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I can't take this anymore

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Bridex100
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I can't take this anymore

I've never felt this sick ever! I feel so miserable. Chat Icon

The other day my friend said I didn't sound happy to be pregnant. I can't be happy. I feel too awful to be happy.

Posted 8/5/08 12:30 PM
 
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twinkletoes807
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Re: I can't take this anymore

It seems like forever, but you will feel better. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 12:33 PM
 

mamallama
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Re: I can't take this anymore

I feel for you Chat Icon

I was sick for 3 months...after 12 weeks I was fine...but just thinking of the first three months makes me sick all over again Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 12:43 PM
 

Blissful
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Maria

Re: I can't take this anymore

I am so sorry..... I know how you feel. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis....an extreme for of morning sickness.

I can't take any anti-emetics like zofran because of a past history of allergic reactions. I vomit usually 3-4 times a day....sometimes more.... it has been horrendous......

I will be brutally honest. I have had a few meltdowns where I regret being pregnant. It is very hard when you are constantly nauseous and vomiting........

my midwife said these feeling are normal, you are also dealing with crazy hormone changes.

All I can say is take 1 day at a time, 1 hour at a time or 1 minute at a time. Don't think, how am I going to keep doing this.............

Just take 1 minute at a time.... I know it is hard, and i'm not going to feel you "fluff".....................

Feel free to FM me anytime if you just need to vent!

I KNOW how hard it is...................

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Posted 8/5/08 12:47 PM
 

Bridex100
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Momx100

Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by Blissful

I am so sorry..... I know how you feel. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis....an extreme for of morning sickness.

I can't take any anti-emetics like zofran because of a past history of allergic reactions. I vomit usually 3-4 times a day....sometimes more.... it has been horrendous......

I will be brutally honest. I have had a few meltdowns where I regret being pregnant. It is very hard when you are constantly nauseous and vomiting........

my midwife said these feeling are normal, you are also dealing with crazy hormone changes.

All I can say is take 1 day at a time, 1 hour at a time or 1 minute at a time. Don't think, how am I going to keep doing this.............

Just take 1 minute at a time.... I know it is hard, and i'm not going to feel you "fluff".....................

Feel free to FM me anytime if you just need to vent!

I KNOW how hard it is...................

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Yesterday I just didn't want to be pregnant anymore. I know that is so terrible to even think but that is how awful I felt.

I got mad at DH for knocking me up so fast. He has been very sweet through my complaining and misery.

Posted 8/5/08 12:50 PM
 

Blissful
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Maria

Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by Bridex100

Posted by Blissful

I am so sorry..... I know how you feel. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis....an extreme for of morning sickness.

I can't take any anti-emetics like zofran because of a past history of allergic reactions. I vomit usually 3-4 times a day....sometimes more.... it has been horrendous......

I will be brutally honest. I have had a few meltdowns where I regret being pregnant. It is very hard when you are constantly nauseous and vomiting........

my midwife said these feeling are normal, you are also dealing with crazy hormone changes.

All I can say is take 1 day at a time, 1 hour at a time or 1 minute at a time. Don't think, how am I going to keep doing this.............

Just take 1 minute at a time.... I know it is hard, and i'm not going to feel you "fluff".....................

Feel free to FM me anytime if you just need to vent!

I KNOW how hard it is...................

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Yesterday I just didn't want to be pregnant anymore. I know that is so terrible to even think but that is how awful I felt.

I got mad at DH for knocking me up so fast. He has been very sweet through my complaining and misery.




Oh hun..... I KNOW!!!!! I've said it a few times.... I had a total meltdown this weekend because i'm also sick so I vomited 9 times. 3 of those times I got bloody noses while I was puking and 1 time I was puking, got a bloody nose and crapped myself because I was puking so hard..Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I was HYSTERICAL crying that I couldn't do it anymore.......

CRY, it helps. Aknowledge the feeling and move on with it..... this is so hormone based too.........

