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How long after you were dating your DH....

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robynfs
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How long after you were dating your DH....

did he become your boyfriend?

When did he meet your family?

Message edited 10/17/2005 3:15:27 PM.

Posted 10/17/05 3:15 PM
 
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nrthshgrl
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

2 weeks before the "exclusive conversation" took place. He asked me out for that weekend but I said I couldn't I had plans on both Friday & Saturday (yes dates). Than he asked "Are we exclusive?" so I said "We haven't talked about it so I assumed not." He said "I'd like to only date you, would you want to be exclusive?" I said "Can I call you right back?" Called both guys, cancelled both dates, called him back and said "Yes, I'd like to be exclusive - and now I"m free both Friday & Saturday."

Met parents at about the 2 month mark.

Posted 10/17/05 3:20 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We moved really fast, so I'm not the best person to go by..

We were pretty much 'official' bf/gf one month into the relationship...

He met my family shortly thereafter..maybe 2 months?

I actually met his Mom and Dad beofre he met mine, only 2 weeks into it (we were going to a big 4th of July thing at friends of the family, and his parents were also there )


But prior to DH with other boyfriends, it usually became "official" anywhere around the 3 month mark or so

Message edited 10/17/2005 3:26:44 PM.

Posted 10/17/05 3:21 PM
 

june262004
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

Well we were only 14 and 15 when we met so we are different!

Posted 10/17/05 3:22 PM
 

MrsDiamondgrlie
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We "dated" for about 3 months and then he met my family right away.

Posted 10/17/05 3:23 PM
 

MelissaG
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We talked long distance for about 5 months, and then when we finally started dating, it was really quick...about 3 weeks.

Posted 10/17/05 3:28 PM
 

Ali1
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We "hung out" for about 2 months. He met my family right after we became offical.

Posted 10/17/05 3:39 PM
 

Juliet
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We were friends for three years before we even kissed and then it was about two months of figuring out and then we were an item. By that point we had met each other's parents as friends.

Posted 10/17/05 3:39 PM
 

ChristineR
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

Posted by robynfs

did he become your boyfriend?

When did he meet your family?



We went on a couple of dates before "officially" becoming boyfriend/girlfriend. It was probably a month or so.

He knew my family before dating. It took me a month to finally have dinner with his.
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Posted 10/17/05 3:57 PM
 

nov04libride
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

I met his family our second date. He told me he loved me after 2 weeks. I think we were always exclusive from our first date. Chat Icon Scratch that, until a few weeks in when I broke up with my ex (who I hadn't seen in months but needed to officially break up with).

Posted 10/17/05 4:02 PM
 

robynfs
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

Okay, I was trying to see if we were rushing things a bit... but looks like we aren't. It's been about two months and after about 2-3 weeks we were exclusive and then after about a month and a half he's my boyfriend. He's meeting my family next weekend Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 4:04 PM
 

AJsMommy122
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

I think it was about a month later. He met my mom before that even, but I didn't let him meet my dad for a few months later ( and even then they met by accidentChat Icon )

Me on the other hand... I refused to meet his parents right away.. Its was quite a few months after we were "officially" dating until I finally went to meet them

Posted 10/17/05 4:56 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

he became by 'boyfriend' about a month into dating.

he had already met my family, and known them for about 20 years actually...we grew up together. Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 5:44 PM
 

heidla
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We never really had the "boyfriend/girlfriend talk". I think that it just became understood shortly after we started dating. I met his parents after 2 weeks. Neither of us is from NY so they were in town and came into where I work to met me and hear me sing. I was so nervous that night!!

Posted 10/17/05 5:47 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

We had the "Boyfriend/girlfriend" talk after about a month and we met families after 3 months.

Posted 10/17/05 5:51 PM
 

btrflygrl
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

hmmm...let's see....we "met" on a Thur night, went to the movies Fri night, he came to my house (parents) and met them briefly, and then on Sun I went to his house and met his family....and on Monday night he asked me if he could call me his girlfriend

Posted 10/17/05 5:57 PM
 

ggt08
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Re: How long after you were dating your DH....

i have been dating my guys for almost 7 months. We never had the official talk- things just naturally progressed. First the dates, then the sleepover visits- he lives an hour from me,
then the hi, its me messages, then going from hi its so and so to hi baby or sweetie or honey, then the U2 concert, he met my family, I met his brother and sister in law a few times. We havent said the I love you part yet....

Its so funny because on Z100 a few weeks ago they talked about dating someone and having their picture up. One of the dj's whose dating this girl for a year still doesnt have her pic up. It got me thinking. So one night I had a talk with him about where we stand and we both said we didnt want to see other people. the next time I went to his house our picture was up on his fridge in one of those frames...
he got the hint!!!

Posted 10/17/05 6:17 PM
 
 

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