help me with some numbers

I think you girls are all alot wiser with numbers, timing etc than me.
please help - i'm freakin out a little!

last period started 7/8
I BD on Saturday 7/19
28 day cycle

I'm pretty sure I'm Ovulating today.

Did I hit a BIG day ?
websites seem to think so ?

I'm freaking out a little because :

a) I wanted to wait until next month to TTC (maternity pay kicks in next month)
b) I've had 2 miscarriages. So I am starting to get the nervous what if's already.

I can't even tell you how nervous I am getting, I only figured out 3 hours ago that I was ovulating and I'm already scared of a miscarriage. I hadn't fully emotionally prepared myself yet for the possibility of pregnancy/miscarriage.

obviously, I could care less about the maternity $$ if I get a healthy baby. It was just part of my planning & I'm a planner
Please send me sticky vibes just in case!!

Thanks for letting me freak out.

Re: help me with some numbers

Your nervousness is completely understandable. Maybe you should wait till next month to start if it will help relieve some of the stress when it comes to the pay?

Whatever you do we are all here for you!

Re: help me with some numbers

I mean, sure there is a possibility that you COULD get pregnant if you BD's 3 days ago, but the chances are not great

JMO