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I am the bad news bear-updated 7/8

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sometimesmommy
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I am the bad news bear-updated 7/8

So I am on TPN and they draw blood every 3 days (ALOT of blood) since its artifical nutrition well yesterday my hemoglobin came in at 7.7, lowest should be 8. They drew more blood for a repeat test but no one seems optimistic that the numbers will go up since its so low and the chances of my body making the blood up are slim...so I may have to get blood. I am so over everthing at this point. I know people say I am strong but I really cant wait not to be pregnant. I am worried enough that the only way the baby is safe is outside my body sicne my body keeps acting in a harmful way. I also hate that I am coming on here with you ladies and all I can bring to the table is bad news it seems. I cant wait for the day I can show you a pic of this little girl and say we did it. No need for hugs-I just needed to ventChat Icon

Update: 7/08
Saw three of my docs this morning and my hemoglobin is at a whopping 8.1Chat Icon I made the cut off of 8.0 for the blood transfusion but I am still low and anemic. SO I have to get iron 3X a day and colace cause I will be constipated. They are going to draw blood once a week instead of every 3 days. As long as I stay over an 8 I wont need the blood. So its a fine line that I hope we make for the next 7 weeks. Chat Icon

Message edited 7/8/2007 12:13:10 PM.

Posted 7/7/07 12:53 PM
 
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LIBOUND
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

LISTEN TO ME....

You come on seventy thousand times a day if you need to. We are all here for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 7/7/07 12:57 PM
 

sweetie

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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

It'll be over soon. You're being monitored so you are in the best place you could be.

Posted 7/7/07 12:58 PM
 

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Posted 7/7/07 1:00 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Posted by LIBOUND

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ITA.

Vent away. We're here for all of the trials and tribulations as well as the happinesss that follows as well.

Posted 7/7/07 1:37 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

If we came on here to *not* vent, there would be a problem. You have every right to look for comfort in us. That's why we are all here. Otherwise there would be one post on this board entitled 'I have the best pregnancy ever!' And it would be from 1950. Chat Icon

We are here for you as much as you have been here for us. Prayers are always needed and it's nice to know there are many here. You hang in there and we'll pray with you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon And since we due around the same time, we'll have a drink together when this is all done! Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/07 1:38 PM
 

curliegirl
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Vent away, that's why we are here, to share the good as well as the bad.

Everyone needs a shoulder to lean on or just an ear to listen.

We are all here for you, and everyone else too!

We all can't wait to see your little bundle as well!

Posted 7/7/07 1:39 PM
 

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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Oh honey....I learned a long time ago that sometimes all we need is to know that someone understands...On here you have a ton of women who understand....

Posted 7/7/07 2:09 PM
 

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Posted 7/7/07 3:15 PM
 

Phoebee
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

ITA w/ Heather!!! Although we can not completely understand exactly what you're going through, we can empathise!

By no means am I comparing or saying I was in the same boat, but, my baby was better off outside of me than inside. It literally broke my heart and I don't know why my body couldn't provide the baby the nutrients it needed- still don't. What I do know now is, it doesnt' matter. I look at this angel and if she's better off outside, than, at least she's healthy and getting what she needs. She's getting a surplus of love from us, that's what I CAN give her.

YOu'll have your angel in your arms soon enough and everything you're going through will be a distant memory.
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Posted 7/7/07 3:38 PM
 

alexlynn7
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

we are ALWAYS here to listen to the good AND the bad!!

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Posted 7/7/07 4:24 PM
 

dooodles
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Posted by nrthshgrl

Posted by LIBOUND

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ITA.

Vent away. We're here for all of the trials and tribulations as well as the happinesss that follows as well.




Exactly!!! Vent it all out to us - good or bad! And we cannot wait to see a picture of that beautiful little girl Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/07 5:47 PM
 

smdl
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Listen girl... you have gone through so much that I can't blame you for not wanting it to be over. Really!!!

I cannot imagine being in your situation. So I totally applaude you for your strength.

Venting is good....that's why we are all here. That's one way to let it go.

Hang in there. It will be over soon.

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Posted 7/7/07 5:50 PM
 

debsey75
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Vent all you need, we are all here for you. Things will get better, you are strong, so hang in there a little longer.

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Posted 7/7/07 5:52 PM
 

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Posted 7/7/07 9:00 PM
 

snuggleupagus
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

awww...This has been a long, hard road for you and it will get better. Why some women go through the pain you are is beyond me, but you've been so strong for so long, I have faith you can endure it as long as you need to.

Would I like to see you come on here and say everything is perfect and you've made a miraculous recovery and your baby is no longer "at risk" in any way? YES I WOULD...but only because it's so sad to hear otherwise! Feel free to cry, whine and complain away...that's what the board is for.

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Posted 7/7/07 9:08 PM
 

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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

That's why we're here Sweetie, you come on day and night and tell us whatever you need to tell us. You may not feel like it anymore but you ARE strong!!! You're doing beautifully! We are always here to listen! Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/07 9:49 PM
 

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Posted 7/7/07 10:14 PM
 

Bklyngrl
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

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that's right - i agree. this is why we are fortunate to have this board and each other, to vent, to share, to cry, to complain, to laugh , to ask!!! You have every right to feel frustrated by now - - you are almost there and i'm sending you a hug anyway Chat Icon and one for the baby Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/07 10:39 PM
 

DUCKS2001
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

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totally agree!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Posted 7/7/07 10:43 PM
 

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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

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Posted 7/7/07 11:31 PM
 

sometimesmommy
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Re: I am the bad news bear-another chapter to my saga

Ladies thank you so much. I really needed to hear that it was ok. It has been a really difficult pregnancy and each time we seem to get a handle on one issue something else comes up. It helps so much to come on this site and vent to you ladies as well as share our milestones.
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Posted 7/8/07 12:07 PM
 

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We are always here for you!! The good times and the bad!!!

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Posted 7/8/07 12:10 PM
 

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Posted 7/8/07 12:14 PM
 

waterspout4
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Re: I am the bad news bear-updated 7/8

Posted by sometimesmommy

Update: 7/08
Saw three of my docs this morning and my hemoglobin is at a whopping 8.1Chat Icon I made the cut off of 8.0 for the blood transfusion but I am still low and anemic. SO I have to get iron 3X a day and colace cause I will be constipated. They are going to draw blood once a week instead of every 3 days. As long as I stay over an 8 I wont need the blood. So its a fine line that I hope we make for the next 7 weeks. Chat Icon



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Posted 7/8/07 12:15 PM
 
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