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ReRe17
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It kills me......vent
Dhs little cousin is in labor. She's a teenager and not married. Why does she get a baby??? We've tried so hard and are emotionally and financially ready. It doesn't help that it's the first baby on his side. We're the adults....it's supposed to be us!!!!!
Not to mention they decided to tell us she was expecting during the phone call I was announcing my BFN with my first cycle. and then I was having my miscarriage the day of her baby shower.
Sorry vent over. You girls are the only one's who can relate. I feel so selfish to even feel this way, but I just can't help it.
Thanks for listening!!!
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Posted 9/20/11 7:49 PM  |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Re: It kills me......vent
Ugh  It really is so unfair!!! I wanna say something to the effect of .. don't worry, your time will come... but I know that's not the kind of advice that would make ME feel better. It just stinks.... no way around it.  I really do hope we have our time soon.   You are a strong girl for going to that shower while you were going through a loss. I did something similar after one of my losses. It becomes less about being happy for the person you're honoring and more of a "why me" flood of emotions.
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| Posted 9/20/11 7:53 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: It kills me......vent
i wish i had better words..i know nothing will make u feel better bc like penny said when people say that crap to me it just makes me more angry
bottom line..it is unfair and it suucks and i have no idea why it happens
all i can say is if it does happen for any of us,we wont take a second of it for granted
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| Posted 9/20/11 7:58 PM |
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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
Member since 5/11 7632 total posts
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Re: It kills me......vent
As you said, it must be a vent day
It really does not seem fair - you do everything right and for whatever reason it does not work out.
Best of luck in your continuing journey.
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| Posted 9/20/11 8:00 PM |
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Leb
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Re: It kills me......vent
Posted by ReRe17
Dhs little cousin is in labor. She's a teenager and not married. Why does she get a baby??? We've tried so hard and are emotionally and financially ready. It doesn't help that it's the first baby on his side. We're the adults....it's supposed to be us!!!!!
I could have seriously almost written this! I would ask if we were related but like you we are also the "adults".
It it soooo hard for me to be excited because I am flat out super jealous and then I feel bad and trying to be happier, but it just leaves me with a pit and dread.
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| Posted 9/20/11 11:28 PM |
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