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I have a REALLY stupid question....

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chelle
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Isn't it obvious?

I have a REALLY stupid question....

But something that I've been wondering...

Since the m/c there has been no sign of AF.

*IF* AF decides to show up, how would I know it wasn't another early m/c?

Will I be able to tell the difference? Because the m/c felt just like a really bad AF with cramping.

Does that make sense?

Message edited 11/11/2008 7:15:59 PM.

Posted 11/11/08 7:15 PM
 
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

I think through a blood test and your numbers.

Posted 11/11/08 7:17 PM
 

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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

I wish that I could help, but I can send Chat Icon

Posted 11/11/08 7:17 PM
 

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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

I wish that I could help, but I can send Chat Icon

Posted 11/11/08 7:17 PM
 

lolipep
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

That is not a stupid question.
When did you m/c?
cause I went throught the same thing

Posted 11/11/08 7:18 PM
 

chelle
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Posted by lolipep

That is not a stupid question.
When did you m/c?
cause I went throught the same thing



I started to m/c on Oct 11. One month ago Chat Icon

I used an OPK to get a surge, so DH and I BD and we're hoping for the best.

But if I start to bleed...how do I know it's not another m/c vs. AF?

Would I call the OB and explain the situation and they'd have me come in for blood work?

Posted 11/11/08 7:24 PM
 

maybeamommy
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Has your beta gone back down to <5?

If so, then maybe take another PG test around that time and see if it comes out positive...

Posted 11/11/08 7:25 PM
 

lolipep
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Blood work is your best bet
i'm sorry you're going through thisChat Icon

ButChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon to you

Posted 11/11/08 7:26 PM
 

chelle
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Oh it's ok. I'm not bleeding!!! Chat Icon

It's just been something I've been wondering about.

My Beta went into the negatives on oct 27th.

Posted 11/11/08 7:27 PM
 

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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Posted by chelle

Oh it's ok. I'm not bleeding!!! Chat Icon

It's just been something I've been wondering about.

My Beta went into the negatives on oct 27th.




I think only a blood test would tell you if you had a M/C (not talking about the old one)

Posted 11/11/08 8:12 PM
 

dm24angel
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Thats why they tell you to wait a full cycle. Im surprised that your OB didnt advise you to wait till AF came for that reason.

But...The only way I can think of to tell is to take an HPT when you get AF ( if you get it Chat Icon Chat Icon )...If its an early M/c, you "might" get a really faint + on the test. If you dont, I would rest assured your 99% sure thats its truly an AF...make sense? Or either way test at 14 days past when you got the + on the opk.

Hope it doesnt come and you dont have to wonder.

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Posted 11/11/08 8:43 PM
 

chelle
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Posted by dm24angel

Thats why they tell you to wait a full cycle. Im surprised that your OB didnt advise you to wait till AF came for that reason.




Actually my OB was quite supportive of us trying right away and gave us the OK since my numbers dropped into the negatives so quickly.

Posted 11/12/08 7:17 AM
 

diva7531
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Posted by chelle

Posted by dm24angel

Thats why they tell you to wait a full cycle. Im surprised that your OB didnt advise you to wait till AF came for that reason.




Actually my OB was quite supportive of us trying right away and gave us the OK since my numbers dropped into the negatives so quickly.



The only way would be a blood test, so you can call your OB and they will most likely suggest a blood test.

Posted 11/12/08 7:21 AM
 

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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Posted by chelle

Posted by dm24angel

Thats why they tell you to wait a full cycle. Im surprised that your OB didnt advise you to wait till AF came for that reason.




Actually my OB was quite supportive of us trying right away and gave us the OK since my numbers dropped into the negatives so quickly.



well if your numbers dropped into the negative a HPT test would work. have you taken one since and has it been negative? if so, if you take another one prior to when you are supposed to get AF and it is negative then you know it is AF. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/12/08 9:18 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: I have a REALLY stupid question....

Usually I tell people not to test until AF is late, but in your case I would start testing before AF is due and keep testing straight through. I know it will be disappointing to get BFNs for several days if you are not pregnant, but in your case I would really want to know if I miscarried again. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/12/08 9:58 AM
 
 

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