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I just gotta get it out...

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LIBOUND
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I just gotta get it out...

BFN.

For now, I'm done. I need to regroup. IVF is not an option financially for us right now, or ever.

By no means am I done trying, but right now I'm not really sure what to do. These meds killed me financially, and Dr. B said three iui's before we went on to IVF, and like I said, that's not an option right now.

Insurance sux azz and we really, really need to take a stand with our legistators. This just isn't right.

Posted 2/26/09 2:56 PM
 
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maybeamommy
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

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I'm so sorry.

If we do get pregnant, I will have lots of leftover meds that I'd be happy to give to you! I know that doesn't help MUCH.. but it can still help you get on your way.

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Posted 2/26/09 2:57 PM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so sorry. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I know what you mean about finances... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/26/09 2:58 PM
 

LIBOUND
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

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I'm so sorry.

If we do get pregnant, I will have lots of leftover meds that I'd be happy to give to you! I know that doesn't help MUCH.. but it can still help you get on your way.

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Chat Icon --Chat Icon Chat Icon for you!!

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Posted 2/26/09 3:01 PM
 

skinny
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I'm so sorry!

Posted 2/26/09 3:25 PM
 

CAH127
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Posted 2/26/09 3:28 PM
 

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Posted 2/26/09 3:35 PM
 

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Posted 2/26/09 3:40 PM
 

Sherwood
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Posted 2/26/09 3:57 PM
 

karenk71
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

Posted by LIBOUND

Insurance sux azz and we really, really need to take a stand with our legistators. This just isn't right.



I'm so sorry. I know exactly how you feel and I agree completely.

Posted 2/26/09 3:58 PM
 

ihilani
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Posted 2/26/09 4:09 PM
 

Sassyz75
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

I'm so sorry.
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Posted 2/26/09 4:10 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

I couldn't agree more.

Do you qualify for a grant?

Posted 2/26/09 4:12 PM
 

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Posted 2/26/09 4:18 PM
 

MrsS518
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Posted 2/26/09 7:32 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Posted 2/26/09 7:40 PM
 

sunnygirl
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i am so sorry
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Posted 2/26/09 7:58 PM
 

LIBOUND
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

Posted by Blu-ize

I couldn't agree more.

Do you qualify for a grant?



Just barely. I'm going to apply anyway to see what we qualify for and take it from there, I guess.

Posted 2/26/09 8:05 PM
 

BigB
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Posted 2/26/09 8:22 PM
 

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Posted 2/26/09 9:09 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

Im so sorry!

I have been where you were. Our Dr said 3-5 iuis till IVF. We ended up doing 13 IUIs for differnt reasons but we had no choice but to move to IVF and our insurance covered none of it.

We did apply for the grant and got a nice chunk and basically borrowed and maxed out our savings to pay for the rest the grant didnt cover.

The grant gives money to couples making up to 200K a yr...so I'm sure if are having trouble affording it, you must be under those guidlines? ( sorry if that was presumptious of me to say).

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Posted 2/26/09 9:12 PM
 

DRMom
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

Posted by dm24angel

Im so sorry!

I have been where you were. Our Dr said 3-5 iuis till IVF. We ended up doing 13 IUIs for differnt reasons but we had no choice but to move to IVF and our insurance covered none of it.

We did apply for the grant and got a nice chunk and basically borrowed and maxed out our savings to pay for the rest the grant didnt cover.

The grant gives money to couples making up to 200K a yr...so I'm sure if are having trouble affording it, you must be under those guidlines? ( sorry if that was presumptious of me to say).

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I have a similar story-we depleted an IRA and borrowed a small amount of money from family. I will say if you are going to do that to give yourself a few months-go organic, acupuncture, read the infertility cure by Randine Lewis and pre your body so you have the best chaces possible. We did that and were successful on our 1st IVF with an fsh of 14.9!

Posted 2/26/09 11:13 PM
 

LIBOUND
Texting king

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Suzy

Re: I just gotta get it out...

Posted by melijane

Posted by dm24angel

Im so sorry!

I have been where you were. Our Dr said 3-5 iuis till IVF. We ended up doing 13 IUIs for differnt reasons but we had no choice but to move to IVF and our insurance covered none of it.

We did apply for the grant and got a nice chunk and basically borrowed and maxed out our savings to pay for the rest the grant didnt cover.

The grant gives money to couples making up to 200K a yr...so I'm sure if are having trouble affording it, you must be under those guidlines? ( sorry if that was presumptious of me to say).

I wish you luck ! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I have a similar story-we depleted an IRA and borrowed a small amount of money from family. I will say if you are going to do that to give yourself a few months-go organic, acupuncture, read the infertility cure by Randine Lewis and pre your body so you have the best chaces possible. We did that and were successful on our 1st IVF with an fsh of 14.9!



Thank you, both. You make me see the light at the end of what I think is a verrrrry looooooooooooong tunnel for me.

I did apply for the grant two years ago and got a few $$, but didn't need it as I got my bfp on my last iui. I'm going to do it again to see what happens this time.

Posted 2/27/09 7:29 AM
 

LaurenExp
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I'm so sorry, Suzy Chat Icon

Posted 2/27/09 8:03 AM
 

spooks
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Re: I just gotta get it out...

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You're right about taking a stand with legislators - I don't know if they just don't have all the facts or they just don't care - but it needs to improve.

Posted 2/27/09 8:33 AM
 
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