Your DH may get frustrated....mine has been dealing with this for 3 months and can't understand it because all of his co-workers keep telling him their wife never did this and this is abnormal.....doesn't make me feel any better....and then he sees how sick I am and comes and helps........

It's OK TO FEEL THE WAY YOU ARE......... that was the hardest thign for me. I felt like I was rejecting the baby......but my midwife keeps telling me to feel tha tfeelings and move on.....it sucks.....it totally does and its normal to have these feelings when you are so sick.

Please do not hesitate to EVER FM me!!!!

We will get through this!

Posted 8/5/08 12:57 PM
 

secretbabymaker
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Re: I can't take this anymore

I know how you feel last week i thought I was dying...I was vrying everyday!!!! I finally went out and bought the Sea Bands from CVS...I wear them all the time and they really helpChat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 12:58 PM
 

MrsRivera
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Beth

Re: I can't take this anymore

I know exactly what you're going through. I was able to take Zofran for my MS, so that wasn't that bad, but there are definitely times that I'm not happy to be pregnant. I'm in so much pain from a herniated disc in my back, and I know the pregnancy is making it 10 times worse.

Don't feel guilty--there are moments during the day where I'm NOT happy to be pregnant, which I hate--I went through infertility treatments to get here--don't be too hard on yourself. Chat Icon Hope you start feeling better soon!

Posted 8/5/08 1:37 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: I can't take this anymore

I had severe 24 hour nausea from 9-11.5 weeks. Nights were the worst part for me and I did cry. I have refused to complain though, and know that in the end, all the nausea, exhaustion, aches and pains will be worth it when I get to hold my little one for the first time. I spent enough time complaining through the 2 years it took me to get pregnant and promised myself when I was finally blessed with this miracle, I'll take what I'm given. That's just how I feel.

There's nothing wrong with how you feel, just try to remember, it's temporary! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 1:42 PM
 

hmm8191
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Heather

Re: I can't take this anymore

it'll get better....promise!

Posted 8/5/08 2:09 PM
 

mrsv
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lol

Re: I can't take this anymore

I know exactly how you feel. It would drive me crazy when everyone would tell me, " It will pass, don't worry." because I felt like I would be sick forever. I was miserable.

but...Everyone was right when they told me it would pass.... I was sick for 4 months, but suddenly it got better and ever since I have felt fantastic.

Take one day at a time, cry when you need to, it does help.... I remember telling Dh that I am never doing this again and I am having my tubes tied when this baby comes.....lol

i just kept telling myself that I will feel better and that at the end of this I am going to have a beautiful
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Good luck :)

Posted 8/5/08 3:14 PM
 

Bridex100
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Member since 3/08

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Momx100

Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by mrsv

I know exactly how you feel. It would drive me crazy when everyone would tell me, " It will pass, don't worry." because I felt like I would be sick forever. I was miserable.

but...Everyone was right when they told me it would pass.... I was sick for 4 months, but suddenly it got better and ever since I have felt fantastic.

Take one day at a time, cry when you need to, it does help.... I remember telling Dh that I am never doing this again and I am having my tubes tied when this baby comes.....lol

i just kept telling myself that I will feel better and that at the end of this I am going to have a beautiful
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Good luck :)



I told DH that this will be our only child.

I really don't think I will be able to go through this whole ordeal again.

Posted 8/5/08 3:16 PM
 

Lizzy
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Member since 2/08

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Name:
Elisabeth

Re: I can't take this anymore

Ok, I said the same thing to my OB this morning and he gave me an Rx for 2 meds. One of them is a suppository in case I am throwing up that bad Chat Icon

He also said to take a Unisom at night and I will sleep better AND wake up without m/s symptoms.

Ask your OB for help!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 4:47 PM
 

nicknmb
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Re: I can't take this anymore

I hear ya! I am about to go to the dentist and all I can think about is the fact that I am going to throw up on her!

