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howdo you stay positive?

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LClongisland
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howdo you stay positive?

We've been TTC for 9 months now-- I have a follow up with my OBGYN in march-- but how do you stay positive after all of the negative tests month after month..

Posted 2/7/18 9:47 AM
 
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Momma2015
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Re: howdo you stay positive?

Ugh, I know how hard it is. We tried for almost a year before I got pregnant with my DD. I kept thinking it was never going to happen. But when it did... the timing was just so right. And I look at my DD and think to myself if I had gotten pregnant a month earlier, I'd never know her... I'm sure I'd love any child just as much, but as cliche as it is, I feel like we were just waiting for HER, not for any baby, but for her. I hope you get that same feeling when it happens for you. Chat Icon I know the wait is hard but it's worth it.

Posted 2/7/18 11:41 AM
 

Babygaga
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howdo you stay positive?

We tried for a very long time for my first. I would sometimes cry when I got my period. I was motivated and hopeful every time because I wanted it very badly, but every negative was difficult.

Posted 2/7/18 1:09 PM
 

LClongisland
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Re: howdo you stay positive?

Thank you both-- this was so sweet to read! I hope i do too!

Message edited 2/7/2018 1:21:25 PM.

Posted 2/7/18 1:20 PM
 

Momma2015
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Re: howdo you stay positive?

Posted by LClongisland

Thank you both-- this was so sweet to read! I hope i do too!



Chat Icon And it's totally fine to feel down. It's exhausting... mentally, emotionally, physically... the thing is not to let it keep you down. I always allowed myself to wallow on the first day of AF... sometimes I'd let myself wallow all through AF and then I'd try to pick myself up and move onto the next month!

Posted 2/7/18 2:17 PM
 

Tjoy71177
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Member since 10/18

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howdo you stay positive?

I saw you were also from long island my hubby and I started last year fertility very frustrating did 3 cycles of Clomid nothing who your doctor hope to hear back.

Posted 10/3/18 2:37 PM
 
 

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