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Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

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luckyinlove10
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Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

I'm having my first baby - not sure how this works. I have an appt today and I'm AROUND 9 weeks - should DH come with or no? My only other appt was around 6 weeks (he didn't come) and we saw a heartbeat :)

Posted 3/21/13 12:11 PM
 
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

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Stacey

Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH came to all my appts, so I say bring him.

Posted 3/21/13 12:12 PM
 

Kitten1929
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH comes to all appts.

Posted 3/21/13 12:12 PM
 

Shroggie
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Mine came to the first, and all the sonos. Now that I'm 33w he will be coming to everything.

Posted 3/21/13 12:14 PM
 

MandJZ
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

I have one today too at just over 9 weeks!

Yes, DH comes to all my appointments. He asked me if I would want his mom to come if he can't (my parents don't live here). I told him he works for himself/his parents....he's coming to every appointment Chat Icon

Posted 3/21/13 12:14 PM
 

mnm918
LIF Adult

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Michele

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Yep.. DH came to all the sonogram appts.. :)

Posted 3/21/13 12:17 PM
 

luckyinlove10
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Ok thanks everyone! Going to have him come Chat Icon

Posted 3/21/13 12:20 PM
 

brownie
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Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Yes

Posted 3/21/13 12:21 PM
 

Jonsgirl04
Love my two girls! xoxo

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Stephanie

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

My Dh comes to all my appts. He likes to be there to hear the heartbeat each time.Chat Icon

Posted 3/21/13 12:21 PM
 

kahlua716
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Keri

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH came to the first couple and the NT Scan and Anatomy Scan for my 1st. He came to the Anatomy Scan for my 2nd and he came to my 2nd appt this time (but it wasn't on purpose- my phone was dead and he came looking for me because I had been at the dr for over 3 hours. So, both my kids and DH were stuffed in the little exam room with me while I had an intravaginal sono Chat Icon Chat Icon )

Posted 3/21/13 12:21 PM
 

alli3131
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Allison

Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

I had DH come ot any sono appt. So really just my appt with my RE and then ist appt with my OB, my Amnio, and then 20 week scan. He never came for the monthly appts and then when I had issues and was seeing Drs weekly DH never came to them because he would have missed too much work.

Posted 3/21/13 1:17 PM
 

Aly764
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Alyssa

Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

mine comes when he can.

Posted 3/21/13 1:26 PM
 

MRsFaTThead
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

since we went to an RE DH came to all appointments until i graduated. when i went to my regualr ob he wanted to go to all sono appointments. when i had the amnio he was there too

Posted 3/21/13 1:35 PM
 

GlowSuarez
Baby Marz is here!

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G

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

my DH has come to every single appt I've had

Posted 3/21/13 1:56 PM
 

HelenZ
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Helen

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH is working nights, so gratefully he's been to every appt. I like having an extra set of ears with me in case I forget something the doctor said!

Posted 3/21/13 2:08 PM
 

ThirdBambino
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Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Im having my third and my DH comes to every appt.

Posted 3/21/13 2:10 PM
 

Michelle1123
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Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Mine only comes to songs. This time around (#4) he has only come today to the level II

Posted 3/21/13 3:53 PM
 

forevercloud
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH has come to all of mine too :)

Posted 3/21/13 4:33 PM
 

ourlivesstartnow2012
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Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH comes to all the sono appointments and any important appointments. He usually doesn't come to the prenatal visits if they are just checking the heartbeat and answering some questions. My last appt he came but they went over the classes and cord blood info.

Otherwise I have my mom come. If I were working and going to appts after work then I would have him come to them all (even though we have a doppler at home so he doesn't need a dr appt to hear the heartbeat). But since I'm unemployed, I'd rather go during the day when the office is empty.

Posted 3/21/13 4:38 PM
 

KwaaksNest
Love my boys!

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Samantha

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

MY Dh came to all my appts with our first...and missed only 2 with our second due to work

Posted 3/21/13 4:42 PM
 

Strawberry2468
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Christine

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Dh came to all perinatologist apts and a few OB ones.

Posted 3/21/13 6:08 PM
 

Kidsaplenty
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Stephanie

Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

My DH comes to every appointment for all of my pregnancies.

Posted 3/21/13 6:32 PM
 

EndlessSummer719
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

Bring him! My Dh only goes to the sono appointments.

Posted 3/21/13 6:52 PM
 

yankeebaby
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

DH comes to all my appointments when he can. We have a 2 year old and its hard. He comes to all my sono's for sure!

Posted 3/21/13 6:59 PM
 

whoababy11
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Re: Is it appropriate for Dh to come to appt?

if theyre not doing a sono, i dont think you HAVE to have him there. they mainly talk to you and answer your questions. for my first, my DH was not there for the initial appt, just the sonos.

Posted 3/22/13 6:16 AM
 
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