Posted 8/5/08 4:53 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by Blissful

I am so sorry..... I know how you feel. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis....an extreme for of morning sickness.

I can't take any anti-emetics like zofran because of a past history of allergic reactions. I vomit usually 3-4 times a day....sometimes more.... it has been horrendous......

I will be brutally honest. I have had a few meltdowns where I regret being pregnant. It is very hard when you are constantly nauseous and vomiting........

my midwife said these feeling are normal, you are also dealing with crazy hormone changes.

All I can say is take 1 day at a time, 1 hour at a time or 1 minute at a time. Don't think, how am I going to keep doing this.............

Just take 1 minute at a time.... I know it is hard, and i'm not going to feel you "fluff".....................

Feel free to FM me anytime if you just need to vent!

I KNOW how hard it is...................

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i was also diagnosed with this and even with the Zofran I still throw up at leats once a night, before the medicine it was at least 4 times a day! Many of times I had a meltdown and I would wish that I never got pregnant and swore that this would be my one and only pregnancy (it still might be).

I know how you feel! It SUCKS!! But I'm sure it will get better for all of us suffering!Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 5:08 PM
 

Blissful
Ultimate Expression of LOVE

Member since 6/08

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Maria

Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by mpetretti

Posted by Blissful

I am so sorry..... I know how you feel. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis....an extreme for of morning sickness.

I can't take any anti-emetics like zofran because of a past history of allergic reactions. I vomit usually 3-4 times a day....sometimes more.... it has been horrendous......

I will be brutally honest. I have had a few meltdowns where I regret being pregnant. It is very hard when you are constantly nauseous and vomiting........

my midwife said these feeling are normal, you are also dealing with crazy hormone changes.

All I can say is take 1 day at a time, 1 hour at a time or 1 minute at a time. Don't think, how am I going to keep doing this.............

Just take 1 minute at a time.... I know it is hard, and i'm not going to feel you "fluff".....................

Feel free to FM me anytime if you just need to vent!

I KNOW how hard it is...................

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i was also diagnosed with this and even with the Zofran I still throw up at leats once a night, before the medicine it was at least 4 times a day! Many of times I had a meltdown and I would wish that I never got pregnant and swore that this would be my one and only pregnancy (it still might be).

I know how you feel! It SUCKS!! But I'm sure it will get better for all of us suffering!Chat Icon




Aww Marie... I'm sorry you are going through this too! It SUCKS!!! I just go minute by mnute every day. I'm glad that Zofran has helped some.......Feel better and you can always FM me when your having a SH***Y day! I WILL UNDERSTAND!

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Posted 8/5/08 5:14 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: I can't take this anymore

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I hope you feel better soon!

Posted 8/5/08 5:21 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by Blissful



Aww Marie... I'm sorry you are going through this too! It SUCKS!!! I just go minute by mnute every day. I'm glad that Zofran has helped some.......Feel better and you can always FM me when your having a SH***Y day! I WILL UNDERSTAND!

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Maria, I have no idea how you have dealt with this without the help of any medication!!! They just doubled my dosage on the medicine and I am still getting sick! I honestly couldnt imagine having gone through this without the medicine!! You are my heroChat Icon I was hoping that it would start to fade now that I'm in my 12th week but no such luck yet- how about you?

hopefully this will end soon and we can start to enjoy being pregnant!!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 5:23 PM
 

Bridex100
Two Under Two Mommy

Member since 3/08

10420 total posts

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Momx100

Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by mpetretti

Posted by Blissful



Aww Marie... I'm sorry you are going through this too! It SUCKS!!! I just go minute by mnute every day. I'm glad that Zofran has helped some.......Feel better and you can always FM me when your having a SH***Y day! I WILL UNDERSTAND!

