How would u handle this?

I dont not have the greatest relatiosnhip with my IL'S. i have heard that they are expecting to watch our baby a couple of times a week. this was NEVER discussed and Im fuming bc they think they will be doing that. i have a family too. PLUS i wont be working for a few months so what the HELL??? do i ignore this? i mean in the end i will do what i want to do with my child

Re: How would u handle this?

I would ignore it for now. Once the baby comes & you've settled what you're doing in terms of childcare, I'd let them know. Don't knock help. You may need them later to pitch in.

Re: How would u handle this?

Definitely not worth fighting about now. Deal with it when the time comes. You need as little stress as possible.

Re: How would u handle this?

I wouldn't handle it just yet. When the time comes and you're going back to work, then it can be a discussion. But in the meantime, I wouldn't start trouble over it- especially since it's nice to have the option of dropping the baby off somwhere just so you can have some alone time, get a manicure, go food shopping, etc...