Just want to cry

I am so upset. I feel like I'm all alone on this mission of TTC. DH was the one who said he wanted to start trying but now I feel like he doesn't. I feel like he never wants to BD cause there's to much pressure or something! Honestly I just want to have s e x and it's just an added bonus that there's a change that I could get pregger's LOL.
But seriously I hate this whole process. I am the only one who inniates (sp?)
s e x anymore, it's just not fun. I feel like he'd rather play his video game then spend time with me and that makes me feel very SAD.

Vent over

edited for spelling

Message edited 11/16/2009 9:03:06 AM.

Re: Just want to cry

Im sorry you feel alone

I started taking OPKs and we would BD around that time. DH joked saying that He's a piece of meat now

Maybe dont tell him when you are Oing and just put on something cute and get it on...it might be too much for him to hear the whole process.

As for the video games, my Dh is also attached to his but he knows there has to be a compromise. I would def talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. If he wants to have a family then he has to make effort.... you cant "make" a baby on your own...

Good luck!!

Re: Just want to cry

I think they ALL go through that sometime or another. Don't get discouraged. I think most men have this view that they are going to be able to get their wives pg on the first try and when that doesn't happen its a blow to their confidence. Sorry you are dealing with this!