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MrsMessina
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I must be dumb...
I'm totally not comprehending a response made to me on TTC. Anyone care to hop over and help me out--- seriously. I'm not trying to start drama- I really think I'm missing something though...  If you'd prefer to FM me rather than post on here or on TTC, please feel free to b/c I'm feeling sort of lost and confused at the moment.
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ihilani
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Re: I must be dumb...
I would just let it go. You don't need the extra stress of an LIF fight. 
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| Posted 4/22/08 11:55 AM |
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Carolyn
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Re: I must be dumb...
Seriously,  ...ignore it. Easier said than done I know as I just posted a response.
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| Posted 4/22/08 11:57 AM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: I must be dumb...
What she called me is kind of funny- and to think I was holding my feelings of her in- well not anymore!  UGH.
Anyway, I'm done over there now. i'm in too good a frame of mind to allow her to bring me down....
it's just a shame to have people think we're attacking them when we're trying to help them. I guess some people have to learn the hard way....
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| Posted 4/22/08 12:00 PM |
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Bops
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Re: I must be dumb...
I just got the chance to read the"post" on TTC- All I can say is that I wish I had someone like us steering me in the right direction back when I was a novice at this , following my OBGYN blindly leading me ....So glad I found this board, the wealth of knowledge on her is priceless
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| Posted 4/22/08 1:33 PM |
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babyfaith
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Re: I must be dumb...
To be honest, there are some ladies over on the TTC board that really should be posting on this board because they are obviously having trouble getting PG. IMO, if you have PCOS, are on Clomid, doing IUI's, etc., you really should be on the IF board. The TTC board is meant for those who just need to talk about OPK's, temping, CM, charting, and BDing. JMO!
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SweetTooth
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by babyfaith
To be honest, there are some ladies over on the TTC board that really should be posting on this board because they are obviously having trouble getting PG. IMO, if you have PCOS, are on Clomid, doing IUI's, etc., you really should be on the IF board. The TTC board is meant for those who just need to talk about OPK's, temping, CM, charting, and BDing. JMO!
This is probably true... but then I guess it would be admitting you have a problem and some people have an (understandably) hard time accepting that.
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| Posted 4/22/08 5:09 PM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by MrsMessina
What she called me is kind of funny- and to think I was holding my feelings of her in- well not anymore! UGH.
Anyway, I'm done over there now. i'm in too good a frame of mind to allow her to bring me down....
it's just a shame to have people think we're attacking them when we're trying to help them. I guess some people have to learn the hard way....
I agree with everything you said and I was posting on that thread last night as well. After seeing that craziness on the TTC board I went back and reread those threads and I don't feel anyone was attacking, we were all simply sharing our experiences and suggestions. In all honesty, as I mentioned on that thread, I too wasted time a few years back with my GYN and Clomid and I had NO idea what I was taking or the side effects and I wish LiFamilies was around then because I would have gladly listened to what you guys would have said. It would have saved me so much trouble and time. Don't let it get you upset, brush it off. Your posts sounded well constructed and intelligent and you have no reason to question yourself at all. I think everyone here would agree with what was said last night 100%. 
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| Posted 4/22/08 5:31 PM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by babyfaith
To be honest, there are some ladies over on the TTC board that really should be posting on this board because they are obviously having trouble getting PG. IMO, if you have PCOS, are on Clomid, doing IUI's, etc., you really should be on the IF board. The TTC board is meant for those who just need to talk about OPK's, temping, CM, charting, and BDing. JMO!
True that sister girl!!!
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| Posted 4/22/08 5:32 PM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by MrsMessina
What she called me is kind of funny- and to think I was holding my feelings of her in- well not anymore! UGH.
Anyway, I'm done over there now. i'm in too good a frame of mind to allow her to bring me down....
it's just a shame to have people think we're attacking them when we're trying to help them. I guess some people have to learn the hard way....
I agree with everything you said and I was posting on that thread last night as well. After seeing that craziness on the TTC board I went back and reread those threads and I don't feel anyone was attacking, we were all simply sharing our experiences and suggestions. In all honesty, as I mentioned on that thread, I too wasted time a few years back with my GYN and Clomid and I had NO idea what I was taking or the side effects and I wish LiFamilies was around then because I would have gladly listened to what you guys would have said. It would have saved me so much trouble and time. Don't let it get you upset, brush it off. Your posts sounded well constructed and intelligent and you have no reason to question yourself at all. I think everyone here would agree with what was said last night 100%.
Thanks Kristen We're all here to help eachother- I just wish some people could take our offers of help. But that's not everyone's way, right?
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| Posted 4/22/08 5:44 PM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by MrsMessina
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by MrsMessina
What she called me is kind of funny- and to think I was holding my feelings of her in- well not anymore! UGH.
Anyway, I'm done over there now. i'm in too good a frame of mind to allow her to bring me down....
it's just a shame to have people think we're attacking them when we're trying to help them. I guess some people have to learn the hard way....
I agree with everything you said and I was posting on that thread last night as well. After seeing that craziness on the TTC board I went back and reread those threads and I don't feel anyone was attacking, we were all simply sharing our experiences and suggestions. In all honesty, as I mentioned on that thread, I too wasted time a few years back with my GYN and Clomid and I had NO idea what I was taking or the side effects and I wish LiFamilies was around then because I would have gladly listened to what you guys would have said. It would have saved me so much trouble and time. Don't let it get you upset, brush it off. Your posts sounded well constructed and intelligent and you have no reason to question yourself at all. I think everyone here would agree with what was said last night 100%.
Thanks Kristen We're all here to help eachother- I just wish some people could take our offers of help. But that's not everyone's way, right?
You're welcome and you're right. Some people will listen and benefit and some people won't and maybe have to learn the hard way. I guess to each his own.
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| Posted 4/22/08 5:48 PM |
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MrsRbk
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by SweetTooth
Posted by babyfaith
To be honest, there are some ladies over on the TTC board that really should be posting on this board because they are obviously having trouble getting PG. IMO, if you have PCOS, are on Clomid, doing IUI's, etc., you really should be on the IF board. The TTC board is meant for those who just need to talk about OPK's, temping, CM, charting, and BDing. JMO!
This is probably true... but then I guess it would be admitting you have a problem and some people have an (understandably) hard time accepting that.
I'm sure that's most definately true. I lurked here for quite some time until I started to accept I had a problem. Actually, I knew I had a problem, but just wasn't ready to deal with it at that time. I was in total denial for a while.
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Goldi0218
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Re: I must be dumb...
Posted by MrsRbk
Posted by SweetTooth
Posted by babyfaith
To be honest, there are some ladies over on the TTC board that really should be posting on this board because they are obviously having trouble getting PG. IMO, if you have PCOS, are on Clomid, doing IUI's, etc., you really should be on the IF board. The TTC board is meant for those who just need to talk about OPK's, temping, CM, charting, and BDing. JMO!
This is probably true... but then I guess it would be admitting you have a problem and some people have an (understandably) hard time accepting that.
I'm sure that's most definately true. I lurked here for quite some time until I started to accept I had a problem. Actually, I knew I had a problem, but just wasn't ready to deal with it at that time. I was in total denial for a while.
Same for me.
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