nice girls weekend? A spa? Lay on the beach? Nice restaurants?
I did my share of partying and vacationing before Jack - but I def. forsee me laying on a beach somewhere - with a margerita in my hand - and no child anywhere in sight!
I don't know.. Laying on a beach without Ronnie and my babies.. prob never.. its not me..
I rather be there with him and her.. them......
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Diana1215
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Re: Moms...
Posted by Theresa05
You don't think that you will ever want to go away for a nice girls weekend? A spa? Lay on the beach? Nice restaurants?
I did my share of partying and vacationing before Jack - but I def. forsee me laying on a beach somewhere - with a margerita in my hand - and no child anywhere in sight!
I don't know.. Laying on a beach without Ronnie and my babies.. prob never.. its not me..
I rather be there with him and her.. them......
You're a good wife and mother. I'm now daydreaming about the day I can leave the two of them behind!
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Theresa05
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Re: Moms...
You're a good wife and mother. I'm now daydreaming about the day I can leave the two of them behind!
I am just really a fart :(
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twicethefun
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Re: Moms...
Good for her! Wish I could get a break like that.
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MST9106
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Re: Moms...
It depends...I love SoBe and did all of that good stuff before I was married...but I would go if it was a special occassion like a bachellorette party or a big b-day bash or something like that...i wouldn't do it for a "weekend with the girls"...i can do a night out with the girls here and be with my family the next day.
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| Posted 4/1/08 11:41 AM |
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Charly
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Re: Moms...
My DH still goes golfing and gambling with the boys. Personally, I could not leave my husband and/or baby, but that's my problem. My DH has no problem with it if I wanted to.
Just because you are a mom, your life shouldn't end there. As long as you aren't doing anything disrespectful, why not.
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