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Jenn627
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Jenn

Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/19/12 8:32 PM
 
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SummerBaby2012
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Posted 1/19/12 8:41 PM
 

BBin2012
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Posted 1/19/12 9:28 PM
 

MrsSx2
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Valerie

Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/19/12 9:38 PM
 

ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!

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Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/19/12 9:47 PM
 

MySunshine
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Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/19/12 9:51 PM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/20/12 7:08 AM
 

iBCraZ131
Love my girls!

Member since 8/07

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Name:
Melissa

Re: i lost the baby

I know exactly what you are going through. I went for a sono at 10 weeks and they told us it wasn't a viable pregnancy. This was in November. We also had a D&C. It was a simple easy procedure and over very quickly. However, I am still trying to cope with the loss now. It's not easy. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Many Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you

Posted 1/20/12 7:20 AM
 

JDubs
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Posted 1/20/12 7:23 AM
 

munchkinbugs
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Posted 1/20/12 7:41 AM
 

Mdolph6
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A Family of 4

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Posted 1/20/12 8:19 AM
 

skinny
3 boys and a princess!

Member since 11/08

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Momma

Re: i lost the baby

I'm so sorry.

FWIW, the actual D+C is not bad. It's more emotionally draining than physical pain.

FM me if you have any ?'s.

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Posted 1/20/12 8:20 AM
 

RandiG
Love my Boys!

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Name:
Randi

Re: i lost the baby

So very sorry you are going through this. Chat Icon The procedure itself is not bad, I have had three and only once had some painful cramping after. Just try to relax and take some time for yourself. Like the others girls said, it is more emotionl pain then anything else. Day by day you will start to feel a little better, but it does take some time. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/20/12 8:36 AM
 

LoveMyHubby605
Our April Baby is here!

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A

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Posted 1/20/12 8:43 AM
 

KarenAnthony
Baby Girl Coming in May!!!

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Karen

Re: i lost the baby

soooo sorry. I went through the exact same thing at the end of March last year. I won't lie, its hard. As far as the d&c goes, it was very easy and smooth. I had no complications. Just know one day you will be pregnant again and happier days lie ahead.

Posted 1/20/12 8:44 AM
 

GaknTak
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Tracy

Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/20/12 8:48 AM
 

fakenamettc
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Re: i lost the baby

I am so sorry, I lost the previous pregnancy at almost 11 weeks just couple of months ago , my heart goes out to you Chat Icon
I had a D&C under anesthesia , I wouldn't do it without it. I had it done at the hospital. It wasn't painful or anything, by the time I woke up everything was over and I felt "fine" physically.
Emotional pain stays with you for a long time , maybe forever, but I do think that getting a D&C makes dealing with things tiny bit easier.

Oh and please feel free to FM me if you have any questions , or need to "talk"

Message edited 1/20/2012 8:53:41 AM.

Posted 1/20/12 8:52 AM
 

TyReseGreen
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Theresa

Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/20/12 8:53 AM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: i lost the baby

I am so very sorry for your loss Chat Icon

I lost two pregnancies...the hope of three babies...and in my experience the pain changes in stages but the loss remains. On my due dates I remember what would have been and it makes me sad. I allow myself that and so should you. Feel what you feel - it's part of the process.

I am so sorry.

Posted 1/20/12 9:53 AM
 

LoveyQ
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Posted 1/20/12 10:11 AM
 

JennyPenny
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Jen

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I had a D&C at about the same time as you. The anestesia was fine. I was crampy and bleeding for a few days after, but otherwise okay. Good luck and sorry for your lossChat Icon

ETA: Emotionally I was a wreck for about a year. Not sure if my IF played a part in that but it took me a long time to get over it. Now, 5 years later, I sometimes think of how old that baby would be or if the baby was a girl/boy. At this point, though, I truly accept the fact that it happened for a reason and I am fine.Chat Icon

Message edited 1/20/2012 10:19:59 AM.

Posted 1/20/12 10:17 AM
 

katiebug
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Katie

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Posted 1/20/12 10:25 AM
 

MST9106
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I am so sorry you have to go through this. A lot of us on here have been in your shoes and it is just so damn hard. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong and positive! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/20/12 10:30 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Member since 11/07

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Christine

Re: i lost the baby

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Posted 1/20/12 10:44 AM
 

jburke322
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/08

663 total posts

Name:
Jessica

Re: i lost the baby

Thank you ladies. I am truly grateful for all your kind words. It has help alot. I went fir presurgical this morning. Very anxious for Tuesday. Im trying to stay positive. I have 2 beautiful healthy kids at home. Im trying to sell my home and planning a big move to Florida so emotionally and physically it might be for the best. Im really just trying to make myself feel better. I know this is a process and hopefully being busy will help ease the process. But thank you all again

Posted 1/20/12 11:35 AM
 
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