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if you know/knew about your shower

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Deenintendo
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if you know/knew about your shower

so my shower is in 3 weeks i sort of helped plan it...i picked the location and the date..only some people know that i know about it....so my question is do i show up a little late and act surprised or do i just show up early and greet people? what did you do or plan to do?

Message edited 8/17/2012 4:53:18 PM.

Posted 8/17/12 4:51 PM
 
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BabyTime821
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Mine was not a surprise, I was involved in all of the planning. Was even there early to set up with my mom. I was there before all the guests to greet them

Posted 8/17/12 4:56 PM
 

springsandra
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if you know/knew about your shower

I would just greet them. I would never pretend to be surprised lol.

Posted 8/17/12 5:13 PM
 

laurenandmike619
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if you know/knew about your shower

I knew about mine, though I was not really involved in the planning. But I was there beforehand and greeted the guests. Like PP said I'd never act surprised if I wasn't.

Posted 8/17/12 5:15 PM
 

evenedan
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Mine is not a surprise and one of the reasons I wanted it that way was so I didn't have to walk in and act all surprised (I knew there was no way they could surprise me).

I plan to be there early to greet people.

Posted 8/17/12 5:42 PM
 

BBin2012
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by BabyTime821

Mine was not a surprise, I was involved in all of the planning. Was even there early to set up with my mom. I was there before all the guests to greet them



Same...

Posted 8/17/12 6:14 PM
 

Strawberry2468
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

I know about it and will be there early taking pics so dh and I will greet people. That way it's out of the way and I can enjoy the rest. My friend had a shower recently and also knew about it and she arrived about the time the party started so she greeted guests as they arrived.

Posted 8/17/12 6:30 PM
 

caps612
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

I was not surprised for my bridal shower and showed up a little before all the guests and greeted them all. I figure it will be the same for my baby shower!

Posted 8/17/12 6:49 PM
 

cateyemm
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

I think it's a good Idea to be there early and greet people. That's what I'd like to do.

Posted 8/17/12 8:16 PM
 

Frenchy49
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if you know/knew about your shower

My shower was a surprise but I ended up finding out about it so I'm going to arrive early so I can greet the guests as they come in.

Posted 8/17/12 8:21 PM
 

Cheeks24
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if you know/knew about your shower

I was there early.

Posted 8/17/12 8:26 PM
 

LiveItUp
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if you know/knew about your shower

Mine is not a surprise and I will be there early.

Posted 8/17/12 8:42 PM
 

jus183
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by laurenandmike619

I knew about mine, though I was not really involved in the planning. But I was there beforehand and greeted the guests. Like PP said I'd never act surprised if I wasn't.



same

Posted 8/17/12 9:02 PM
 

EBG10
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by laurenandmike619

I knew about mine, though I was not really involved in the planning. But I was there beforehand and greeted the guests. Like PP said I'd never act surprised if I wasn't.



Same here

Posted 8/17/12 10:40 PM
 

gina409
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by cateyemm

I think it's a good Idea to be there early and greet people. That's what I'd like to do.



ita

Posted 8/17/12 10:47 PM
 

pumpkinpye517
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

I planned mine. I even sent out my invites, decorated, etc.. I didn't act surprised bc I was the first one there! Lol

Message edited 8/18/2012 12:03:44 AM.

Posted 8/18/12 12:01 AM
 

MaZz
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

I showed up kinda earlier and greeted everyone. I think the whole "lemme act surprised bit" is rediculous. I didn't do t for my bridal shower and wasn't doing it for baby either

Posted 8/18/12 12:22 AM
 

gdubs
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

I knew about my bridal shower and showed up after everyone and it was ridiculous, everyone knew I knew but my mom really though I would act surprised when I walked in Chat Icon

With the baby shower I kind of feel like people expect the woman to know... I've been to showers where women are surprised and I actually get nervous that someone is going to go into labor from the shock LOL!

But to answer your question I would just be there and greet people as they arrive. That way you can say hello to everyone right off the bat and not have to make rounds after the fact.

Posted 8/18/12 9:42 AM
 

babylove26
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if you know/knew about your shower

I knew the place and date. My Dh took me at the time it was and I greeted the guests.

Posted 8/18/12 11:02 AM
 

CloudNine
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by BabyTime821

Mine was not a surprise, I was involved in all of the planning. Was even there early to set up with my mom. I was there before all the guests to greet them



this is exacvtly what i did

Posted 8/18/12 11:10 AM
 

jennarose023
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by laurenandmike619

I knew about mine, though I was not really involved in the planning. But I was there beforehand and greeted the guests. Like PP said I'd never act surprised if I wasn't.



same here

Posted 8/18/12 6:32 PM
 

Deenintendo
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Thanks everyone...I'm gonna get there ealyand help setup...that's what I was leaning towards but my mom thought I should come later


edited for spelling

Message edited 8/18/2012 10:42:29 PM.

Posted 8/18/12 6:38 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

if you didn't pick out decorations and stuff, it might be nice to show up after everyone to see it all together....... I don't think you'd have to act surprised though.

Posted 8/18/12 10:18 PM
 

Deenintendo
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

Posted by butterfly20

if you didn't pick out decorations and stuff, it might be nice to show up after everyone to see it all together....... I don't think you'd have to act surprised though.



the only thing i helped with was the date and location everything else was left up to my mom, mil and sister

Posted 8/18/12 10:44 PM
 

MrsKelly
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Re: if you know/knew about your shower

if you picked the location and the date, i definitely wouldn't act surprised

Posted 8/19/12 5:22 PM
 
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