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jennyal
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i think i'm giving up....
so my cycle changed from 30 to 35 days in the past two months...so i should have gotten AF by last tuesday. and i didnt get it as of yesterday...and the past week i was nauseous....so i took a test this morning a a BFN!! one line....not even the slightest faintest line  and then an hour later AF came! unbeleivable!..so i dont even know how to count my cycle anymore!!!....every month that goes by i think this is it...i must be PG...and every month i get dissapointed! i'm so F'ed! and as some of you know I MC in january at 5 months...so this makes it ever so harder! why cant i just get PG!!! 
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Posted 7/22/08 3:30 PM  |
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QueSeraSera
Sugar & Spice
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Liz
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
So sorry......
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| Posted 7/22/08 3:33 PM |
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Bridex100
Two Under Two Mommy
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I'm very sorry. Please don't lose hope. You got pregnant before. You'll get pregnant again. 
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| Posted 7/22/08 3:50 PM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I'm so sorry, but please don't give up! This WILL happen for you
Do you need some help figuring out your cycles?
Maybe you can tell me your past AF dates since your m/c.
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| Posted 7/22/08 3:56 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
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Deanna
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
please do NOT give up!!
i know the feeling, and the dissapointment gets to me too where i just want to give up... but i am starting to feel more positive and MOST of all... i am trying to be less stressed.. i think thats what kills me the most..
it will happen, both of us DID get pregnant and we WILL get PG again!!
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| Posted 7/22/08 3:59 PM |
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Jul1013
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I just wanted to say that I am sorry for everything you are going through, I had a MC too, but mine was early on. I can't even imagine going through all that you have...on that note, you must be a pretty strong person to be dealing with all of this, so try to stay that way. I hope everything works out for you and you get a BFP soon 
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| Posted 7/22/08 4:17 PM |
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jennyal
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Posted by maybeamommy
I'm so sorry, but please don't give up! This WILL happen for you
Do you need some help figuring out your cycles?
Maybe you can tell me your past AF dates since your m/c.
AF has been 31 days....from last year til this past April (always came on the 1st day of the month) then May 27th-June it became 35 days...and now for July 22 it became 42 days!!
did you get all that!  my days are totally thrown outta wack! TIA!!
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| Posted 7/22/08 8:40 PM |
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jennyal
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Posted by MetsGirl07
please do NOT give up!!
i know the feeling, and the dissapointment gets to me too where i just want to give up... but i am starting to feel more positive and MOST of all... i am trying to be less stressed.. i think thats what kills me the most..
it will happen, both of us DID get pregnant and we WILL get PG again!!
its gotta be the stress of "we just gotta get PG again!!" i dont know how to get it outta my head and sort of start over...
how are you doing?
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| Posted 7/22/08 8:41 PM |
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katiebug
I'll love you for always
Member since 2/08 4624 total posts
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Katie
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I am sorry you are going through this. Are you temping or using other methods to determine your fertile days?
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| Posted 7/22/08 8:43 PM |
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beautyq115
New Year!
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Me
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I am so sorry...it WILL happen for you. SHould you see your doctor for some guidance?
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| Posted 7/22/08 9:18 PM |
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kms717
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Member since 2/06 2747 total posts
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Kelly
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
It'll happen for you, don't give up
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| Posted 7/22/08 9:56 PM |
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diva7531
My Peanut
Member since 2/07 5199 total posts
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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Don't give up! Try using one of the online tools to help you track your cycles.
Better Luck next month!
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| Posted 7/23/08 7:17 AM |
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Lucky
Growing up fast!
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I'm sorry AF is scr*wing with you! Hang in there!!!
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| Posted 7/23/08 7:30 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
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Deanna
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Posted by jennyal
Posted by MetsGirl07
please do NOT give up!!
i know the feeling, and the dissapointment gets to me too where i just want to give up... but i am starting to feel more positive and MOST of all... i am trying to be less stressed.. i think thats what kills me the most..
it will happen, both of us DID get pregnant and we WILL get PG again!!
its gotta be the stress of "we just gotta get PG again!!" i dont know how to get it outta my head and sort of start over...
how are you doing?
i totally know how you feel... its been 3 months since my loss and im just starting to feel positive about getting pregnant again.. and like you said.. i was STRESSING sooooooo much about getting pregnant again, and WHY its not happening right away..
BUT , i am trying to get that stress out, because i know its bad to constantly think about getting pregnant and obsessing over it...
we will both overcome it and know that it will happen at the right time!!
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| Posted 7/23/08 9:37 AM |
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Dani922
Here's to new beginnings
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Danielle
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
I know how frustrating it is, but please don't give up! It WILL happen again.
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| Posted 7/23/08 10:57 AM |
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mindygirl73
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/07 692 total posts
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reens
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
So sorry you are so upset. Please don't give up. You will ABSOLUTELY get your BFP.
I'm sure you have done it all but I would suggest maybe BD'ing every other day starting with the first week AFTER AF.
Everyone is different..but that's what worked for me.
Try it..ya never know!
GL! Stay positive sweetie.
xoxoxoxoxo
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| Posted 7/23/08 5:10 PM |
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jennyal
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
thanks everyone for ur kind words....its just so hard sometimes.....when you want something SOOOOO bad and have no control over it...
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| Posted 7/23/08 10:01 PM |
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sweetbabydreams
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Dont give up keep a positive outlook. I know it is hard and i miscarried as well and had the exact same feelings. It will happen i promise u. Have you thought about seeing an RE? i miscarried in january and i saw and RE and they helped me get preg in may. Im praying for u
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| Posted 7/24/08 9:08 AM |
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jennyal
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Posted by sweetbabydreams
Dont give up keep a positive outlook. I know it is hard and i miscarried as well and had the exact same feelings. It will happen i promise u. Have you thought about seeing an RE? i miscarried in january and i saw and RE and they helped me get preg in may. Im praying for u
thanks can i see an RE on my own? or do i need a referral from my OB? my ob said just relax and dont stress...but i think i want to rule out everything! if that's possible...who's ur RE?.waht did they say to you..tahnks again!
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| Posted 7/24/08 10:08 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
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Deanna
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Re: i think i'm giving up....
Posted by jennyal
Posted by sweetbabydreams
Dont give up keep a positive outlook. I know it is hard and i miscarried as well and had the exact same feelings. It will happen i promise u. Have you thought about seeing an RE? i miscarried in january and i saw and RE and they helped me get preg in may. Im praying for u
thanks can i see an RE on my own? or do i need a referral from my OB? my ob said just relax and dont stress...but i think i want to rule out everything! if that's possible...who's ur RE?.waht did they say to you..tahnks again!
if you have insurance where you can see any doctor without a refferal you can just make an appt ..
i think its the PPO plan..
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| Posted 7/24/08 10:16 AM |
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