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Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

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GaknTak
He has my heart

Member since 12/07

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Tracy

Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Im worried I wont know how to push him out the right way or know how to deal with the labor. Anyone else?

Posted 7/31/08 8:31 PM
 
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wannabemom
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Member since 12/07

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aka marriedinportjeff

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I'm worried I will labor through the night and won't have the stamina to push Scone out Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 8:47 PM
 

mcl916
my two loves

Member since 10/06

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Name:
Megan

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I'm nervous about my large inguinal hernia- that it will become very painful and pop all the way out Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 8:48 PM
 

snowflake08
Love my boys!!!

Member since 8/07

5148 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Im just petrified of labor in general

Posted 7/31/08 8:54 PM
 

wannabemom
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Member since 12/07

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aka marriedinportjeff

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by mcl916

I'm nervous about my large inguinal hernia- that it will become very painful and pop all the way out Chat Icon



Chat Icon oh no! Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 8:58 PM
 

MrsFlatbread
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Member since 6/06

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Name:
Baby Momma

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

No. There are really not many options and this kid needs to come out somehow, right? I try not to worry about things I cannot control.Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 9:00 PM
 

SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!

Member since 12/05

20105 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by MrsFlatbread

No. There are really not many options and this kid needs to come out somehow, right? I try not to worry about things I cannot control.Chat Icon



I agree. I feel like my body will know what to do when the time comes.

Posted 7/31/08 9:07 PM
 

asecretposter
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Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

A little, but I am more optomistic that maybe I'll actually have a VBAC this time rather than a planned c-sectionChat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 9:10 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
Tired!

Member since 12/07

16353 total posts

Name:
Allison

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I'm trying not to think that far ahead yet. I'm still amazed I actually have this little being growing inside me!

Posted 7/31/08 9:15 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by SweetTooth

Posted by MrsFlatbread

No. There are really not many options and this kid needs to come out somehow, right? I try not to worry about things I cannot control.Chat Icon



I agree. I feel like my body will know what to do when the time comes.



same here. i know that i will be okay as long as i have my DH's support, along with the nurses. they do this all the time, i don't have anything to be worried about. other than pooping on the table Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 9:52 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

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Name:
Leslie

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I want FLATBREAD to deliver my kid.

Posted 7/31/08 10:02 PM
 

shell
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Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by snowflake08

Im just petrified of labor in general




Me too!Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 10:03 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Member since 10/07

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Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

i'm getting so worried!!! I'm 32 weeks, and this is clouding my end of pregnancy happiness! i'm scared of the pain. I don't want a million people in and out watching me while I'm miserable. I'm scared of being stitched up. I'm afraid to push , I don't want to be pushing for 2 + hours. I have such anxiety about this, I wish I could take a pill for it Chat Icon I'm worried about my recovery Chat Icon I try not to think about it, but sometimes I lay awake at night thinking about it!! I'm a small person and I'm afraid DC will break me into splinters Chat Icon

anyone else?? feel this way Chat Icon Chat Icon

ETA: I have no tolerance for pain, This is a big issue for me!!

Message edited 7/31/2008 10:16:55 PM.

Posted 7/31/08 10:15 PM
 

headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by Goldi0218

I want FLATBREAD to deliver my kid.



as long as she's not stuffing her face with poundcake i think you'll be okay Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 10:16 PM
 

christy
Mommy of 2

Member since 5/05

6787 total posts

Name:
Christy

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I was SO WORRIED about this. Infact when I was in labor I kept saying that I was afraid I wouldn't push the right way. But when the time came, the nurses told me what to do...and I just did it. You can really feel how you need to push. Hard to explain, but you will know. Don't worry. Chat Icon

Posted 7/31/08 10:19 PM
 

Goldi0218
My miracles!

Member since 12/05

23902 total posts

Name:
Leslie

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by headoverheels

Posted by Goldi0218

I want FLATBREAD to deliver my kid.



as long as she's not stuffing her face with poundcake i think you'll be okay Chat Icon



Dammit, I forgot about the poundcake factor!

Posted 8/1/08 12:07 AM
 

shellybean
Love my Baby Boy!

Member since 4/07

5191 total posts

Name:
mich

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

i was soooooooooo scared and its not that bad, piece of cake for me, get the drugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted 8/1/08 7:22 AM
 

nicknmb
SISTERS!

Member since 1/06

5193 total posts

Name:
MaryBeth

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I don't even want to think about this just yetChat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 8:52 AM
 

2BEANS
wow time is going fast.

Member since 9/07

16106 total posts

Name:
Tina

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

with my dd i pushed for 2 hours.. and my epi wore off. I had a covering a doc. b/c my was off for the jewish holiday and he wouldnt give me more. I think if the nurse had me in a better position i would have been pushing alot less.. this time im making sure im propped up more than i was, making it easier to push.

Posted 8/1/08 8:58 AM
 

Ang-Rich
Beyond Compare

Member since 5/05

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Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Until the moment the doctor said "you're going to start pushing now" I was nervous too!

But maybe my experience can help a little...

The doctor topped off my epi for me before I was told to start pushing...she had to deliver another baby so I had that while i waited. When she came in she explained that you push like you are constipated...that's all. Try not to hold anything in because it will prevent a good push. She placed her fingers on the outside of certain areas and told me to focus on that and push in the space where I felt her fingers outlined.

It was so much easier to have a task to complete and the pushing was easy based on her directions. She did countdowns each time where I just had to keep pushing. Sometimes I couldn't complete the countdown and she said it was okay but really cheered me on each time.

Once my husband shouted that he could see the baby I had no problem pushing past the count because I was so excited. Afterwards I was exhausted but still excited and emotional to see my son.

Posted 8/1/08 9:25 AM
 

kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

Member since 6/06

13519 total posts

Name:
Kerry

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Posted by SweetTooth

Posted by MrsFlatbread

No. There are really not many options and this kid needs to come out somehow, right? I try not to worry about things I cannot control.Chat Icon



I agree. I feel like my body will know what to do when the time comes.



couldn't agree more

Posted 8/1/08 9:37 AM
 

2kids2cats
My babies

Member since 6/05

5229 total posts

Name:
f

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Even the 2nd time, a year and a half later, I forgot how to push. Both of my kids were born with just 5 pushes - I consider myself VERY lucky.

Just some advice...don't be afraid to poop - you probably won't care or even think about it when the time comes. When you push the baby out, you hold your legs back...put your chin to your chest and push like you are going number 2. The key to getting baby out is to push as if you are pooping. Good luck ladies - it's really not so bad as long as the baby is low and in the right position! HTH!Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 9:48 AM
 

ARIELSMOM
Love my Babes

Member since 8/05

5889 total posts

Name:
MEREDITH

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

im worried. i wasnt the first 2 times, but thats b/c it was far enough apart where i didnt remember the pain. DS only just turned 1 this week, so i remember it pretty vividly. I also know what im in for after the birth too.

Posted 8/1/08 10:10 AM
 

HarleyGirlFLA
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Member since 5/05

9674 total posts

Name:
Mel

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

I am not really worried. My doctor and the nurses will tell me what I need to do and when I need to do it. They will do what is in the best interest in mine and Chat Icon health and delivery.

Now the pain well thats a whole other thread Chat Icon

Posted 8/1/08 10:19 AM
 

vegalady
Love my family

Member since 6/06

4546 total posts

Name:
SNV

Re: Is anyone else worried about the delivery?Pushing, etc?

Not worried at all since it didnt really hurt me with DS. He came out in like 20 minutes of pushing. The epidural was still working so that is probably why i didnt feel it as much.

Posted 8/1/08 10:41 AM
 
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