LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

Horror stories?

Posted By Message

DumpsterBaby
My compass when I'm lost

Member since 5/11

2210 total posts

Name:
My anchor when I get tossed

Horror stories?

Did you have people tell you horror stories about buying a house? Questioning the bank you're using? Putting the fear of god in you that your DP and CC are going to skyrocket as soon as you put in an offer? I had two women give me so much information I'm feeling sick! I'm terrified that we are doing something wrong and now I want to keep renting Chat Icon

Posted 2/14/12 11:07 PM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource
  |   Prudential Douglas Elliman Real Estate

LSP2005
Bunny kisses are so cute!

Member since 5/05

19454 total posts

Name:
L

Re: Horror stories?

We only put 500 as our initial down payment. It was not until the contracts were signed and we had a way to get the bulk of our money back g-d forbid there were closing issues that we put more money down. My feeling is that while it would stink to loose 500, I would not want to put more down in case there are other issues. What is CC?

Posted 2/14/12 11:17 PM
 

Christine Braun - Signature Premier Properties
LIFamilies Business

Member since 2/11

3992 total posts

Name:

Re: Horror stories?

With real estate, everyone is a self-proclaimed expert. It is so different from when I practiced law -- then everyone sought after and respected my expertise. As a professional realtor, it's more of an uphill climb, because everyone thinks they know your business!

First, you have to remember that most people have only bought or sold real estate a couple of times in their lives, and it may have been years ago. So they may not be recalling their experiences correctly, and the rules regarding financing and other procedures have most likely changed significantly. Also, everyone's experience is different. It's like when you have kids and you get an onslaught of well-meaning advice from btdt moms. You need to take it with a grain of salt. When it comes to your own house buying situtation/circumstances, just like when it comes to your own child, YOU know best.

Also, some people read one general news article and then spout off information that has nothing to do with the local real estate market here.

And remember - everyone loves to tell their own horror stories. Again, it's like when people talk about their childbirth horror stories... for some reason, people love sharing how everything went wrong. But they are probably exaggerating, and if everything went perfectly, it wouldn't be a great story, right?

But buying a house is a big transaction, and you should make sure that you are working with reputable and knowledgeable experts in their field -- you need a realtor, a loan officer, an attorney, and a home inspector you can trust. If you have all of those people in place, you will be able to get all of your questions answered and resolve any issue that arises before it turns into a "horror story." If you are already working with a realtor, attorney, and mortgage lender that you like/trust, then they are the ones whose advice you should be taking.

As far as your down payment -- if you are getting an FHA loan, as long as you have 3.5% down, you are good. For a conventional loan, your mortgage lender will tell you how much you need to put down to qualify for the loan. Usually it's 10%, but some people can put down as little as 5%. Closing costs will vary, and a big part of it is usually taxes (if you close in the middle of a tax period, you have to reimburse the seller for what they paid out at the beginning, since they didn't occupy the house for the entire period). But again, a good mortgage person can estimate for you what you will need to pay at closing. If you have concerns about these issues, your contact at the mortgage lender should be able to alleviate them!

Good luck, and try to enjoy your house hunt! It's an exciting step, but it should be fun.

Chat Icon

Posted 2/15/12 9:25 AM
 

dottiemchugh
<3

Member since 5/05

8261 total posts

Name:

Re: Horror stories?

You will find that with every major life event people will tell you the worst stories EVER. Whether its getting married, having a baby, and buying a house. Don't listen to them. Don't let someone rain on your parade.

Posted 2/15/12 10:25 AM
 

Beth Lowe at Coach Realtors
LIFamilies Business

Member since 4/10

281 total posts

Name:
Beth- Coach Realtors

Re: Horror stories?

it's very common that people try to scare you

if I listened to all the nay sayers in my life I wouldn't even be a real estate agent

when we meet I will help put your mind at ease...I do this every day and it's not scary I promise

Message edited 2/15/2012 11:32:18 AM.

Posted 2/15/12 11:32 AM
 

ModDot
PUMPKIN ALL THE THINGS

Member since 8/11

2196 total posts

Name:
Trissy

Re: Horror stories?

Posted by DumpsterBaby

Did you have people tell you horror stories about buying a house? Questioning the bank you're using? Putting the fear of god in you that your DP and CC are going to skyrocket as soon as you put in an offer? I had two women give me so much information I'm feeling sick! I'm terrified that we are doing something wrong and now I want to keep renting Chat Icon



Is one of them my MIL? BC she's pissing me off.

Posted 2/15/12 12:03 PM
 

DumpsterBaby
My compass when I'm lost

Member since 5/11

2210 total posts

Name:
My anchor when I get tossed

Re: Horror stories?

Thank you so much everyone! My head was spinning last night and I googled things I probably shouldn't have and scared myself even more Chat Icon Chat Icon

Beth, I can't wait to meet with you next week!

Posted 2/15/12 2:43 PM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
Share your worst kiddie horror stories! Mushesgirl 3/17/11 10 Childfree Families!
post your MIL horror stories! LoveBeingMrsT 10/20/07 23 Parenting
Work horror stories....please share JustCallMeJJ 10/2/07 5 Families Helping Families ™
Where are my horror movie peeps at? Just saw an awesome movie... lipglossjunky73 9/30/07 13 Families Helping Families ™
the HORROR! No more birthday cupcakes in school! Ophelia 9/17/07 79 Families Helping Families ™
My recent salon horror story makes me wonder...if you could have anyone's hair, who would it be? johnsae 8/15/06 48 Families Helping Families ™
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 316798 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows