I've become so mean!!!!!!!!

I don't know how to explain it any other way, but for the past 3 weeks or so I've become so mean!!!! Very snippy with people, no patience what so ever!
My husband says "you can't blame this one on pregnancy" but what else can I blame it on? I'm usually so passive and so calm about things now any little thing sets me off and gets on my last nerve!!!!! Is anyone else experiencing this kind of bizzare behavior???????
XOXOXO
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Posted by babyonthebrain

I don't know how to explain it any other way, but for the past 3 weeks or so I've become so mean!!!! Very snippy with people, no patience what so ever!
My husband says "you can't blame this one on pregnancy" but what else can I blame it on? I'm usually so passive and so calm about things now any little thing sets me off and gets on my last nerve!!!!! Is anyone else experiencing this kind of bizzare behavior???????
XOXOXO
BOTB

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I think there is something more than hormones; it is almost - for me, anyway - a total intolerance of complete and utter cr*p! I used to be very complacent, and now, I say it like it is, and cannot put up with all the things I used to have to turn a blind eye to.

I'll give you a stupid example: I was the only person on line at a Dunkin--Baskin, waiting at the Baskin counter with DD. There were three people working. The Dunkin line kept getting longer, as more and more people entered the store. The staff were serving all these people who had come in well after me, even though I had been there a while, and they had established eye contact with me. After literally ten minutes, I told the mananger on duty what I thought of his store's service, and took my business elsewhere. Typically, I would not care too much, and would have just chatted with DD to pass the time.

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I yelled at a 15 year old on the LIRR today tapping the back of my chair...I lost it on a 15 year old....

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Dude.. I am mean anyway.

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me too i feel like Evilina sometimes, everyone gets on my nerves and I wind up hating 3 new people every day. its def. bc of the pregancy. I'm having a it's his fault

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Me too, I yelled at someone on the phona at work. And there are certain people who suddenly annoy the crap out of me!

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Posted by Aquarius

Dude.. I am mean anyway.

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I know EXACTLY how you feel...although certain people p!ss me off in particular.

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<---has ZERO tolerance

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<------ raging intolerant b*tch here too!!!

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I have no patience for stupid or inconsiderate people.

DH and I were walking into a store, he opened the door for me, and I went to go open the 2nd set of doors. Well some lady opened it before I could get there...looked at my belly, walked through the door, and let it close before I got to the door. DH didn't realize that she didn't hold the door for me (doesn't matter if pg or not, still nice to hold the door for someone) and he held the door he was holding for her. I said in a normal voice, "Babe, don't hold the door for rude people."

I don't know where it came from, it just came out.

Oh, and I yell at people when they drive stupidly...at the top of my lungs...yeah, like they can hear me with my car windows up.

Message edited 7/18/2008 10:54:16 AM.

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Not that I was extremely patient to begin with, but I have absolutely no patience at all now. I get annoyed really easily.

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I was a raging b*tch when preggo..... It can DEF be blamed on being PG!

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I'm a nasty b*tch with this pregnancy 24/7--more poor DH and DD

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Posted by headoverheels

Posted by Aquarius

Dude.. I am mean anyway.

same here. but now i blame it on the hormones

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I've become such a nasty biotch, especially to DH. I feel so guilty about it, but the things he does gets on my friggin nerves. We just moved into the upstairs apartment in my friend's house who hasn't moved it yet. DH keeps leaving our apartment door wide open because he has his own separate room for his computer and to get to it, you have to go through the hallway outside of the apartment. There's a door in the living room that is closer to that room, but it blocked by my couch. Anyway, since we moved, he's been leaving this friggin door open, especially when I got the AC on full blast. I woke up this morning at 2am to pee and he's sleeping, sure enough the door is open. I don't know how many times I've told him to close it, but he doesn't see anything wrong. I even told him that he better start getting use to closing that door once the baby comes, unless he wants to be at the emergency room every day

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Me too ladies. I have noticed that I don't hold back as much anymore with the people who normally I would restrain myself with in the past.

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Posted by headoverheels

Posted by Aquarius

Dude.. I am mean anyway.

same here. but now i blame it on the hormones

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I was good with that until about 28-30 weeks. Then things all changed.

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Yesterday DH called his cousin in NC who got married last year. Apparently, he and his wife had company over yesterday while he was on the phone with DH. She got really pizzed at him and he's complaining to DH about marriage. My genius DH told him, that's nothing, wait until your wife is pregnant!!!!!! I still can't believe he had the ballz to even tell me that conversation and tell me in the supermarket none the less. I told him that if he thinks I'm bad now, he hasn't seen anything yet. I still have to deliver this kid. Wait until I get him in the delivery room.