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Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

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Jennifer

Life

In the general sense.......

Is it fair or unfair?

pick one or the other

Posted 2/23/06 5:11 AM
 
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star

Member since 5/05

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Because 2 people fell in love

Re: Life

This is a tough one for me right now, but basically I would have to say Life has been fair to me. I feel you get what you give out of life.

Posted 2/23/06 5:45 AM
 

mrswask
Pookie Love

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Michal

Re: Life

unfair

Posted 2/23/06 7:03 AM
 

Shorty
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Member since 5/05

30390 total posts

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really

Re: Life

unfair.

I'm not using MY life as an example, just life in general. There are plenty of people out there suffering that SHOULDN'T BE.

Message edited 2/23/2006 7:12:10 AM.

Posted 2/23/06 7:04 AM
 

CAJ
woulda, coulda, shoulda

Member since 12/05

3366 total posts

Name:
CJ

Re: Life

Personally- Fair....

Posted 2/23/06 7:14 AM
 

Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!

Member since 5/05

20046 total posts

Name:
Gerty ®

Re: Life

I go with fair. I haven't gotten everything I want, but my life is pretty damn good. I really can't complain.

Posted 2/23/06 7:17 AM
 

FireIslandLove

Member since 5/05

12119 total posts

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Re: Life

After this year of worldwide natural disasters, I'd have to go unfair on this one. Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/06 7:20 AM
 

JennChris
life moves fast

Member since 5/05

4225 total posts

Name:
Jenn

Re: Life

depends on which situations in my life.... generally I would say unfair

Posted 2/23/06 8:08 AM
 

CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.

Member since 5/05

3303 total posts

Name:
Brianna

Re: Life

UNFAIR.....DEF....
The worst things always happen to the best ppl Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/06 8:15 AM
 

nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.

Member since 7/05

57538 total posts

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Re: Life

Only in the general sense (or with my life), I would say fair. It's hard to keep this perspective at times when I've seen utter devastation in people's lives.

Posted 2/23/06 8:16 AM
 

Kezza
LIF Infant

Member since 11/05

113 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Life

It depends on what is going on in my life...fair one year...unfair the next.

I have to take a page from the Rolling Stones on this one..."you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need."

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Posted 2/23/06 8:21 AM
 

Sandra
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Sandra

Re: Life

My life has been unfair if you were to actually 'look' at it, but w/ my attitude, I say fair/good and I am lucky. *make sense?

Posted 2/23/06 8:23 AM
 

FelAndJon
needs to update her avatar pic

Member since 6/05

10212 total posts

Name:
Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: Life

For me personally, very fair.
For other, less fortunate people, less fair. I also think though that in many cases, life will be what you make of it. Some people (not referring to anyone here) I know are very negative about all aspects of their life and can never see the positive sides of things. It the grass is always greeener feeling. I am a more positive person and I think the outcome has been greatly affected by that.

Posted 2/23/06 9:02 AM
 

Boobobunny
Live in the Present

Member since 5/05

3572 total posts

Name:
Dannielle

Re: Life

I do believe that some people are born with advantages that others do not have...so in that respect life is Unfair.
For me to consider life Fair...we would all need to start out the same advantges/disadvantages.

Posted 2/23/06 9:06 AM
 

LAMGAJ28
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Member since 10/05

6039 total posts

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Re: Life

I agree with Jacquie and what she mentioned.
I think Life is all about perceptions and how you react to situations.
I also believe that there are no coincidences and that everything happens for a reason. There's always that greater plan that we might not see at the moment....
Like my husband would say...I'm Mrs. Optimist.....Chat Icon
And as the saying goes....if Life hands you Lemmons...make some Lemmonade....Chat Icon
I find Life Fair....actually even better than fair...if I'm healthy and those that I love too...for me right then and there...we're happy and wealthy....Good Health is of primary importance to me. When you got that..you can enjoy everything or live through whatever it might be.

Posted 2/23/06 9:09 AM
 

MrsProfessor
hi

Member since 5/05

14279 total posts

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Re: Life

Overall, unfair. But personally, as far as major things go, I have been mostly lucky.

Posted 2/23/06 9:12 AM
 

Mrs-Boop
My Babies

Member since 5/05

4956 total posts

Name:
Jaime

Re: Life

We have had our share of tragedy in my family and through it all I still have to say life is fair. Life is what you make of it. Instead of burying ourselves in depression when we lose someone, we find something good out of it. For example, my brother died, we miss him terribly, but the "good" that came our of his death, was bringing a family that had practically fallen apart closer together, to which they remain to this day, it helped a young kid on the verge of disaster turn his life around and grow up and mature into a great man.
Jobs, whenever I was down on my luck thinking the world would end something ALWAYS came up, that was even better than before.
Of course there are some things in life that are unfair, but it is those things that make us stronger.
I always think how unfair it is for a child to suffer with an illness, but think of all that child is gaining and helping others to gain too, We all suffer at some time in life, but it makes us stronger, tougher and more determined to keep going.

Posted 2/23/06 9:19 AM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: Life

for me, it has been fair. but I know lots of people that cant' say that.

Posted 2/23/06 9:23 AM
 

MissJones
I need a nap!

Member since 5/05

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Re: Life

Posted by FelAndJon

For me personally, very fair.
For other, less fortunate people, less fair. I also think though that in many cases, life will be what you make of it. Some people (not referring to anyone here) I know are very negative about all aspects of their life and can never see the positive sides of things. It the grass is always greeener feeling. I am a more positive person and I think the outcome has been greatly affected by that.



Completely agree. I always look at a negative situation and say that it could always be worse, because in reality, it could be. Have to look at things positivly and be grateful for what happened and realize what could've happened.

Posted 2/23/06 9:59 AM
 

mskimmy98
My twins are one!!!

Member since 5/05

2540 total posts

Name:
Kimberly

Re: Life

unfair

Posted 2/23/06 10:07 AM
 

missus-hbradio
Twin mommy

Member since 5/05

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Re: Life

UNFAIR

Posted 2/23/06 10:08 AM
 

Marcie
Complete Happiness :)

Member since 5/05

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LOVE being a Mommy!

Re: Life

I will have to say Life has been fair

Posted 2/23/06 10:15 AM
 

BabyAvocado
Happy New Year

Member since 5/05

17334 total posts

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Re: Life

Not for me personally, but generally speaking, UNFAIR.

Posted 2/23/06 10:16 AM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

Member since 5/05

30683 total posts

Name:
D

Re: Life

fair

Posted 2/23/06 10:16 AM
 

Palebride
I am an amazing bakist

Member since 5/05

13673 total posts

Name:
Lori

Re: Life

I usually an optimistic person, so I'd have to say it's usually fair.
Yes, bad things happen to good people - but that could be becsue that person can handle it - or because there's some bigger lesson to learn from it all.
And good things happen to bad people - but that could mean there are bad things out there waiting for them, to catch up with them...

Posted 2/23/06 10:16 AM
 
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