One of my co-workers wive's had a baby girl this morning. Now I am feeling sad. I ran into them at the RE's office (of all places) we had IVF days apart, so had mine worked I would be a mom right now instead of waiting and waiting for my BFP.
It just irks me because they were not even married a year before they went to the RE. I have been TTC for almost 4 years now. ***!!!!!!! When willit be my turn.
Pity Party for One please. OK, my rant is over.
Maybe you can keep me in your thoughts this week. I have another IUI coming up (maybe this weekend).
Your frustration is normal. Id almost be a mom now too if it wasnt for my first m/c. Its tough to accept when you want it so bad and you see people around you having babies.
I understand how you feel - almost every cycle that we were trying to get a BFP either DH or I knew someone who got one ! The first baby was born in November - it's so hard being happy for them while you're so jealous at the same time.
Its 4 yrs for us too and still nothing. Its very very frustrating. Just want to get on with it already. I thought the hard part would be raising them. Big hug to you!!!!!
Vent away....it's what this board and all of us are here for!
Please..........I had to stop counting the pregnancies and births I've heard of and seen since we have been TTC over 2 years ago. It's almost like you just wanna say "Stop cutting the line, I was here first"! LOL
Totally normal, I save all my genuine happy feelings for truly loved ones, and my fake ones for aquaintances. I know sounds petty, but it's how I deal. I have seen girls have 2 kids in the amount of time DH and I have been trying, it stinks! But we will all get our turn
