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cateyemm
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Meltdowns
I've been having them daily. DH is about to toss me into the East River. I'm getting all the help I can but at this point, I think I need to quit my job and move into a psych ward. 
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IAMMRSBROWN
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Re: Meltdowns
Thankfully these boards provide some sanity!
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| Posted 11/9/11 2:52 PM |
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ReRe17
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Re: Meltdowns
I'm right there with you!!! I don't know where they're coming from, but I'm fine one minute and then I'm hysterical the next. So hysterical I can't calm myslef down. Just stopped meds after a chemical and we're taking a much needed break. I'm hoping that once my body is hormone free it will get better. Poor DH!! Don't know how he deals with me sometimes.
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| Posted 11/9/11 3:15 PM |
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AngnShaun
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| Posted 11/9/11 3:28 PM |
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cateyemm
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by ReRe17
I'm right there with you!!! I don't know where they're coming from, but I'm fine one minute and then I'm hysterical the next. So hysterical I can't calm myslef down. Just stopped meds after a chemical and we're taking a much needed break. I'm hoping that once my body is hormone free it will get better. Poor DH!! Don't know how he deals with me sometimes.
sorry! our poor dh's. 
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| Posted 11/9/11 4:18 PM |
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Beaches25
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Re: Meltdowns
I am the same way...my emotions are a roller coaster and I have been soooo irrational lately. My poor dh doesn't know what to do...and if one more person tells me to relax it will happen...I may lose it.
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:13 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Meltdowns
First I want to say that whenever I see the subject line of this thread, I automatically think of those Bliss chocolate meltaway squares... They're little chocolates that literally melt in your mouth 
Anyway ..
I'm a psycho, right there with ya!
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:37 PM |
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cateyemm
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by PennyCat
First I want to say that whenever I see the subject line of this thread, I automatically think of those Bliss chocolate meltaway squares... They're little chocolates that literally melt in your mouth
Anyway ..
I'm a psycho, right there with ya!
Great now i want chocolate. Thanks.
I mean, I feel like I shouldnt be having meltdowns. Last night was a little nutty. I should be relatively stable at this point. I should be enjoying my forced break with poor DH and going out and having fun. But I'm a psycho instead.
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:40 PM |
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prunepie
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Re: Meltdowns
you are shoulding all over yourself 
it will come in waves and anyone who tells you different is full of shiat! feel better xoxo
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:47 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by cateyemm
Posted by PennyCat
First I want to say that whenever I see the subject line of this thread, I automatically think of those Bliss chocolate meltaway squares... They're little chocolates that literally melt in your mouth
Anyway ..
I'm a psycho, right there with ya!
Great now i want chocolate. Thanks.
I mean, I feel like I shouldnt be having meltdowns. Last night was a little nutty. I should be relatively stable at this point. I should be enjoying my forced break with poor DH and going out and having fun. But I'm a psycho instead.
no no no.. don't give yourself the pressure of saying what you SHOULD be doing!! What you SHOULD be doing, is feeling however you want to feel and experiencing the grief that goes along with a loss, especially after infertility!
The last thing you need now is to put pressure on yourself for how you think you should be feeling. Believe me, its been almost a year and a half since we lost my first baby and I am still grieving...
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:48 PM |
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cateyemm
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by prunepie
you are shoulding all over yourself
OMG!!!
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:48 PM |
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cateyemm
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by PennyCat
no no no.. don't give yourself the pressure of saying what you SHOULD be doing!! What you SHOULD be doing, is feeling however you want to feel and experiencing the grief that goes along with a loss, especially after infertility!
The last thing you need now is to put pressure on yourself for how you think you should be feeling. Believe me, its been almost a year and a half since we lost my first baby and I am still grieving...
aaannnndddd now I'm crying again.
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:49 PM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by prunepie
you are shoulding all over yourself
it will come in waves and anyone who tells you different is full of shiat! feel better xoxo
OMG .. shoulding all over yourself .. 
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:49 PM |
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prunepie
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by PennyCat
Posted by prunepie
you are shoulding all over yourself
it will come in waves and anyone who tells you different is full of shiat! feel better xoxo
OMG .. shoulding all over yourself ..
its something i learned from therapy! a long time ago and its a great saying that helps me when i should on myself alot! xoxo
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| Posted 11/9/11 5:55 PM |
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cateyemm
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Re: Meltdowns
Posted by prunepie
Posted by PennyCat
Posted by prunepie
you are shoulding all over yourself
it will come in waves and anyone who tells you different is full of shiat! feel better xoxo
OMG .. shoulding all over yourself ..
its something i learned from therapy! a long time ago and its a great saying that helps me when i should on myself alot! xoxo
im just plain ole shittting on myself
lol
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| Posted 11/9/11 9:18 PM |
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LIRascal
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Re: Meltdowns
I just had one- twice. After AF showed up  I had one. DH was very good and huggy and understanding.
MIL calls about 15 minutes ago to put on a random show. I'm like, "now?" She got upset that I questioned her, and I kinda gave it to her.  Do you think I have time to give a flying bleep about a TV Show right now? DH is doing laundry, I'm doing dishes, and I dont have time for a show right now.
Poor DH.... I let him have it for no reason about his mom....
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