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Maria, I have no idea how you have dealt with this without the help of any medication!!! They just doubled my dosage on the medicine and I am still getting sick! I honestly couldnt imagine having gone through this without the medicine!! You are my heroChat Icon I was hoping that it would start to fade now that I'm in my 12th week but no such luck yet- how about you?

hopefully this will end soon and we can start to enjoy being pregnant!!Chat Icon Chat Icon



When did you get the zofran subscribed?

My next appointment isn't for 2 weeks. I don't think I can wait that long.

Posted 8/5/08 5:26 PM
 

mrsv
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lol

Re: I can't take this anymore

Zofran was my miracle drug!! It really helped me. I was prescribed it at around 12 weeks. Def. ask the doc about it.

Posted 8/5/08 5:29 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by Bridex100



When did you get the zofran subscribed?

My next appointment isn't for 2 weeks. I don't think I can wait that long.



They prescribed it for me when I was 8 weeks and after dealing with throwing up everyday for 2 weeks! i had called after a week and they wouldn't prescribe it for me but when I went in a week later and saw me, how weak I was and how much I lost they then prescribed me the 4mg pill. This past Friday it was upped to a 8mg pill.

try calling- it can't hurt!!Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 5:29 PM
 

Alli06
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A

Re: I can't take this anymore

I'm 9 Weeks and I have been sick since about 5 1/2 Weeks. It is awful, and I feel your pain. I just want to feel normal again. I think the worst part is having to work.
As I keep getting told is that is will past. Trust me, I'm counting down the days.

Posted 8/5/08 5:36 PM
 

Blissful
Ultimate Expression of LOVE

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Maria

Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by mpetretti

Posted by Blissful



Aww Marie... I'm sorry you are going through this too! It SUCKS!!! I just go minute by mnute every day. I'm glad that Zofran has helped some.......Feel better and you can always FM me when your having a SH***Y day! I WILL UNDERSTAND!

Chat Icon



Maria, I have no idea how you have dealt with this without the help of any medication!!! They just doubled my dosage on the medicine and I am still getting sick! I honestly couldnt imagine having gone through this without the medicine!! You are my heroChat Icon I was hoping that it would start to fade now that I'm in my 12th week but no such luck yet- how about you?

hopefully this will end soon and we can start to enjoy being pregnant!!Chat Icon Chat Icon



Yeah It has totally sucked! Chat Icon Chat Icon

I hope its going to fade but I'm also sick now so i've been puking more beacause of the post nasal drip. My all time high was 9 X in 4 hours on Saturday, with a bloody nose and I crapped myself....Chat Icon Chat Icon

My poor DH didn't know what to do....stopp my bloody nose or get a bucket under my A**...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I laugh now but I sobbed and sobbed that night.........

All I keep thinking is this better be one cute kid and start sleeping through the night at 6 weeksChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 5:37 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: I can't take this anymore

Posted by Blissful



Yeah It has totally sucked! Chat Icon Chat Icon

I hope its going to fade but I'm also sick now so i've been puking more beacause of the post nasal drip. My all time high was 9 X in 4 hours on Saturday, with a bloody nose and I crapped myself....Chat Icon Chat Icon

My poor DH didn't know what to do....stopp my bloody nose or get a bucket under my A**...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I laugh now but I sobbed and sobbed that night.........

All I keep thinking is this better be one cute kid and start sleeping through the night at 6 weeksChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


OMG- You poor thing!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

We better be blessed with a baby that sleeps all night, but knowing my luck he/she will be colicChat Icon

Again- feel better!!Chat Icon

Are you working through all of this? Luckily I've been off all summer- I don't think I would've made it if I had had to work!

Posted 8/5/08 5:43 PM
 

lovemy2boys
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Re: I can't take this anymore


I was so sick I lost 11 pounds before zofran was prescribed to me. eventhen I was scared to take it bc i didn't want to harm the baby. I had a couple of meltdowns regretting getting pregnant (of course now I feel bad for thinking that) . I was sick for 4 months and it finally subsided, I really do feel your pain Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/08 5:46 PM
 
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