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mrsprop
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Maureen
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just got the news
So my DH and I have been ttc for 4months and still no BFP. We haven't told anyone that we are trying. I just learned today that my SIL is expecting. :( I am so jealous! I never have cried before over not succeeding at TTC. Am I wrong to feel jealous
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JennyPenny
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Re: just got the news
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| Posted 5/4/09 5:18 PM |
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Agape08
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Re: just got the news
it's only natural to feel jealous...i would feel the same way...just don't let is stress you so you can be successful!!!! 
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| Posted 5/4/09 6:26 PM |
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Krystal
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Re: just got the news
It is normal to feel that way. I too get the same way when people tell me they are expecting I am happy for them but at the same time secretly jealous. Your time will come soon.
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| Posted 5/5/09 8:44 AM |
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sunflowerjesss
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Re: just got the news
You are certainly not wrong at all for feeling jealous. My BFF got her BFP 2 weeks before me. I had no clue I was pg. But I remember being so disappointed and jealous.
Hang in there! 
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| Posted 5/5/09 8:59 AM |
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CrankyPants
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Re: just got the news
No, you are not wrong. Your feelings are your feeling, you can't control them. And, just because you want what she has doesn't mean you aren't happy for her, you just want the same for you
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| Posted 5/5/09 9:55 AM |
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HighHopes
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Kathy
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Re: just got the news
TTC can be a rollercoaster of emotions. Once DH & I agreed we wanted to add to our family, receiving news of other people's pregnancy had my thoughts in overdrive. I was extremly happy for the couple but I also experienced times of sadness.
Try to focus on you & DH (keeping one another healthy, making time for one another outside the bedroom, trying new things,etc.).
Message edited 5/5/2009 10:23:12 AM.
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| Posted 5/5/09 10:19 AM |
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preggo08
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Re: just got the news
Just be patient - - -it will be u soon enough
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| Posted 5/5/09 6:09 PM |
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PennyCat
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Jib
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Re: just got the news
Well for what its worth, I am jealous that u are even TRYING! 
DH wants to wait it out a little longer and enjoy our time together without a baby, travel, etc. Of course I agree and this time is great and its time we won't get back until we're like 70, buuuuut... I would love to be pregnant!  Hopefully within the next year I can "officially" join u ladies!
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| Posted 5/5/09 8:12 PM |
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Re: just got the news
Not at all! Just dont stress over it! Good luck!
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| Posted 5/6/09 8:42 AM |
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